Attitude put me off

[casman]

Josie and Cgerry has hit the nail on the head here, end of discussion tbh.

[FetishCherry]

I don’t see why the make-up was an issue for you. You said she is a nice lady, so what is the make-up got to do with her personality?
Also, if you were her regular and a bit familiar to her, you should have tried talking with her instead of laughing in her face and leave. She is probably alone here, no one to talk to etc etc.
Do you have any idea how many bad moods we see a week or how much we absorb the bad vibes from our clients? If you really saw her as a person and not only a service provider, you would’ve tried and make her smile, leaving her place happier for makin someones day better.

Excuse me, but you are a selfish **** of a punter.

As for the lady, hope she is in a better mood now and seriously consider who to see in the future.

So true Lexie! One of the first thing i learned when i became escort was that what make very hard to do this job is not to have sex with strangers ,but the mental challenge we facing in daily basis. Guys who ring wanking on the phone, guys who book appointments and not show up and when u try to contact them phone switched off, not even to send a text with sorry i cant make it something came up , guys who offer u 50 for ''just a blowjob'', guys who ask u for a date or ask for discount because he is :''young and good looking'', guys who send u picture wtit his cock hard and text :'' do u want him?'',guys who tell u to go in your country , or guys upset u dont wanna see them and call u whore and f..kng prostitute etc, every day u have to have at list one call who upset u in some way , personally is doesn't affect me rude people, u cant ask them what they dont have: basic manners but what piss me off a lot is not seriosity, people who book appointments and don't come. Time Wasters. I dont double book because i respect my clients time but would be so nice to be treated same, and my time to be respected as well......if for some reason u will not come pls send a text darling , its not big deal , is a small thing but means so much....Then i will know u dont come and i can accept other booking not stay around waiting for u and u not even bother about , or the worse when i ring u to ask if u are in late u answer and ask: sorry whats your name?

[FetishCherry]

It is clear that you want a professional relationship no strings no feelings.

I think most of us do develop feelings when we met and would be interested to know how the other person was feeling that she was so out of character and in bad form.

What happened to the lady, had someone been bad to her, had she got bad news just before you arrived, did someone before you cry on her shoulder about their relatives who died or are dying of cancer causing her to be left alone with her own memories and no time to reset before you arrived?

Did you wonder about her in that way or did you think, she left me standing, I am a client, I pay her she is bad she is wrong I am a customer.

Takes all sorts we are who we are.

Its hard almost impossible to work when u just got bad news ... i know what u saying and is nice and human but the reality i think its that as a horny client u dont want to know about the escort problems, bad news etc , is not your gf u just want what u pay for... very few guys will be considerate and understand her mood , i have been thru this tough times when my younger brother died , i had to work as my rent have to be paid so i closed my heart with a key and for one hr or half an hr i was just Cherry , but i had and one regular client who knew me very well and asked me at the arrival what happened , i told him about my brother and he left me the money and said, Cherry i know u cant work and is not right to 'force ' u to smile and in same time i know u need money if u cant really work ,i give u the money but i dont stay. when u will feel better let me know and i will come then'' A wonderful man, i was not expecting but was very nice from him...

[seancaseykinky]

I’m reading your comments Cherry and I’m feeling really ashamed because I’ve never really thought about such things.
I know this makes me a horrible person.
From now on I will totally change my view when someone is cranky or rude and ask if something is wrong.
To be honest it will be a while before I meet a girl again as I will be thinking of your words.
I’m sorry that people are such pricks to you.
I’ve always been thought to be mannerly and assumed most men would be the same.
Nobody should have to put up with abuse.

[Punter08]

Its hard almost impossible to work when u just got bad news ... i know what u saying and is nice and human but the reality i think its that as a horny client u dont want to know about the escort problems, bad news etc , is not your gf u just want what u pay for... very few guys will be considerate and understand her mood , i have been thru this tough times when my younger brother died , i had to work as my rent have to be paid so i closed my heart with a key and for one hr or half an hr i was just Cherry , but i had and one regular client who knew me very well and asked me at the arrival what happened , i told him about my brother and he left me the money and said, Cherry i know u cant work and is not right to 'force ' u to smile and in same time i know u need money if u cant really work ,i give u the money but i dont stay. when u will feel better let me know and i will come then'' A wonderful man, i was not expecting but was very nice from him...

