What do you regret and don't regret in your punting career

[Barney Rubble]

I loved meeting the Escorts and they loved me just as much and were offering me Freebies to get me to return.

It's about time you stopped dreaming Gilly, get up and eat your crunchy nuts.

[Joseph82679]

Regret: Forgetting to mention my race before a meet; too many subsequent rejections at the door.

I don't regret seeing this one girl three times in one week, then again the following. You just know when she's worth it

[Big_AL]

Sorry to hear chap and yes at time, a Escort NOT click with everyone they meet.

I understand that can happen but taking money out of my wallet while I was in shower is not on. Like I said bring only what I intend to spend in future

[Mr Sweet Guy]

I understand that can happen but taking money out of my wallet while I was in shower is not on. Like I said bring only what I intend to spend in future

But if you decide to extend your time and money not there. It leave a bitter taste for you Mate. But can recommend a share shower in future visit might help Mate.

[Mr Sweet Guy]

One regret I don't have, is I personally extend my time and only one Escort refused my extend time. As she a client book shortly after my 1 hour. But I extend many times and maybe the Escorts regret that now As the chat drag on and on and on.

Only regret I will have this Friday, is if I am not being more assertive in this Blond Stunner company.

I do really enjoy her company and it hard for me to show it, as I am afraid to be intimate with her. Which cause the chat to drag on, even then she practically touching and flirting with me.


So much I like to do in nice caressing way to her, while we chat also. But I fear her reaction and that be my biggest regret in my 2 hour booking with her, if I can't just cuddle up in bed fully clothed or not with her and chat also.

Hope she doesn't read this post, as I might regret been locked in her wardrobe or worse outside her door !

[Jinxed]

One regret I don't have, is I personally extend my time and only one Escort refused my extend time. As she a client book shortly after my 1 hour. But I extend many times and maybe the Escorts regret that now As the chat drag on and on and on.

Only regret I will have this Friday, is if I am not being more assertive in this Blond Stunner company.

I do really enjoy her company and it hard for me to show it, as I am afraid to be intimate with her. Which cause the chat to drag on, even then she practically touching and flirting with me.


So much I like to do in nice caressing way to her, while we chat also. But I fear her reaction and that be my biggest regret in my 2 hour booking with her, if I can't just cuddle up in bed fully clothed or not with her and chat also.

Hope she doesn't read this post, as I might regret been locked in her wardrobe or worse outside her door !

Do you see girls on conventional hookups or just escorts. You don't have to answer if you don't want too. Only you talk about an escort like most men do about a girl that they have only met and they are excited to see what might happen.

[Mr Sweet Guy]

Do you see girls on conventional hookups or just escorts. You don't have to answer if you don't want too. Only you talk about an escort like most men do about a girl that they have only met and they are excited to see what might happen.

Good question and answer is, if I meet a Lady in a bar, club etc. It tend to not go into one night stand as I prefer to be tease or tease her to wait. Sadly and regretful it backfire a lot, as the Ladies move on before end of the night with frustration and my nerves kill the chance also.

Trust me Mate no Lady want a nervous Gent in company.

Maybe that is small part of what holds me back in the company of Escort, is I don't go in expecting business sex in Escort company. If I did I book 30 Min appointment.

But I will be honest Mate. I only hope to have business sex, which it does excited me on what going to happen in her company.

It has to happen from Lady own will and consent to want and feel business sex in my company. Which also I done a few non sexual meeting with Escorts here on this site. Totally my fault on that, as the chat drag on and my time is like any one time in with a Escort.

But true Jinxed, it does look like that and I prefer long booking. Because it build up to what you said, on what going to happen next in the Lady company. Will their be intimate which lead to business sex or just chill out relax time.

That I always let the Escort decide upon what she truly want business sex or not.

But my only regret is my nervous tend to ruin my experience, even if business sex is wanted and consented by her.

Hope that answer your question Jinxed !

[Jinxed]

Good question and answer is, if I meet a Lady in a bar, club etc. It tend to not go into one night stand as I prefer to be tease or tease her to wait. Sadly and regretful it backfire a lot, as the Ladies move on before end of the night with frustration and my nerves kill the chance also.

Trust me Mate no Lady want a nervous Gent in company.

Maybe that is small part of what holds me back in the company of Escort, is I don't go in expecting business sex in Escort company. If I did I book 30 Min appointment.

But I will be honest Mate. I only hope to have business sex, which it does excited me on what going to happen in her company.

