Nervous about making first escort date, HELP!!

[AlwaysAddicted]

Hello everyone,

New to the site and I'd like to start punting but I have a massive amount of nerves and don't know how to go about it exactly, it begins with making a phone call to my favourite lady, which already makes me feel anxious as silly as it sounds, and the whole arrangement itself I don't know what to say on the phone to make a booking, I have had sex many times before but the thought of doing it with an escort who has more than likely had many sexual partners gives me performance anxiety! Id like to just call up and say hey, I'd like to have a good time, I'm leaving it in your hands, couldn't exactly do that though......could you? Also im unsure about hygiene aspects, I am a clean person but for a date should I be clean shaven in the appropriate places and extra extra clean? Thanks for any advice offered

[SuitedAndBooted]

Hello everyone,

New to the site and I'd like to start punting but I have a massive amount of nerves and don't know how to go about it exactly, it begins with making a phone call to my favourite lady, which already makes me feel anxious as silly as it sounds, and the whole arrangement itself I don't know what to say on the phone to make a booking, I have had sex many times before but the thought of doing it with an escort who has more than likely had many sexual partners gives me performance anxiety! Id like to just call up and say hey, I'd like to have a good time, I'm leaving it in your hands, couldn't exactly do that though......could you? Also im unsure about hygiene aspects, I am a clean person but for a date should I be clean shaven in the appropriate places and extra extra clean? Thanks for any advice offered

Of course you can leave it in the escort's hands.....she will bring you along gently if needed during your time with her.
Just be polite on the phone and nothing wrong with telling the lady you have chosen that you are anxious.
It is up to you whether you want to shave down below etc etc (personally I am always shaven down there and under my arms also) but as long as you are fresh,clean,smell nice,have fresh breath,well groomed and treat the lady with respect then that is all that matters.
Cleaning your cock,balls and ass whether you are hairy or not is vital as is washing your whole body.
Plus if you have any specific things you like ask her on the phone whether she provides them.
Oh yeah and one more thing have fun.....it will be no bother to you seeing you have had sex many times.

[Petros]

Hello everyone,

New to the site and I'd like to start punting but I have a massive amount of nerves and don't know how to go about it exactly, it begins with making a phone call to my favourite lady, which already makes me feel anxious as silly as it sounds, and the whole arrangement itself I don't know what to say on the phone to make a booking, I have had sex many times before but the thought of doing it with an escort who has more than likely had many sexual partners gives me performance anxiety! Id like to just call up and say hey, I'd like to have a good time, I'm leaving it in your hands, couldn't exactly do that though......could you? Also im unsure about hygiene aspects, I am a clean person but for a date should I be clean shaven in the appropriate places and extra extra clean? Thanks for any advice offered

Firstly, remember that everyone has to have their first visit to an escort! You should tell the lady that this is your first visit, that way she will know how best to deal with the situation and you will get the best out of it.

Don't be afraid on the phone — just do as you would with any other professional service on the phone, these ladies get all sorts of calls every day, just be courteous and not blather on for ages and you will be fine.

As for your choice of lady — for your first visit make sure she plenty of positive reviews and her list of favourites include what you are looking for. Don't ask her a load of questions about what is already stated on her profile, this gets very boring for the ladies.

On the hygiene question — make sure you scrub everywhere have clean minty breath — basically as you should on any first date. You should be able to shower when you arrive at your appointment for that last minute extra wash. Many ladies do like when you are clean shaven down below but it's not necessary once you are really clean in that area.

One thing to think about it the time frame. Don't worry about your performance, she won't be comparing your performance against others — once you have a good time is all the lady really cares about. I always book for an hour at least — again you arrive, get the business out of the way and have a shower will easily eat 10 minutes out of your time — for a first time you may be nervous and the lady will need a bit of time to get you at your ease before you can get down to your performance — with an hour booking you won't be under pressure time wise. Ladies do not like guys going over their booked time.