I’m reading your comments Cherry and I’m feeling really ashamed because I’ve never really thought about such things.
I know this makes me a horrible person.
From now on I will totally change my view when someone is cranky or rude and ask if something is wrong.
To be honest it will be a while before I meet a girl again as I will be thinking of your words.
I’m sorry that people are such pricks to you.
I’ve always been thought to be mannerly and assumed most men would be the same.
Nobody should have to put up with abuse.

Good advice guys and also good to see the human side to the industry. It sends a clear message that punters and escorts care about each others feelings.
We are only human after all.

[Mr Sweet Guy]

I’m reading your comments Cherry and I’m feeling really ashamed because I’ve never really thought about such things.
I know this makes me a horrible person.
From now on I will totally change my view when someone is cranky or rude and ask if something is wrong.
To be honest it will be a while before I meet a girl again as I will be thinking of your words.
I’m sorry that people are such pricks to you.
I’ve always been thought to be mannerly and assumed most men would be the same.
Nobody should have to put up with abuse.

Well it good when a person see their mistake and try to correct it. As I have made many mistake in life. That is sign of person who know and take his conscience of himself and other into consideration.

Yes you should ask what was troubling her as I met a Escort few years back now. She had a drunking guy assault and rob her of her money. I met her a week after that incident, which i didn't walk out and leave her. I sat and listen to her, which it was a comfort for her. Because she work alone and in the end she felt relief to open up and tell me her fear.

Sad part was when she cry, as I was afraid to put arm around her. So I hand her some tissue from her box. She caught the tissue and threw them on the bed and just hug me and wept with emotion. That did put me off seeing Escorts for long time, as I felt like sh*t after with guilt of been there hoping for business fun.

But yes chap if I was you now, and you say you enjoy her company. Then send her apologies text and say you like to meet her again one day to show you where wrong.

I do commend you on standing up and been a gent to admit your mistake. But I also understand now you feel guilt and saying it be a while before you meet another Lady. As what happen there, it certainly would play on my mind and conscience to.

My advice to you chap is, don't be too hard on yourself, as you own up to your mistake. Which first I do now is, book another Lady soon and show her your gent side. Because longer you leave it, more it eat away at your subconscious chap. Sometime it take other to show you, and I or we are not always right, even when we think we are.

First step to redemption is apologizing when we are wrong, as the 2nd act is to take action and hope they see we trying to correct our mistake.

I am not perfect far from it, and if honest their is better (Gent clients) out there then me. But I always put other person need and feeling first before my own. Sometime for a Lady a stranger to talk and listen to make a better meeting, then a gent who think of only of himself own need.

But do text her and say you are truly sorry and hope all ok with her. Hopefully she meet you again, and give you chance to see in your past meeting with her. It was just a bad day for you both chap.

Good luck chap !

[FetishCherry]

So true Lexie! One of the first thing i learned when i became escort was that what make very hard to do this job is not to have sex with strangers ,but the mental challenge we facing in daily basis. Guys who ring wanking on the phone, guys who book appointments and not show up and when u try to contact them phone switched off, not even to send a text with sorry i cant make it something came up , guys who offer u 50 for ''just a blowjob'', guys who ask u for a date or ask for discount because he is :''young and good looking'', guys who send u picture wtit his cock hard and text :'' do u want him?'',guys who tell u to go in your country , or guys upset u dont wanna see them and call u whore and f..kng prostitute etc, every day u have to have at list one call who upset u in some way , personally is doesn't affect me rude people, u cant ask them what they dont have: basic manners but what piss me off a lot is not seriosity, people who book appointments and don't come. Time Wasters. I dont double book because i respect my clients time but would be so nice to be treated same, and my time to be respected as well......if for some reason u will not come pls send a text darling , its not big deal , is a small thing but means so much....Then i will know u dont come and i can accept other booking not stay around waiting for u and u not even bother about , or the worse when i ring u to ask if u are in late u answer and ask: sorry whats your name?

