Wives/Marriage/Unhappiness

[Jinxed]

I'm a Ford Cortina

Why........

[Jinxed]

I received an invitation to a wedding in the post today, the last thing I want to do is go to a wedding, I might take a couple of escorts with me, that would certainly give them something to gossip about

And give some of the other husband's a scary day hoping the escort doesn't get drunk and let something slip.

[Jinxed]

I just don't think that people who have never been married should be giving advice on marriage... seems a bit arrogant for them to think they know what's going on?

True. I only know marriage from seeing other people. It looks boring as fuck tho

[Ryankelvin]

Marriage is not all bad , having kids I think is one of the greatest things that can happen anyone, especially if parents and kids love each other. There will be great times and rotten times but ultimately people drift apart or take each other for granted That’s life , nothing’s perfect , u just have to make the best of what u got

[Nikkita]

Seems. It's not just about sex. So much more.

Yup the mortgage, car repayments and Tommy's braces

[Nikkita]

Tommy's Braces yes. Being a parent is the best thing that ever happened to me, literally, to get serious for a moment...

Children don't ask to be born, parents just want to own a pet that they can teach to talk.

I think a truly selfless act is adoption. That's where I'm headed once I get my act together...

[manofsteel]

Very nearly 30 years married w,virtually a sexless marriage, punting means getting my rocks off without any emotional investment .
Is this reason enough to pack your marriage in even if you still love this person ???

[bmw528]

Wow you're so unselfish and noble

I dont have any children to worry about, however only a selfish Fuck would run out on his family in favour of his Flute.. You can still have play time without running away from your responsibilities in my view. Nobody needs to know everything.

[Jinxed]

Very nearly 30 years married w,virtually a sexless marriage, punting means getting my rocks off without any emotional investment .
Is this reason enough to pack your marriage in even if you still love this person ???

You're in a sexless marriage. Maybe it suits you because you're bisexual. You're about 50 and you married young to hide your bisexuality.
And you called your wife a person, does she know you are not heterosexual. I imagine she does.

So your setup suits you for many reasons. Am I close to total accuracy.

[Jinxed]

Not sure about other guys but I find that I get two weeks a month that is good but the two weeks I just don’t want to be together. The mood swings are tough. And I mean tough on her. Guys have it way easier with emotions. The problem is that when I become close again some stupid fuckin issue causes a silly petty argument and that can last for days. That causes me massive stress and unbelievable insomnia. That’s when I’d prefer to be on my own.

We have it far easier than women in many respects. Too many emotions involved in being a woman. Do you know that we all start off as girls in the womb. Thank fuck we didn't stay as girls.