Attitude put me off

[seancaseykinky]

I met a young lady this morning.
I’ve met this lady on several occasions and have always enjoyed her company.
Today however was a different story.
She was clearly in a bad mood.
Having made the appointment for 11.30 I was told to stand outside the gates of her apartment block.
People we coming and going and looking at me suspiciously so when one left the gate open I went in and waited outside of the main door which I felt was less suspicious.
At 11.40 I. Was still outside the door and feeling very cold so I texted her to see if she’s had forgot me and eventually she buzzed me in.
When I got to her apartment I was greeted with a less than warm welcome.
I noticed that she hadn’t put on any makeup (always a bad sign from experience).
She then barked at me and told me I should have waited outside the gate.
Then she said I shouldn’t have texted her to ask had she forgot me.
The Mood was dead immediately.
I just laughed and left.
There was no way I was paying for someone to moan at me, I can get that for free.
Anyway just thought I’d see if anyone of you guys have come across this before.

Now I have to say that this lady has given me some incredible times so there is no way I’d leave her a bad review. I don’t leave bad reviews for anyone as this is their living.

But in my line of work, I can never be cranky with a client. Ever!
There’s always someone else willing to take their business.

[SteveB]

A few times.

The first time it happened to me I thought, "That's it, I won't be seeing her again." Next time she was touring in the area she sent me a text, and I thought, "No chance," but I bit the bullet, I went to see her and it was as if the incident never happened, I didn't raise it and things were as good as before.

That has been my experience with several escorts now. Sometimes I have been told what the problem was, sometimes I never found out what issue they had.
Their business not mine and I suppose it's best not to intrude and just give them credit for putting it behind them and carrying on regardless. If it appeared to be a one-off incident of someone having a bad day it would not stop me seeing them again.

[crango9t5]

I dont know someone can always be having a bad day, i get you though i wouldnt have a session after having my head chewed off but wouldnt stop me coming back

[seancaseykinky]

Good advice lads.
In fairness she’s a cracker and I wouldn’t mind another go but there was no way I was going ahead today.
The no makeup thing would have been enough to put me off to be honest.
I’ll see if she message’s me back.

If not I’ll find a new regular .
Us men are fickle like that.
It was nice to have a girl who knew me though and knew what I liked and didn’t like.
It was like having a Mistress.

[BadToTheBoner247]

Good advice lads.
In fairness she’s a cracker and I wouldn’t mind another go but there was no way I was going ahead today.
The no makeup thing would have been enough to put me off to be honest.
I’ll see if she message’s me back.

If not I’ll find a new regular .
Us men are fickle like that.
It was nice to have a girl who knew me though and knew what I liked and didn’t like.
It was like having a Mistress.

Firstly everyone is going to think its a certain lady if they look at your profile which is not fair to her. With regards to your question I would give her another chance, you have no idea what went on in her life for her to be that way on the day you met her. She is a person not an object and the service she provides and the dangers and stresses she faces can not be compared to any other profession. If you are fickle like you say just move on as that is a reflection of you not the escort.

[Jinxed]

I met a young lady this morning.
I’ve met this lady on several occasions and have always enjoyed her company.
Today however was a different story.
She was clearly in a bad mood.
Having made the appointment for 11.30 I was told to stand outside the gates of her apartment block.
People we coming and going and looking at me suspiciously so when one left the gate open I went in and waited outside of the main door which I felt was less suspicious.
At 11.40 I. Was still outside the door and feeling very cold so I texted her to see if she’s had forgot me and eventually she buzzed me in.
When I got to her apartment I was greeted with a less than warm welcome.
I noticed that she hadn’t put on any makeup (always a bad sign from experience).
She then barked at me and told me I should have waited outside the gate.
Then she said I shouldn’t have texted her to ask had she forgot me.
The Mood was dead immediately.
I just laughed and left.
There was no way I was paying for someone to moan at me, I can get that for free.
Anyway just thought I’d see if anyone of you guys have come across this before.

Now I have to say that this lady has given me some incredible times so there is no way I’d leave her a bad review. I don’t leave bad reviews for anyone as this is their living.

But in my line of work, I can never be cranky with a client. Ever!
There’s always someone else willing to take their business.

You laughed at her and left her. You say you are familiar with her. You couldn't say to her, we are a bit used to each other, I can see you're in bad form, do you want to take 5 or 10 minutes just to talk. That wouldn't have taken much.

She probably had nobody to talk too at that time. Because if anyone thinks that escorts are all sisters and girls together in the hood, you're very wrong. But you didn't get to give her one, so fuck her.