There have been a lot of similar questions to yours been posted on here — have a look at them for additional information, as I said, you are not the first newbie to visit a lady. But I can't stress enough to make sure you pick the right lady for your first visit — do your research and don't just pick a lady with nice photos who offers very low rates.

[sophya]

Hello everyone,

New to the site and I'd like to start punting but I have a massive amount of nerves and don't know how to go about it exactly, it begins with making a phone call to my favourite lady, which already makes me feel anxious as silly as it sounds, and the whole arrangement itself I don't know what to say on the phone to make a booking, I have had sex many times before but the thought of doing it with an escort who has more than likely had many sexual partners gives me performance anxiety! Id like to just call up and say hey, I'd like to have a good time, I'm leaving it in your hands, couldn't exactly do that though......could you? Also im unsure about hygiene aspects, I am a clean person but for a date should I be clean shaven in the appropriate places and extra extra clean? Thanks for any advice offered

Hello

First of all happy new year and welcome to our naughty world

Phone call
Start your phone call in a polite way. "Hi how are you? would like to enquire about your services and availability etc" Ask questions that are pertinent such as, "are all your favourites included in your fee (just to avoid dissapointment)" and all the questions that you feel that might be important to you, if they do FK, GFE or whatever you are looking for. Make the booking, confirm the appointment and arrive on time.

Directions to the apartment
Allow them to speak and listen them carefully, remember most of the times English is not our first language so it can be tricky if the girl don't have a good english or the apartment is not in a known area

Arriving to the apartment
Be nice, polite (please don't be creepy, and ask creepy questions ) I personally like to have a drink in my living room just to calm down the nerves (yes we do get nervous as well) have a litle chat so my experience with the person that is visiting feel more relaxed and natural, but thats just me and i can't speak for the other girls. Ask for a shower, we like that you ask
Regarding to shave or not shave, that is just a matter of choice, i personally prefer a shaven men down there, but if you don't like it, i can't force you to do it.

Hope it helps and if you have any queries feel free to pm me, happy punting and we are looking forward to hear about your experience

[AlwaysAddicted]

Very much appreciated,thanks to all of you, I'll go about it as best I can taking all of what you've said into account,such a helpful forum

[SuitedAndBooted]

Very much appreciated,thanks to all of you, I'll go about it as best I can taking all of what you've said into account,such a helpful forum

Best of luck cheers.

[bmw528]

Very much appreciated,thanks to all of you, I'll go about it as best I can taking all of what you've said into account,such a helpful forum

Hello AlwaysAddicted and welcome. All very good advice given there . There are lots of nice ladies here that are well reviewed and will treat you well.

[MassiveFerguson]

Could try a massage for first appointment. see how you get on.If doing that still go to someone well reviewed

Clean shaven ?Avoid 3 day scratchy stubble like sandpaper.Clean shaven or a beard is preferable to that

[Youngandhorny87]

Just ring and ask are they available at the time you wish, and ask (in a polite way) if there is any specific interest/service you would like to know they provide. It's not rocket science really, don't overthink it. If phone rings out, call again in 30/60 minutes.

PM's/texts are usually ignored in my experience, unless you have previously met with a particular lady, Main reason is text/pm are a time-waster/fantasists dream. Call is always best/quickest.

[gonzo76]

I would really like to get the feed back from an escort around the etiquette of that first call, and what to do in relation to them being unable to answer. I would find it extremely informative so as not to make anyone feel uncomfortable.

I think it's the same as anyone really. Call once, if you're under time pressure, one more call in 30-60 mins then it's up to her to reply. Otherwise you're a pest and she'll block you.

Normally I'll pm an established lady who is on the forums or indicates she is open to pm's. But starting out they're unlikely to respond and the phone is the best way.

If she calls back 4 hours later well either you were desperate and moved on to someone else or you'll be open to arranging a booking. She will understand if you moved on and booked someone else.