Nervous to approach but need to lose virginity

[DiablosLittleBrother]

I’m not sure if losing your virginity to an escort is a good idea, In my experience good sex with a good escort far exceeds domestic sex with a non escort,

It's a terrible idea. He won't get to share the build up and anticipation with his girlfriend. He won't get to talk it out with feeling and caring. He won't get to talk and share how he and his girlfriend feels afterwards. He won't get to ly back with his girlfriend and feel the closeness and affection afterwards with the most important person in the world to him at that time.

There is no reciprocation in it. Him and the escort are on different wavelengths. He is having a monumental experience that should be shared with someone he feels for and who feels for him. Instead when he is finished losing it, there is no lying back with his girlfriend in his arms and enjoying the experience to its fullest. Instead he has to leave because his time is up because the woman he is with doesn't give a shit about him and rightly so. His head will be all over the place if he loses it to an escort and he will be left with more questions than answers, and he won't have the person he lost it to to talk it through.

It's a very bad idea.

And if you think sex with an escort is better than sex with a normal girl, you could not be more wrong.

[Barney Rubble]

It's a terrible idea. He won't get to share the build up and anticipation with his girlfriend. He won't get to talk it out with feeling and caring. He won't get to talk and share how he and his girlfriend feels afterwards. He won't get to ly back with his girlfriend and feel the closeness and affection afterwards with the most important person in the world to him at that time.

There is no reciprocation in it. Him and the escort are on different wavelengths. He is having a monumental experience that should be shared with someone he feels for and who feels for him. Instead when he is finished losing it, there is no lying back with his girlfriend in his arms and enjoying the experience to its fullest. Instead he has to leave because his time is up because the woman he is with doesn't give a shit about him and rightly so. His head will be all over the place if he loses it to an escort and he will be left with more questions than answers, and he won't have the person he lost it to to talk it through.

It's a very bad idea.

And if you think sex with an escort is better than sex with a normal girl, you could not be more wrong.

Are escorts not normal then? Yes they are very sexy and beautiful ladies but "normal" nonetheless!!

[DiablosLittleBrother]

Are escorts not normal then? Yes they are very sexy and beautiful ladies but "normal" nonetheless!!

I put thought into that post in case that boy is telling the truth and that's what you took from it.

[AZ99]

I’m not sure if losing your virginity to an escort is a good idea, In my experience good sex with a good escort far exceeds domestic sex with a non escort,

Umm... if sex with a good escort is better than sex with a non-escort, isn't that a reason to visit an escort instead...?

[AZ99]

It's a terrible idea. He won't get to share the build up and anticipation with his girlfriend. He won't get to talk it out with feeling and caring. He won't get to talk and share how he and his girlfriend feels afterwards. He won't get to ly back with his girlfriend and feel the closeness and affection afterwards with the most important person in the world to him at that time.

There is no reciprocation in it. Him and the escort are on different wavelengths. He is having a monumental experience that should be shared with someone he feels for and who feels for him. Instead when he is finished losing it, there is no lying back with his girlfriend in his arms and enjoying the experience to its fullest. Instead he has to leave because his time is up because the woman he is with doesn't give a shit about him and rightly so. His head will be all over the place if he loses it to an escort and he will be left with more questions than answers, and he won't have the person he lost it to to talk it through.

It's a very bad idea.

And if you think sex with an escort is better than sex with a normal girl, you could not be more wrong.

I'm pretty sure that OP does not have a girlfriend. If he had a girlfriend, then it's unlikely that he would have made this post on this message board, rather than discussing it with his girlfriend instead.

I think sex is an enjoyable experience, regardless of whether it's free or paid for. OP should choose an escort who is well-established, considerate, and trustworthy.

[DiablosLittleBrother]

I'm pretty sure that OP does not have a girlfriend. If he had a girlfriend, then it's unlikely that he would have made this post on this message board, rather than discussing it with his girlfriend instead.

I think sex is an enjoyable experience, regardless of whether it's free or paid for. OP should choose an escort who is well-established, considerate, and trustworthy.

Ok. But the reason it's not as good is, the escort doesn't choose you.

[FranknStein]

The link is broken.

But I'm sure I'm being chastised here.

I am bold every now and again.



Fucking love that dude.

The nerves, the rush. I parachute jump every now & again and although I don't feel sick (unlike jumping from a plane) it's in the same category of excitement. A rollercoaster!



He can do that his second time.

Real men are not sloppy.

[AZ99]

Ok. But the reason it's not as good is, the escort doesn't choose you.

OK, but as I explained, OP likely does not have a girlfriend.

If he does not have a girlfriend, then he does not have to ponder the pros and cons of having sex with a girlfriend vs having sex with an escort. Much of your previous post becomes irrelevant at that point.

OP's options would be having sex with an escort vs abstinence.

Given those options, I think visiting an escort would be a good choice, but he needs to pick a well-established woman for his first time.

[DiablosLittleBrother]

OK, but as I explained, OP likely does not have a girlfriend.

If he does not have a girlfriend, then he does not have to ponder the pros and cons of having sex with a girlfriend vs having sex with an escort. Much of your previous post becomes irrelevant at that point.

OP's options would be having sex with an escort vs abstinence.

Given those options, I think visiting an escort would be a good choice, but he needs to pick a well-established woman for his first time.

He could go out on a weekend night and be guaranteed a hook-up. If he is so desperate to ask here, he could get the girl that nobody else wants on the night, if he's that desperate.

[AZ99]

He could go out on a weekend night and be guaranteed a hook-up. If he is so desperate to ask here, he could get the girl that nobody else wants on the night, if he's that desperate.

What happened to having sex with a hypothetical girlfriend and lying with her afterwards? The point you were making before is that sex is better with a girlfriend... but now you're saying he should go to a club and shag a random stranger. So what are you actually trying to say?

The second point is... the scenario you described doesn't actually happen in the real world. Do you seriously think any woman likes to be seen as the left over woman who men go after in a club because they think it's an easy fuck? Any man who tries to go after the unattractive woman in a club is going to find himself rejected, fast, and be on the receiving end of looks of disapproval from her friends. If you had ever followed your own advice, you would know this already.

So rather than OP taking some really shit advice and trying, unsuccessfully, to shag a stranger from a club, I think selecting a nice escort from this website would be a better idea, provided he has the money for it.