Nervous to approach but need to lose virginity

[Stephanie]

That’s what escorts are for! Most of us that use escorts, use them because we can’t get women for one reason or another. I’m not shy but I can’t get other women for circumstances beyond my control. I’ve been traveling to Thailand for prostitutes the last 18 years. I only took my first escort in ireland on Saturday night. I must admit to being slightly nervous, but only because I’m unfamiliar with the scene here. They’re used to dealing with all sorts of lads. Just pick one off the site, get in touch, go see her and she’ll relax your nerves. Just lay on the bed and let her do the work. If you start using them regularly, you’ll soon grow in confidence with them. Remember, it’s all over after 45 mins or whatever, and she won’t be judging you, she’ll just move onto the next client, after your gone.

Visit Escorts !!

Escorts are Not to be “used” !

You ‘use’ your f.ing sock ! Not a human being !

: you have the Privilege - for now - to VISIT Sex Workers , Visit Escorts , VISIT Providers . !

Grrr .

[Punter08]

Socks have feelings too._.

Sock Life's Matter!

[Wolverine]

Call up a well reviewed established escort. Tell her your story.

Make an appointment and go with the attitude that you're just going to meet someone. You don't have to have sex on that visit but whatever happens this should ease your anxiety some.

[babygravy]

Hey buddy, even though you'll be shitting a brick, you are so lucky to be starting off!

Your hands will be shaking when you phone them, and on your way to the visit you will be thinking that everyone is watching you and your dirty little mind.


In addition to what the others here have said, my two bits; phone a girl that speaks good English so you can communicate properly with them, and HAVE FUN!!

[Peteropedro1]

Visit Escorts !!

Escorts are Not to be “used” !

You ‘use’ your f.ing sock ! Not a human being !

: you have the Privilege - for now - to VISIT Sex Workers , Visit Escorts , VISIT Providers . !

Grrr .

Terrible sorry luv! My mistake! I VISIT escorts then 😀😘

[Stephanie]

And I got criticized for daring to suggest we educate new punters & not turn them red!

>>>> https://www.escort-ireland.com/board...-their-profile !

Step up boy lol !

[Harrybigtoe]

>>>> https://www.escort-ireland.com/board...-their-profile !

Step up boy lol !

[ford pefect]

I'm in my 20s and still a virgin, i really want to lose it but i'm so nervous to even talk to women,i have social anxiety, anybody else similar to me or have advice,i would really appreciate help

I’m not sure if losing your virginity to an escort is a good idea, In my experience good sex with a good escort far exceeds domestic sex with a non escort,

[howardsteele]

What fucking?



Don't you remember having blue balls in your twenties?

I lost mine when I was fifteen (just had sex once.)

Then not again until I was 17 ( very hard to find another 15-year old that will let you fuck her!) had lots of fun for about a year.

I was turned away from a few massage parlours.

Got a horrible hand job off a woman at 19 around Fitzwilliam Sq.

Hooked ever since chasing it....................

Love transexuals at the moment, but the way I'm going it will be a dominatrix next.........

Who knows?

It worked for me and it how I gained confidence, you can see what youre doing wrong you see, I pretended to talk to the girl in the mirror, Jana Kramer was the lucky lady here and would even have a blonde wig and changed roles and it worked.

I even bought a book

[Mr Sweet Guy]

Also, I can understand the frustration, but there really is no need to be nervous of meeting an escort as we don't expect anything from you other then being respectful and clean and paying for your time in a well mannered way.
No need to impress us or take us on a date , but we could give you a great time and who knows.. maybe even some advice on talking to women

Best of luck on your journey!

That is great advice Sheena and one I too need heed. It can be for me like walking into classroom and first thing you do is make your way to the chair. That is exactly what I do ever visit to a Escort, if not meeting the Lady in a bar first.

But rest I never had any issue with clean, gentle, kind, only thing is, I tend to be cold and can come across disrespectful by not showing enough affection toward a Lady in her company.
Especially if two people click well and they want lust n affection. As I have been told that by people I met.

True also Sheena, the Ladies I met have gave me great advice on how to approach my future meeting. You have met many different clients and know what each client like and enjoy.


To the nervous Gent I have been punting 6 years and even today I am still nervous meeting Escorts. It daunting walking in her door and first seeing her. Some people can deal with nerves better then other. But it understandable to be nervous as you meeting a Escort, who probably nervous as you.

Just one warning Mate when the Escort show you affection or make the first move, don't distance yourself or reject her advance. Because it disrespectful and consider rude to do. It not a gentleman thing to do as I been told myself. Don't sit on chair to long either chatting and just do what she comfortable with to her Consent.

About your virginity I would wait little longer before you visit a Escort. Some lucky Lady out there is looking for you chap and you haven't found her yet. Good Luck Mate !