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FetishCherry
I agree with you. and i have 2 examples here where fear make u to see and believe things not exist . 1.I was in London , sharing with another lady at that time. I was outside to buy food when she rang me desperately that ''Police is knocking on the door , what i do, i,m scared ''and i could say she was terrified like she killed someone and they are after her, told her to not open and stay quiet because i will get home soon. When i got home nobody on the hallway nothing. I opened the door with the key she was sobbing , crying... and keep repeating i want to go home can u buy for me a plane ticket for tomorrow morning? was her first time being an escort and she was 38 yo but so scared she was. I said calm down tell me what happend , how do u know was Police.. she said yes was Police they knocked on the door was voices man and woman and i heard the police shoulder microphone ... ok said and then, ? Then they knocked on the neighbor door , a family who was living exactly near us. ok i said. I went outside and knocked at the neighbor door and the lady opened the door ,: hi, i heard police have been here> do u know what happened? my friend was home but she dont speak english(i lied) and she didnt answer as she dont answer to strangers. And the lady said : '' oh , was not police, we called emergency because our baby felt bad and we got scared and the emergency doctors went to wrong apartment to yours , sorry for disturbing '' So sometimes when u are afraid to not be Police, u will think everybody is Police and is after you.
And second example: a friend of mine have an apartment with view to entrance and since she moved her she noticed unmarked Garda cars staying for few hrs everyday in the car park lot (she being irish knew to recognize them lol) and she story me how worried she was and she started to think her apartment is watched , until in one day she see few guys undercover Garda the ones who wear guns i think she said how they go in the block nearby and they came out with a guy handcuffed. Later asking a neighbor she find out that guy was arrested for selling drugs and since then the car with the guys disappeared. so not always is what its seems to be , can be, i dont say cant be but not always . Still... if u feel unsafe about a situation like the one described by the poster better follow your instincts and leave . Better to be wrong and be OK then to be right and be not Ok. Safe punting guys :*