How much to give partner out of paycheck

[slimboyfat]

God will provide??????????? Then where the @#%+ is my lottery win?

Seek not to enrich yourself at God's expense but rather seek to enrich others with the Good News.
North of the border lie the ungodly.
Soon to be cast into the purgatory of Brexit.
I shall pray for you and for the redemption of impecunious Scandinavian pagans.

[bmw528]

Hi all just wondering if i earn €500 weekly how much should i or would you hand up to your partner .. We have 2 kids together as well .. Just curious to see what is considered fair ...i hand over €250 is that fair

If your wise about how you spend your five hundred euro per week then you would manage to get by. Some people have to manage on a lot less. I dont know if two hundred and fifty euro is fair to be handing up though. I would think maybe a bit more and you make a few sacrifices for your children. As Philip says do a bit of over time or look for another job. The latter is probably much harder though.

[bmw528]

That's it. You can't keep 250 for yourself and give your family 250 to live off. It's selfish and unfair. A food shop north of 100 euro, a few things for school and a weekend cinema trip with their little friends. 250 does not go far.

He could probably spare a few euro for a small bottle of baby oil and a porno mag and brush up a bit on his banjo lessons.

[EnglishAlex]

Hi all just wondering if i earn €500 weekly how much should i or would you hand up to your partner .. We have 2 kids together as well .. Just curious to see what is considered fair ...i hand over €250 is that fair

Does your partner have an income? Or is yours the sole income?
Are your kids old enough so your partner can work part time? Or is it previously agreed that she won't?
Who pays the mortgage/rent?

I was listening to the radio a while back and they were giving advice to women to have an escape fund. In case they want to up and leave for whatever reason, siphon money away for that day. Just in case.

What sort of character are you? If you were your partner, would you have a secret escape fund?

I think that what's fair goes out of the window once you reproduce. Do you resent the 250 or do you feel like you're getting off lightly?

[whoseyourdaddy]

Hi all just wondering if i earn €500 weekly how much should i or would you hand up to your partner .. We have 2 kids together as well .. Just curious to see what is considered fair ...i hand over €250 is that fair

I think you are asking the wrong question here. Most people in a loving relationship would beggar themselves for their children and partner. I'm not trying to be judgemental, but withholding 50/ of whatever you earn does not seem fair to me for your family. But hey, I'm an older guy and might be wrong on this.

[gameplayer]

My Salary of 900 is paid into our joint account (as is hers 250 from part time work) and with 3 kids I only have 100 euro pocket money a week .
Only get to visit a lady once a month .

[FetishCherry]

wow u might have very different mentality about what means family in this country . .. In my country all families i know: parents, grandparents,my uncle with my aunt... not exist my money your money... both bring money in house and usually the woman is the one who manage the money: pay the bills, buy food, buy clothing buy what need in house etc... my father always gave all money in house (my mom worked before communism but after my father asked her to stay home as my father made in few hrs her wadges for month so he considered is not any point her to stress at work so better stay home) but always gave her all the money for family needs... when he wanted to buy something he just say i need to buy this or that or i go with some colleges to have a coffee or a beer and my mom ask how much he want and give to him ... same happen in all families i know women are the manager of the money as they are considered more calculated and organized then men... to have my money and his money i consider normal if u bf /gf but not husband /wife. THis is the way i see a family. A family is more then partnership ;( your things my things), a family is our things, our things and common things not means only kids and bed lol means and money of course: everything. Maybe that why not many divorces in my country.. seems family to be very strong bond between man and wife All together, no secrets, together forever not my things your things your secrets my secret life , my fun with my friends, your fun with your friends .. noo...is OUR life, OUR fun with OUR friends .. maybe
sound wrong in some people eyes but for me sound.. normal.

P.S A s an escort i,m happy to not give to your wife all your money lol but if i will be your wife.... i will leave u to be all independent with your f.. money with all

[howardsteele]

I thought the normal thing to do was give her the cheque

[Martin Ward]

You won't be blowing your money with any escorts so.

Was taught on day one 'Don't get high on your own supply'.

Obviously we are just an advertising platform, but I got the point. If you see escorts as an employee, you can be accused of bias.....bad situation to be in!

[Martin Ward]

Not if you don't tell anyone.

Before I went to content I was on Ad Staff, then forums. Nearly every regular escort would know my voice. Now you are right, would be easier. However, with a kid I am now more skint haha