Nervous to approach but need to lose virginity

[Jonny0]

I'm in my 20s and still a virgin, i really want to lose it but i'm so nervous to even talk to women,i have social anxiety, anybody else similar to me or have advice,i would really appreciate help

[Mij]

I'm in my 20s and still a virgin, i really want to lose it but i'm so nervous to even talk to women,i have social anxiety, anybody else similar to me or have advice,i would really appreciate help

I'd say this is more common than you'd imagine, there seems to be complete silence about virginity, the biggest of all sexual taboos even though we have all been virgins.
An escort may approach you here if you have a fear of approaching them, it would be a great way of getting over that psychological hurdle for you. The escorts on here would probably be very comfortable meeting you as opposed to someone looking to have rough sex or whatever.
If your problem is developing a relationship with an eye to having a family longer term it's a different issue, social anxiety is a major problem here. Don't be afraid to talk to a therapist about that, again I'd imagine it's a really common issue, especially for men.

[whoseyourdaddy]

From what you have said in your post, I really wouldn't recommend this for you right now.
Relax, take your time a bit, if it's not happening ok..try an escort. It's not ideal but the well reviewed girls will take care of you.

[howardsteele]

I'm in my 20s and still a virgin, i really want to lose it but i'm so nervous to even talk to women,i have social anxiety, anybody else similar to me or have advice,i would really appreciate help

Practice in front of the mirror, when I started out I thought women were so different but they not much different to us guys really, just think of them as one of the lads, one of your mates and you will be ok

[Punter08]

Why do you need to lose it?
I think your 1st time should be with someone you know but that's just me.
If you still feel different however i am sure you could find a escort to help you out.

Good Luck.

[Punter08]

What fucking?



Don't you remember having blue balls in your twenties?

I lost mine when I was fifteen (just had sex once.)

Then not again until I was 17 ( very hard to find another 15-year old that will let you fuck her!) had lots of fun for about a year.

I was turned away from a few massage parlours.

Got a horrible hand job off a woman at 19 around Fitzwilliam Sq.

Hooked ever since chasing it....................

Love transexuals at the moment, but the way I'm going it will be a dominatrix next.........

Who knows?

I was to much into drugs in my 20's. Went a bit crazy and next thing you know i was in my 30's.

[Jonny0]

Late 20s,thanks for the advice

[Peteropedro1]

That’s what escorts are for! Most of us that use escorts, use them because we can’t get women for one reason or another. I’m not shy but I can’t get other women for circumstances beyond my control. I’ve been traveling to Thailand for prostitutes the last 18 years. I only took my first escort in ireland on Saturday night. I must admit to being slightly nervous, but only because I’m unfamiliar with the scene here. They’re used to dealing with all sorts of lads. Just pick one off the site, get in touch, go see her and she’ll relax your nerves. Just lay on the bed and let her do the work. If you start using them regularly, you’ll soon grow in confidence with them. Remember, it’s all over after 45 mins or whatever, and she won’t be judging you, she’ll just move onto the next client, after your gone.

[MarkM2020]

I'm in my 20s and still a virgin, i really want to lose it but i'm so nervous to even talk to women,i have social anxiety, anybody else similar to me or have advice,i would really appreciate help

I think people put to much emphasis on losing your virginity. Some will say its better to do with someone special, if that's what you want just wait it'll happen eventually.

If you just want to just lose it and have a good time an escort is a good way to go. Just pick an established escort with a lot of good reviews, probably best to stay at least an hour and tell them about your situation even if a bit scary, they'll take care of you.

If you do decide to go with an escort for your first time don't let it create an unrealistic expectation for any future non-escort relationship you might have because it most likely will be better then most, especially for your first time.

Good luck 😊

[oldfool]

You are NOT unusual, far too much showboating by most lads, even if for me it was a long time back.
If you want to meet a lady from here then choose one carefully. Read her favourites. Only consider girls with a lot of reviews.
Send PM to punters who have reviewd her, telling them the position.
If you then choose phone the girl. As most girls keep phone converstions very short you may have to tell her you are sending her a PM to explain.
If you have chosen well the lady will be better than any first time girl friend.
Please bear in mind this is an addictive past time