It has to happen from Lady own will and consent to want and feel business sex in my company. Which also I done a few non sexual meeting with Escorts here on this site. Totally my fault on that, as the chat drag on and my time is like any one time in with a Escort.

But true Jinxed, it does look like that and I prefer long booking. Because it build up to what you said, on what going to happen next in the Lady company. Will their be intimate which lead to business sex or just chill out relax time.

That I always let the Escort decide upon what she truly want business sex or not.

But my only regret is my nervous tend to ruin my experience, even if business sex is wanted and consented by her.

Hope that answer your question Jinxed !

If I'm right you want to feel the nonsexual intimacy. The talking, joking, flirting, the one on one of a normal relationship. Even with an escort you want to experience this. A total stranger for a few hours, and you want to fit lot of what constitutes a relationship into a short time. But it's with someone who is not being real with you.

Why not try counseling or similar to get to the bottom of what is causing your anxiety. If you get rid of that weight of your anxiety you would be a new man. Or the man you should be, the man that you really are.

A normal unpaid time spent with a woman is more fulfilling than a paid date. If everything you say is true, then find a solution to your problem. The money you spend on 3 hours with an escort would get you a good night out in decent establishments where the possibility of meeting a woman and talking and laughing and spending 10 - 12 hours with her, and maybe meeting her again would be more fulfilling.

If I was you I would be making an appointment with a gp to explain your issues and asking him to direct you to an appropriate counselor type person.

All you're getting at the minute is fleeting glimpses of what it is really like to be with a woman. You're there on a countdown timer and that has to bring a displeasure to your time because you want to fit too much of a real relationship into a small, tiny time frame.

A problem is only a problem if it has a solution. Your problem has a solution. Go find it.

[Mr Sweet Guy]

If I'm right you want to feel the nonsexual intimacy. The talking, joking, flirting, the one on one of a normal relationship. Even with an escort you want to experience this. A total stranger for a few hours, and you want to fit lot of what constitutes a relationship into a short time. But it's with someone who is not being real with you.

Why not try counseling or similar to get to the bottom of what is causing your anxiety. If you get rid of that weight of your anxiety you would be a new man. Or the man you should be, the man that you really are.

A normal unpaid time spent with a woman is more fulfilling than a paid date. If everything you say is true, then find a solution to your problem. The money you spend on 3 hours with an escort would get you a good night out in decent establishments where the possibility of meeting a woman and talking and laughing and spending 10 - 12 hours with her, and maybe meeting her again would be more fulfilling.

If I was you I would be making an appointment with a gp to explain your issues and asking him to direct you to an appropriate counselor type person.

All you're getting at the minute is fleeting glimpses of what it is really like to be with a woman. You're there on a countdown timer and that has to bring a displeasure to your time because you want to fit too much of a real relationship into a small, tiny time frame.

A problem is only a problem if it has a solution. Your problem has a solution. Go find it.

You Jinxed could be a counselor yourself. As I copy your post on to my phone. Jeez it exactly true what you said Mate.

I do agree with you also, that no Escort I say want long 2-3 hours chat. As the boredom listening to someone would drive them mad. Plus it could get too personal, not that I ask personal questions.

But the truth is rarely any clients or are going to pay 2-3 hours and just chat in Escort company. If everyone like clients done that, they be call counselor Escort instead. Which going by reviews , it point business sex happen most cases with Escorts. Minus dominatrix who don't offer a any sexual favourites. Unless it consent by her and client.

Back to your point, I do like chat, flirting, joking, knowing she offering me her true consent to what make the Escort happy. With me the business sex, even if consent by her take a lot for me to believe if true or not. As what is real and what not.

So what is true consent and that what make me nervous also, to make me believe in my conscience. Which has ruin many experience with Escort, as I find it hard to know if they want business sex or not.

But in defense, I should know by her body language and when she turn on by way she express herself in my company. But regretful you are right Jinxed, my approach to way I meet and be in company of Escort is not totally right.

It not a date and it purely just business only. Which my punter friends said to me, go meet the Escort you like, pay your time n companionship.

Then just do your business fun with her consent. As the next client walk in, he going to more or less get business sex if he respectful. He said you be treated no different chatting long chat, even if a long booking client ,who get down to business quickly regardless.

So my mate who punter just message me to say, he read your post and said that to me above. Also he said I need to man up and drop the nervous, as it won't win me any favour and only make me look easy or play on. Is he right or wrong I don't know.

Thanks for the post Jinxed and I will consider all that now.