[Mr Sweet Guy]

Firstly everyone is going to think its a certain lady if they look at your profile which is not fair to her. With regards to your question I would give her another chance, you have no idea what went on in her life for her to be that way on the day you met her. She is a person not an object and the service she provides and the dangers and stresses she faces can not be compared to any other profession. If you are fickle like you say just move on as that is a reflection of you not the escort.

You laughed at her and left her. You say you are familiar with her. You couldn't say to her, we are a bit used to each other, I can see you're in bad form, do you want to take 5 or 10 minutes just to talk. That wouldn't have taken much.

She probably had nobody to talk too at that time. Because if anyone thinks that escorts are all sisters and girls together in the hood, you're very wrong. But you didn't get to give her one, so fuck her.

I agree on both posts !

As everyone can have a bad day and also 5-10 min to talk to the Lady can lighten the mood for both people.

Harsh to criticize the Lady on no makeup, as us Gents walk in our natural look. Beauty come from within, as well outside Beauty also from
all of us !

[FetishCherry]

I agree on both posts !

As everyone can have a bad day and also 5-10 min to talk to the Lady can lighten the mood for both people.

Harsh to criticize the Lady on no makeup, as us Gents walk in our natural look. Beauty come from within, as well outside Beauty also from
all of us !

Indeed. I always wear make up but happened when i didn't cause my regular client gave me little notice and didn't had time to put make up on( take more then half an hr to do it) but only to have a shower as to be clean was more important i considered then to have make up... told him i will not have make up on and they didn't bother about, actually i got compliments that i look very natural with no make up so make up is not a bad sign is just a sign she didn't have enough time to put it or just she wanted to be natural that day , no big deal i would say.... about the mood maybe she was not in bad mood but u put it her in bad mood because u didnt listen her directions to stay outside the gate. Many guys consider they know better what is discreet but trust me u dont know better then us what is discreet for our apartments... maybe was a camera in front of the door, maybe a over vigilant security or neighbor will see u in front of the door...was a reason she told u to wait there ... i was in same situation like her tell to the guy to ring me from a particularly landmark give him all directions and he ring me and once in front of the door... and sometimes on hallway ... just to tell me :'' i,m in'' or sometimes asking me :'' i,m in what floor and room r u'' with a neighbor waiting near him at the lift when i was already texted him all this informations. All this things piss u very off as a escort , but in comparison with your girl i m mature enough to learn about controlling myself and i didnt moan angry to him once inside but with a big smile on my face i said :'' huny u not discreet at all, if i loose my place i will come to live in your place '' i was smiling but inside i was boiling lol but didnt let this to be seen to not spoil our meeting and start on the wrong foot. He understood the message and never repeat it... but this are the type of the guys who will be stopped by Garda .. they dont know to be discreet and draw to much the attention over them and over the place ...U all want to visit girls in discreet places but dont forget discretion of an apartment its depending in very big procent of you guys...

[seancaseykinky]

Cherry you hit the nail on the head. There’s a way to talk to people and give them a message. And a way not too.
I gave over and hours notice so that wasn’t an issue. Also I arrived at the time I was told to arrive so there was no need to leave me waiting for ten minutes.
If your running late then send a text and say so.
But don’t blame the clinet for getting agitated while standing waiting for you.
I’m ignoring all the do good hero’s on here as they're are always the same on all the topics. It’s called white knight syndrome and I’ve no interest In talking to them.
We’re human too and standing outside a gate with people looking you up and down is very uncomfortable.
I’m a professional and meet people every day.
Sometimes I’m in very bad form but I grit my teeth, smile and do my job even though I’d rather scream.
That’s life.
If I thought I’d be unable to go through with a meeting I’d cancel.
If I piss off my client I don’t get another shot.
Anyway I didn’t write a bad review, I used the forum which I’m allowed to do.
I was looking to see what others thought and didn’t mention any names.
One of the white nights did.
Thanks Cherry for your excellent insight and thanks to the guys who shared their insights.
The white knights can keep pretending they respect women.

[LexieM]

I don’t see why the make-up was an issue for you. You said she is a nice lady, so what is the make-up got to do with her personality?
Also, if you were her regular and a bit familiar to her, you should have tried talking with her instead of laughing in her face and leave. She is probably alone here, no one to talk to etc etc.
Do you have any idea how many bad moods we see a week or how much we absorb the bad vibes from our clients? If you really saw her as a person and not only a service provider, you would’ve tried and make her smile, leaving her place happier for makin someones day better.

Excuse me, but you are a selfish **** of a punter.

As for the lady, hope she is in a better mood now and seriously consider who to see in the future.