Tips for a first timer?

[Millhorse]

Looking for a few pointers for popping my escort cherry.

I'm a happily married 40 something man who finds himself in a position where I have more spare time and disposable income these days and looking for a bit of extra curricular excitement. I have no interest in having an affair or chancing random hookups via dating apps. Just an occasional meeting with mutual discretion assured and no strings.

So I see several stunning ladies on this site who would be right up my street and would gladly pay for an hour of their time. First time nerves about using my phone mean I have made a few enquiries via PM on this site but had no replies. The profile settings for the escorts are a bit confusing. Some say PM responsiveness is good but still no replies after a few days. Others say does not respond to PMs at the top, then says Yes beside PMs further down. I'm guessing the fact that a lot of girls might not be native English speaking might be the reason for lack of interest in PMs.

I can understand the ladies not wanting to field text messages from a bunch of chancers too. So is a phone call really the only way to initiate contact? My instinct for self preservation has me worried that if the girl doesn't answer I might get a call back at an inopportune time.

Next, like I said, I wouldn't like to spend less than an hour. I would expect time to relax and chat and a shower before and after. Other than that, is it expected that the full hour is used? If I turn out to be on a hair trigger and finish quickly, is that considered to be the end of the date? Or if time permits is it ok to regroup and go again?

Lots of questions, sorry!
Thanks for taking the time to read.

[CANALI]

Looking for a few pointers for popping my escort cherry.

I'm a happily married 40 something man who finds himself in a position where I have more spare time and disposable income these days and looking for a bit of extra curricular excitement. I have no interest in having an affair or chancing random hookups via dating apps. Just an occasional meeting with mutual discretion assured and no strings.

So I see several stunning ladies on this site who would be right up my street and would gladly pay for an hour of their time. First time nerves about using my phone mean I have made a few enquiries via PM on this site but had no replies. The profile settings for the escorts are a bit confusing. Some say PM responsiveness is good but still no replies after a few days. Others say does not respond to PMs at the top, then says Yes beside PMs further down. I'm guessing the fact that a lot of girls might not be native English speaking might be the reason for lack of interest in PMs.

I can understand the ladies not wanting to field text messages from a bunch of chancers too. So is a phone call really the only way to initiate contact? My instinct for self preservation has me worried that if the girl doesn't answer I might get a call back at an inopportune time.

Next, like I said, I wouldn't like to spend less than an hour. I would expect time to relax and chat and a shower before and after. Other than that, is it expected that the full hour is used? If I turn out to be on a hair trigger and finish quickly, is that considered to be the end of the date? Or if time permits is it ok to regroup and go again?

Lots of questions, sorry!
Thanks for taking the time to read.

My advice would be to go to a well reviewed lady. English speaking will make your initial contact easier, especially when it comes to getting directions over the phone. Regarding your concern about a call back, most ladies have a professional approach to their arrangements and it would be rare of them to ring a client or answer a missed call unless your a regular. I like to make initial contact by PM. You can communicate more than a quick phone call. For the most part I always get a prompt answer. Regarding your 'regroup' a lot of ladies will let you cum twice or more in a one hour appointment.

[petebriquette]

First thing you need to do is buy a pay as you go SIM Card and or new phone. That way the girls will never call you on your phone. Tell the lady you chose that it's your first visit and she will g I de you through the etiquette.

[S94310]

great advice a second phone is a good idea if you are in Dublin ring Eva in Ringsend when she returns I highly recommend

[gonzo76]

Apart from the logistics and etiquette of meeting escorts, take the time to consider if this is a road you want to venture down.

I'm not judging, just you state in your opening sentences that you are happily married.

The reason I say it is that this is an addictive hobby. Either financially, or emotionally it could become an issue. That could get you caught out.

So long as you are happy to accept consequences, go off and have fun, but remember it is a fantasy world.

The #1 rule, get a separate phone and SIM card.

After that, a well established, well reviewed lady will guide you properly through the process.

[MassiveFerguson]

Great advice.One time you might have been told to always wipe your cock on the curtains unless it was a venetian blind.

[luap1]

Started dipping my toes in the EI water last year,l but I'm single so no harm, as said above go for a well reviewed lady, I have a burner phone and I generally scope the location out beforehand then park a distance away and take alternative routes there and back just to be safe.