Missing so much in Sandyford

[sixfourblond]

A work colleague happens to live right smack next door to the favoured spot for escorts in Sandyford. She would know for sure what I was up to if she spotted me visiting one of the girls. So unfortunately it is now out of bounds which is a pain in the arse as a few of my all time favorites are now located there. Does anyone else worry about being spotted by work colleagues or family or am I just paranoid?

[Petros]

A work colleague happens to live right smack next door to the favoured spot for escorts in Sandyford. She would know for sure what I was up to if she spotted me visiting one of the girls. So unfortunately it is now out of bounds which is a pain in the arse as a few of my all time favorites are now located there. Does anyone else worry about being spotted by work colleagues or family or am I just paranoid?

I know two people who live slap bang in the middle of that area — I have been visiting there for over 4 years — sometimes a lot but in all that time coming and going I have never seen either of them.

While it wouldn't bother me at all if I did meet them, after all, I'm just visiting friends there but I have met other people there who I know and who don't live there. The point I'm making is that Dublin is a small place and the chances of getting spotted anywhere is relatively high!

[MarkM2020]

A work colleague happens to live right smack next door to the favoured spot for escorts in Sandyford. She would know for sure what I was up to if she spotted me visiting one of the girls. So unfortunately it is now out of bounds which is a pain in the arse as a few of my all time favorites are now located there. Does anyone else worry about being spotted by work colleagues or family or am I just paranoid?

You're probably just being paranoid. It's easy to think "they know exactly what I'm doing" because you know exactly what you're doing. Unless your work colleague knows they're escorts in that building (which if they're discrete enough they probably don't) iit would be the last thing on their mind. But if you are that worried about them seeing you, it's probably best to stay away.

[Dom Dunn]

You're probably just being paranoid. It's easy to think "they know exactly what I'm doing" because you know exactly what you're doing. Unless your work colleague knows they're escorts in that building (which if they're discrete enough they probably don't) iit would be the last thing on their mind. But if you are that worried about them seeing you, it's probably best to stay away.

Might depend on your partnership status. If you are married and seen entering an apartment complex which you have no obvious reason to be around you might arouse interest.
Then depending on who saw you questions may have to be answered. As I don't have to answer to anybody I don't have to worry about anything other than maybe the cops trying to bust me. Indeed I believe that over the years some people I know from work
who I have bumped into, while on active service, suspect I was "at it".

[pegmyass85]

I sometimes work in that area of Sandyford. I know loads of people out there. I've still spent many of my lunch breaks in the company of those beautiful ladies.

[Mr Sweet Guy]

A work colleague happens to live right smack next door to the favoured spot for escorts in Sandyford. She would know for sure what I was up to if she spotted me visiting one of the girls. So unfortunately it is now out of bounds which is a pain in the arse as a few of my all time favorites are now located there. Does anyone else worry about being spotted by work colleagues or family or am I just paranoid?

You can always visit a Lady at night or after dark , especially when days are short now mate. I always tend to do night visit , as the Lady can be more relax and just chill in my and one company.
But during the long day that another issue. For now just enjoy the long night and make the best of them now. Worry what come in the future another day mate.

And to answer your question.... Yes I do be concern about being spotted , so that why I meet Ladies in Dublin and not at home area. But my biggest concern is getting in the Lady door before I die of nervous. Them few moment are tense and nerve wrecking waiting till door open and your heart breath sight of relief or worse the nervous rack up to 10 after entering.

So my opinion is mate.... Just keep meeting the Ladies you like as life to short mate , so try not to worry what other feel or say mate. Just be discreet and you should be ok mate.
Keep meeting them in Sandyford as the Ladies will miss you.

[Dom Dunn]

You can always visit a Lady at night or after dark , especially when days are short now mate. I always tend to do night visit , as the Lady can be more relax and just chill in my and one company.
But during the long day that another issue. For now just enjoy the long night and make the best of them now. Worry what come in the future another day mate.

And to answer your question.... Yes I do be concern about being spotted , so that why I meet Ladies in Dublin and not at home area. But my biggest concern is getting in the Lady door before I die of nervous. Them few moment are tense and nerve wrecking waiting till door open and your heart breath sight of relief or worse the nervous rack up to 10 after entering.

So my opinion is mate.... Just keep meeting the Ladies you like as life to short mate , so try not to worry what other feel or say mate. Just be discreet and you should be ok mate.
Keep meeting them in Sandyford as the Ladies will miss you.

I know your point it is harder to spot people during the long winter evenings. I am not that familiar with Sandyford but I assume it is well lit up at night.
You may still be seen and it might also be harder to explain what you are up to than on a warm bright summer night.

[bmw528]

A work colleague happens to live right smack next door to the favoured spot for escorts in Sandyford. She would know for sure what I was up to if she spotted me visiting one of the girls. So unfortunately it is now out of bounds which is a pain in the arse as a few of my all time favorites are now located there. Does anyone else worry about being spotted by work colleagues or family or am I just paranoid?

If your a family man it might be better to go somewhere else as your cover could be blown. If you dont have anyone to worry about then maybe try and be discreet and enjoy.. Just my thoughts.

[Prickly]

A work colleague happens to live right smack next door to the favoured spot for escorts in Sandyford. She would know for sure what I was up to if she spotted me visiting one of the girls. So unfortunately it is now out of bounds which is a pain in the arse as a few of my all time favorites are now located there. Does anyone else worry about being spotted by work colleagues or family or am I just paranoid?

If you think you're paranoid now, it'll be a lot worse if you're the subject of rumours at work - or confronted at home.
I think you're right to be cautious. Relationships and careers can be ruined by this sort of thing. I doubt it'll be anything more than a rumour though. People usually prefer to be outraged rather than make a formal complaint.