Seduction should never be one sided as in it is the one person who is always doing the seducing. Many men are interested in the finale only and choose to leave the starter and the main course to one side while striving for the desert. It is lovely when the lady is open to be seduced yet most appointments are limited and the time which would be spent on the art of seduction is curtailed (sadly). I have had the pleasure of seducing a few ladies towards the end of the day when they can relax and enjoy a little pampering and it was a most enjoyable experience for both of us.