Advice needed on first contact

[CityGentlman]

Hi everyone,

A newbie here. I was just wanting to know your thoughts on the best way to contact an escort, if there is a choice between phone number and DM. Which should I choose? I was trying to put myself in the position of the escort and thinking about getting a phone call from someone I didn't know. Do escorts like to get to know prospective clients first? That's why I was thinking sending a DM would be the best choice. If anyone can shed some light on this for a newbie it would be greatly appreciated.

[MassiveFerguson]

Hi everyone,

A newbie here. I was just wanting to know your thoughts on the best way to contact an escort, if there is a choice between phone number and DM. Which should I choose? I was trying to put myself in the position of the escort and thinking about getting a phone call from someone I didn't know. Do escorts like to get to know prospective clients first? That's why I was thinking sending a DM would be the best choice. If anyone can shed some light on this for a newbie it would be greatly appreciated.

You need some E.

[Mrbean76]

Probably better to phone them, very few will respond to a pm from a newbie. I'm sure it's because of all the time wasters. You'll meet some amazing women but just remember to be prepared to be disappointed, there's no guarantee you'll get to see them no matter what's been promised or arrangements made, it's only when you walk through their front door that you know the fun is about to begin.

[foolsgold]

I prefer to pm to try and get a with idea of when or if someone is available then follow that up with a phonecall to confirm...

[oldfool]

Whats the success rate on replies to PM. Mine is very low so i use the phone. I still get nervous even if i have met the lady before.
I try and keep calls short and to the point. Time location, after that maybe clarification ( favourites)and requests ( uniforms). The ladies dont need time wasters on the phone.

[AverageDublinPunter]

Hi everyone,

A newbie here. I was just wanting to know your thoughts on the best way to contact an escort, if there is a choice between phone number and DM. Which should I choose? I was trying to put myself in the position of the escort and thinking about getting a phone call from someone I didn't know. Do escorts like to get to know prospective clients first? That's why I was thinking sending a DM would be the best choice. If anyone can shed some light on this for a newbie it would be greatly appreciated.

Where are you based ? Some girls answer pm's some dont.

[CityGentlman]

Where are you based ? Some girls answer pm's some dont.

I'm in the North mate. I suppose it's understandable that some girls do and some don't answer the pm's. They probably get all sorts of approaches. Anyhow thanks for the advice

[CityGentlman]

Whats the success rate on replies to PM. Mine is very low so i use the phone. I still get nervous even if i have met the lady before.
I try and keep calls short and to the point. Time location, after that maybe clarification ( favourites)and requests ( uniforms). The ladies dont need time wasters on the phone.

Great advice about keeping phone calls short and to the point. I can understand how you would feel nervous too. You just got to go for it I guess. You don't ask you don't get!

[CityGentlman]

I'm sure they get newbie's tripping over themselves quite a lot asking silly questions or coming across in a questionable way in the pm's. So I guess it's not surprising that they don't always respond. Well thanks for the advice, it's much appreciated.

[CityGentlman]

I'm guessing you're referring to the user name. I was so keen to get signed up I forgot to add the "e". My bad lol.