If they are doing to judge us, least they could do is get the uniform..
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Last edited by SteveB; 29-03-19 at 21:35. Reason: you have been judged citizen
No! i consider visiting an escort the BEST way to get what u need without to affect the marriage. Having an affair, or live in frustration or divorce are better options for a guy in sexless marriage? I dont think so ! We are humans, we have needs, and if for some reasons this needs cant be fulfill in your marriage then u have 2 options: accept and live without or find another way. WHy to accept and live without? we have just one life. Why we should live this life in frustration. Is not fair! ...And about guys who have a marriage with sex but wanna try different fantasies or just get the kick u get when u have sex with a new partner, a stranger , well.... we dont live in perfect world... u dont know if your partner is faithful too , maybe she is ,maybe u will put your hand in fire for her ,but maybe she will put her hand in fire for you too.... i will never trust completely in a man or woman to not cheat. We live in a tempations world... I dont judge anybody , is their life, their body their choice. And at the end of the day how can i judge people who pay my bills?
if we will live in perfect world many people will starve ... and i,m not talking only about escorts...
Last edited by FetishCherry; 30-03-19 at 12:18.
AverageDublinPunter (01-04-19), Barney Rubble (30-03-19), Mr Sweet Guy (31-03-19), Punter08 (30-03-19)
FetishCherry (31-03-19)
U live and learn. Before to be an escort i was very quick in to judging people: escorts, homosexuals, etc. To quick. Its easy to judge others from outside not knowing their circumstances. People judge us for being escorts as well... but nobody knows anything about you as a person, as a human, who u are, what u want, etc, people judge you after what u do but we all escorts, clients and others we have a REASON to do what we do. As time not HURT anybody , then should not be anybody's concern. Yes, some women might say yes wives will be hurt if they found out... yeah.. maybe...but they shoudl think what was the reason who leaded to him to do that?You have to be totally unrealistic to believe as a woman a man who dont have sex in marriage will stay like this and do nothing about. If i cant / or dont want to have sex with my husband for years i will be very unrealistic to believe he just stopped having desire for sex only because i dont do it. I remember i was very young and had a bf and i was virgin and didnt had sex with him all the time told him i,m virgin and dont want to have sex yet and in one day i found out he visited a girl home . Not an escort, just another girl. And i cried and i was so upset and i confronted him. ANd he was calm, not looking or feeling guilty at all and he said to me :'' yes my love, i love u so much, but u are virgin , i understand and respect this dont want force u if u not prepared, but i,m a man , i have desire , i have urge and u know ..i wanna fuck) what should i do, its human nature u know? is normal to need and want sex '' well maybe in front of wife will not stand this explanation lol but as a wife and woman u have to think and about him and his needs not only about what u want but and what he want, its about both of us, marriage is a compromise i consider, when u marry u stop thinking only about what u want and what u need but what and other wnt and other need no? Why only the husband should think about what his wife will want ( to not cheat her) and why she should not think and about what he want ( sex) . I never been married but i think the success of a long happy marriage is the ability to make compromises to can keep both happy. Sad is this days i see people tend to think only about what makes the woman / wife happy and less what makes the husband/man happy. we have equal rights. correct? at list should be like this.. Have a lovely day
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Last edited by FetishCherry; 31-03-19 at 07:57.
AverageDublinPunter (01-04-19), Barney Rubble (01-04-19), beautyaddict (31-03-19), clarelad (01-04-19), shyguy451 (31-03-19)
Judge??? Hahaha... course they do... and they discuss with the girl they share with what you say and do in bed....
All those times you lie on their bed chatting away about this and that... all gets logged for their amusement later...
Don’t ever for one second think anything you say or do is confidential...
Only guys that are safe are the undemanding big punters spending ‘00s and ‘00s per time. The ladies keep them to themselves for obvious reasons
Punters laugh about what they do with the girls like they are circus acts or pets all the time. Yes escorts laugh and they are right to laugh at punters because generally we are pathetic. One really hot escort finished me off in about 3 minutes I just could not hold it and blew my load. She left the room immediately with a smile on her face and I heard her hi 5 the other girl and laugh saying "termina rapid" or something like that. It cost me €100 and from entering the apartment to leaving it was about 9 minutes. Why wouldn't she laugh at a fat looser like me and god knows how many other pasty fat loosers she met that day. This is a game of opposite tribes someone usually wins and someone looses.