This really isn't cheating is it?

[howardsteele]

Howard here, Howard Steele, for a while now I've been with a lady twice my age and she is class and fit, great cook with breakfast served up and dinner and supper too.
She is a lovely person and very honest.
It has been going so well I have not visited an escort as good while but i'm getting stronger urges now and the occasionally wanking only just keeping it at bay.
I was thinking of maybe visiting an escort for a massage and say nothing and if she wanted to finish me off with a hand job then its up to her, I won't ask her but since there will be no sex involved then I'm not really cheating.

[SteveB]

Howard here, Howard Steele, for a while now I've been with a lady twice my age and she is class and fit, great cook with breakfast served up and dinner and supper too.
She is a lovely person and very honest.
It has been going so well I have not visited an escort as good while but i'm getting stronger urges now and the occasionally wanking only just keeping it at bay.
I was thinking of maybe visiting an escort for a massage and say nothing and if she wanted to finish me off with a hand job then its up to her, I won't ask her but since there will be no sex involved then I'm not really cheating.

Make sure it is her doing the massage and not you........

[howardsteele]

Make sure it is her doing the massage and not you........

hehe, I do love giving them too, love massaging the buttocks ...........

[AverageDublinPunter]

Howard here, Howard Steele, for a while now I've been with a lady twice my age and she is class and fit, great cook with breakfast served up and dinner and supper too.
She is a lovely person and very honest.
It has been going so well I have not visited an escort as good while but i'm getting stronger urges now and the occasionally wanking only just keeping it at bay.
I was thinking of maybe visiting an escort for a massage and say nothing and if she wanted to finish me off with a hand job then its up to her, I won't ask her but since there will be no sex involved then I'm not really cheating.

It's only cheating if you get caught otherwise it's just a slight deviation no biggie.

[MassiveFerguson]

Howard here, Howard Steele, for a while now I've been with a lady twice my age and she is class and fit, great cook with breakfast served up and dinner and supper too.
She is a lovely person and very honest.
It has been going so well I have not visited an escort as good while but i'm getting stronger urges now and the occasionally wanking only just keeping it at bay.
I was thinking of maybe visiting an escort for a massage and say nothing and if she wanted to finish me off with a hand job then its up to her, I won't ask her but since there will be no sex involved then I'm not really cheating.

I pity the poor princess that keeps kissing frogs.
:-P

[ladyluck1234]

Most women, myself included, would consider that cheating. If your urge is that strong just have a conversation with her and be honest. She might even be open to it, you never know!

[gonzo76]

Howard here, Howard Steele, for a while now I've been with a lady twice my age and she is class and fit, great cook with breakfast served up and dinner and supper too.
She is a lovely person and very honest.
It has been going so well I have not visited an escort as good while but i'm getting stronger urges now and the occasionally wanking only just keeping it at bay.
I was thinking of maybe visiting an escort for a massage and say nothing and if she wanted to finish me off with a hand job then its up to her, I won't ask her but since there will be no sex involved then I'm not really cheating.

It's only fair you pay for her to get a massage too. So long as you don't consider her actions cheating then you're golden.

[SteveB]

I think Lara Mills summed it up on another thread.

Quote; "Depends on your and your partner's definition of cheating"

Whether it is cheating or not can only be decided by those inside the relationship and not by anyone outside of it.

[FargoBoyle]

Its still cheating, it is hard to break this habit once you started, you may quit for 6 months, a year but you always go back, there should be Cheaters Anonymous for us but in reality just embrace being a feckin cheater.
HAPPY PUNTING