Talking about the sh..it we have to deal on daily basis who can easily spoil your mood if u not strong mental lol .Just got a message... and day just started lol... probably more will come until the end hahahah . But i dont give a sh..it . I learned that in life u have to not be very sensibile and suffer for any word or action someone do to you , u have to have a very thick skin to can go thru life still with smile on your face. I attach the text just for fun but i removed his number of course i protect his data
goood girlll... )

[FetishCherry]

I’m reading your comments Cherry and I’m feeling really ashamed because I’ve never really thought about such things.
I know this makes me a horrible person.
From now on I will totally change my view when someone is cranky or rude and ask if something is wrong.
To be honest it will be a while before I meet a girl again as I will be thinking of your words.
I’m sorry that people are such pricks to you.
I’ve always been thought to be mannerly and assumed most men would be the same.
Nobody should have to put up with abuse.

YOu dont have to feel ashamed , u seems a nice guy the way you talk and educated person , sometimes we react at the moment impulse and i guess when u horny and unpacient to play with a hot girl the last thing u want is to see her angry and moaning , understandable u reacted like this , sometimes is happening when the escort is not in the right playful mood but still have to work and she is not a good actress to dissimulate lol like me , i,m not saying to you to stay as probably u will be turned off and all your desire to play to go out of the window , some guys can get quick over it , others dont, not everybody can switch the mood rapidly when is spoiled but then just politely leave and come back other time ... to stop visiting your regular girl just because of this small incident will be wrong... I understand from posts she is a very nice girl so will be shame to loose her only for a ..misunderstanding. I would say if u have a nice girl u visit regularly dont just renunce so quick to her , there are plenty who will take your money and dont give a sh.. how satisfied u are and maybe they will welcome you with a big smile on their face ))

[FetishCherry]

I’m reading your comments Cherry and I’m feeling really ashamed because I’ve never really thought about such things.
I know this makes me a horrible person.
From now on I will totally change my view when someone is cranky or rude and ask if something is wrong.
To be honest it will be a while before I meet a girl again as I will be thinking of your words.
I’m sorry that people are such pricks to you.
I’ve always been thought to be mannerly and assumed most men would be the same.
Nobody should have to put up with abuse.

And about putting up with abuse this is happening in all jobs where u work with people. Everybody who work in costumer service know what im talking about. MY grandfather used to say :'' the most difficult work is to work with people, always will be someone unhappy, u cant make everybody happy'' . But i think in escorting we ut more then in other jobs , because many guys think if they pay u will HAVE to accept him i mean how u dare to refuse him )) and i,m a little bad girl here when they start to call me names because i dont want to see them i send them texts to piss them off for example once i text to the guy :'' i,m so sorry huny u got so cross because i dont wanna see u , must be very difficult for u as a man to realize that not even a prostitute dont want to share the bed with u '' )) i never was rude with them , never, i will never lower my standards and forget my manners my parents teached me as a child and be like them . BUt in my mind... i call them all the bad words u ever heard

[seancaseykinky]

The funny thing is that I never had sex with an escort. I’m with a girl and wouldn’t never cheat on her but I love Domination and she’s not into it so I go to the Escorts for this.
The Escort could have got into character and kicked the shit out of me and got rid of her frustrations.
I won’t go back though and I think I might be done with it all.
However it’s easy to say that now when I’ve no desire.
Maybe next week my desire to dominated will kick in.

And about putting up with abuse this is happening in all jobs where u work with people. Everybody who work in costumer service know what im talking about. MY grandfather used to say :'' the most difficult work is to work with people, always will be someone unhappy, u cant make everybody happy'' . But i think in escorting we ut more then in other jobs , because many guys think if they pay u will HAVE to accept him i mean how u dare to refuse him )) and i,m a little bad girl here when they start to call me names because i dont want to see them i send them texts to piss them off for example once i text to the guy :'' i,m so sorry huny u got so cross because i dont wanna see u , must be very difficult for u as a man to realize that not even a prostitute dont want to share the bed with u '' )) i never was rude with them , never, i will never lower my standards and forget my manners my parents teached me as a child and be like them . BUt in my mind... i call them all the bad words u ever heard