A letter from a Former Escort to her clients

[MarkM2020]

I feel bad for her .

I feel terrible for her , that that was her experience as a provider .

And I feel bad for us , other ones , for whom she is doing no favors

by painting the Industry in such light .

She was 20yo , young , vulnerable , in Denmark .

Not everybody’s experience is such .

Many of us live by Self Determination , Independent , Choosing our Job ,

Choosing our Workhours and Choosing our Clients .

Nobody has ever spoken to me in such terms , Nobody has ever forced me

to do such that I did not initiate , take Hols time off whenever I wish ;

many many many Girls like me in Ireland .

If I did not respect my Clients I would not be able to be a Provider .

Eye Contact . Smiles . Pleasure . Sensuality . Joy . Return Visits . Regular Clientele .

Many many like me x



Why don’t we take some time out to highlight the Good in our Industry !!!??

The Freedom . The Choices . The Goodness that We Bring And We Receive .

The reason people don't highlight the good is because the bad sells better. If someone else came with a positive letter about the industry to the same paper, they'd pick the negative one every time.

People want to believe that every escort is forced into this work, either by someone else or for the money. People want to believe every client is a cheater, abusive or just in general bad people.

I don't think people rather see the bad in things will ever change, but hopefully people start looking more positively towards this industry.

Hey maybe when you retire you could start sharing your stories and highlight the good in the industry.

[Wolverine]

jeesus no its Ireland not Siberia lad

You're a lot more postive these days Arfur.
https://www.escort-ireland.com/board...e-this-morning

[Stephanie]

ok but how many do not like their job but just do it and pretend they like it as the money is so great,

And how many cubicle slaves dread going to work every Monday ???


If a sex worker is exploited , authorities should have proper channels

and policies in place to help those who want to get out of the biz , to get out .

Some of us thoroughly enjoy escorting , others do it to pay their bills but still like

the everyday sexiness , others do it purely out of necessity - just as many mainstream

workers do going to work every day .

If there’s abuse or girl wants out , help her .

If she chose to put herself in the business for the money , then it’s

absolutely hypocritical to lash out afterwards . Poor show .

[Barney Rubble]

And how many cubicle slaves dread going to work every Monday ???


If a sex worker is exploited , authorities should have proper channels

and policies in place to help those who want to get out of the biz , to get out .

Some of us thoroughly enjoy escorting , others do it to pay their bills but still like

the everyday sexiness , others do it purely out of necessity - just as many mainstream

workers do going to work every day .

If there’s abuse or girl wants out , help her .

If she chose to put herself in the business for the money , then it’s

absolutely hypocritical to lash out afterwards . Poor show .

There's your answer boys.

Now stop doing Ruhama's work for them ffs .

[Good4u2]

You're a lot more postive these days Arfur.
https://www.escort-ireland.com/board...e-this-morning

Yes things are looking great and don't call me Arfur

[Stephanie]

Menstruation does Not equal internal injury .

I read the article . There’s no mention of internal injury ,

only that she worked through her menstrual period .


20 year old too young imo to be in this business .

This business requires some maturity and life experience for it

to be done safely and knowing one’s boundaries . Few young ones

would have the assertiveness that would keep them safe .

But what internal injuries ?

[Stephanie]

: generally speaking re 20 yo too young .

I knew one or two girls here just about twenty or early 20s ,

and They knew exactly what they were doing , and remained

always in charge of their encounters and lives .

Were beautiful , talented , and very successful .

One a Legend for one reason , the other a Legend for another reason .

[Hallie]

And how many cubicle slaves dread going to work every Monday ???


If a sex worker is exploited , authorities should have proper channels

and policies in place to help those who want to get out of the biz , to get out .

Some of us thoroughly enjoy escorting , others do it to pay their bills but still like

the everyday sexiness , others do it purely out of necessity - just as many mainstream

workers do going to work every day .

If there’s abuse or girl wants out , help her .

If she chose to put herself in the business for the money , then it’s

absolutely hypocritical to lash out afterwards . Poor show .

thats what I mean but is it wrong to stay in a job you hate only for the thought of a better life or the purchase of your dream house makes you continue with both the job and the pretence

[Stephanie]

“But they are only prostitutes because men like you stand in the way

of healthy and respectful relationship between men and women .. “

?? Wha ?



Why did this young immature girl go into prostitution ?

There’s no mention of coercion , no mention of being poor ,

no mention of a domineering bfriend or pimp , Why then ?

That letter is seething with hate - I suspect much of it self hate

for poor life choice that she cannot confront , and so lashes out .

It’s called Personal Reaponsibility . And That is why I say 20yo too young .




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[Hallie]

“But they are only prostitutes because men like you stand in the way of healthy and respectful relationship between men and women .. ( ??? Wha ?)

Prostitutes only exist because men like you feel you have the right to satisfy your sexual urges using the orifices of other people’s bodies.
Prostitutes exist because you and your peers feel that your sexuality requires access to sex whenever it suits you.
Prostitutes exist because you are a misogynist, and because you are more concerned with your own sexual needs than the relationships in which your sexuality could actually flourish.”


Why did this young immature girl go into prostitution ?

There’s no mention of coercion , no mention of being poor ,

no mention of a domineering bfriend or pimp , Why then ?

That letter is seething with hate - I suspect much of it self hate

for poor life choice that she cannot confront , and so lashes out .

It’s called Personal Reaponsibility . And That is why I say 20yo too young .

prostitutes, escorts, sex workers are all the same and are people too and should have the same rights. its just a stupid stigma really and people should not see escorts or clients as sick people.
Some escorts like their jobs while other hate it but keep at it to reach their dream, only when its all over will they spill the beans