The workplace hottie

[blabbermouth]

She caught me checking her out at a meeting. I didn't stare at her or anything, I just had a quick glance. But she caught me. She is married to a strapping six footer (I am five foot 6) and they have two children. The weird thing is she has still been very friendly to me since then. She was friendly to me before that too though. I even blanked her a few times and she still said hello to me. I must qualify this by saying this girl is super-friendly to everyone (regardless of their gender). If smiling was an Olympic sport she would win a gold medal for certain. She smiles and says hello to mostly everyone (although I have obviously not witnessed every time she has met a person in work). I was annoyed at myself for looking at her so I blanked her deliberately a couple of times to sort of even things up.
I ignored her completely one day while we were both in the kitchen. That wasn't anything to do with her really though cause I am a programmer and I was stuck on a problem I couldn't fix and I was pissed off about it. She works in accounts and I don't really work with her directly. I have emailed her a few times and she is very polite.
My desk is right outside the corridor where everyone comes in and out and there is a big glass window so I see everyone and they see me. Last Thursday she came in after lunch and waved to me and gave me a big smile as she walked by. I didn't wave or smile back cause it happened very quickly.
She knows I have the hots for her but I am sure she is used to that. It's kind of strange because I have been led to believe that attractive girls don't like fellas looking at them. They will sometimes be cold and unfriendly to a guy who does it because they don't want to give him any encouragement. I don't think she is a p***k-tease as she seems to be a very refined and sophisticated girl.
There's nothing in it I'm sure, it's more likely she thinks "Ah the poor fella, he thinks he has a chance with me, I better be nice to him".
Has anyone here had a similar experience?

[testuser1]

She caught me checking her out at a meeting. I didn't stare at her or anything, I just had a quick glance. But she caught me. She is married to a strapping six footer (I am five foot 6) and they have two children. The weird thing is she has still been very friendly to me since then. She was friendly to me before that too though. I even blanked her a few times and she still said hello to me. I must qualify this by saying this girl is super-friendly to everyone (regardless of their gender). If smiling was an Olympic sport she would win a gold medal for certain. She smiles and says hello to mostly everyone (although I have obviously not witnessed every time she has met a person in work). I was annoyed at myself for looking at her so I blanked her deliberately a couple of times to sort of even things up.
I ignored her completely one day while we were both in the kitchen. That wasn't anything to do with her really though cause I am a programmer and I was stuck on a problem I couldn't fix and I was pissed off about it. She works in accounts and I don't really work with her directly. I have emailed her a few times and she is very polite.
My desk is right outside the corridor where everyone comes in and out and there is a big glass window so I see everyone and they see me. Last Thursday she came in after lunch and waved to me and gave me a big smile as she walked by. I didn't wave or smile back cause it happened very quickly.
She knows I have the hots for her but I am sure she is used to that. It's kind of strange because I have been led to believe that attractive girls don't like fellas looking at them. They will sometimes be cold and unfriendly to a guy who does it because they don't want to give him any encouragement. I don't think she is a p***k-tease as she seems to be a very refined and sophisticated girl.
There's nothing in it I'm sure, it's more likely she thinks "Ah the poor fella, he thinks he has a chance with me, I better be nice to him".
Has anyone here had a similar experience?

Some people are just friendly by nature. Maybe thats all this is.

[cum4me]

She caught me checking her out at a meeting. I didn't stare at her or anything, I just had a quick glance. But she caught me. She is married to a strapping six footer (I am five foot 6) and they have two children. The weird thing is she has still been very friendly to me since then. She was friendly to me before that too though. I even blanked her a few times and she still said hello to me. I must qualify this by saying this girl is super-friendly to everyone (regardless of their gender). If smiling was an Olympic sport she would win a gold medal for certain. She smiles and says hello to mostly everyone (although I have obviously not witnessed every time she has met a person in work). I was annoyed at myself for looking at her so I blanked her deliberately a couple of times to sort of even things up.
I ignored her completely one day while we were both in the kitchen. That wasn't anything to do with her really though cause I am a programmer and I was stuck on a problem I couldn't fix and I was pissed off about it. She works in accounts and I don't really work with her directly. I have emailed her a few times and she is very polite.
My desk is right outside the corridor where everyone comes in and out and there is a big glass window so I see everyone and they see me. Last Thursday she came in after lunch and waved to me and gave me a big smile as she walked by. I didn't wave or smile back cause it happened very quickly.
She knows I have the hots for her but I am sure she is used to that. It's kind of strange because I have been led to believe that attractive girls don't like fellas looking at them. They will sometimes be cold and unfriendly to a guy who does it because they don't want to give him any encouragement. I don't think she is a p***k-tease as she seems to be a very refined and sophisticated girl.
There's nothing in it I'm sure, it's more likely she thinks "Ah the poor fella, he thinks he has a chance with me, I better be nice to him".
Has anyone here had a similar experience?

5ft 6, you haven't a hope, unless you own the company, forget about it

[philipkntz]

The workplace hottie has been responsible for many of my escort visits. Short skirts, tight tops, exposed cleavages and painted on leggings everywhere I look, and I'm not supposed to look. I've been hauled up to HR a few times because I've let my eyes wander. I've asked for a dress code requiring the ladies to at least button up their blouses, but no sucess, it does get quite warm and they complain that us guys can go shirtless.
Sometimes all I want when I get to an escorts apartment is to rest my eyes on her cleavage.

[Spanky Panky]

The workplace hottie has been responsible for many of my escort visits. Short skirts, tight tops, exposed cleavages and painted on leggings everywhere I look, and I'm not supposed to look. I've been hauled up to HR a few times because I've let my eyes wander. I've asked for a dress code requiring the ladies to at least button up their blouses, but no sucess, it does get quite warm and they complain that us guys can go shirtless.
Sometimes all I want when I get to an escorts apartment is to rest my eyes on her cleavage.

Thank god for that! Don't spoil things for the rest of us

[blabbermouth]

As I said there is nothing in it I'm sure but usually if a pretty girl sees a guy checking her out she will probably be a bit cold to him as she doesn't want to encourage him. Hot girls have to do that as they get hassled enough as it is. They can't be too nice to a guy because they know he will only think "I'm in here" (when in fact he's not). I just thought it was nice that's all and wanted to share it. There's another bird where I work who is rather attractive (nowhere near as attractive as the smiley girl though) and she is a right stuck-up bitch. She never said hello to me once in my time there. She looks at the floor and completely ignores me. I think she is like that with most fellas.
I'd say she thinks she is god's gift.

[Meursault]

You dont fool around at work. Especially if you are a male. Too much at stake. You get done for sexual harassment, you are done for.

[blabbermouth]

You dont fool around at work. Especially if you are a male. Too much at stake. You get done for sexual harassment, you are done for.

I know that, I'm not stupid. I don't think looking at someone's face once qualifies as sexual harassment though. If I was standing over her at her desk and looked down her top that would be a different matter.

[Barney Rubble]

As testuser posted some of the nicest and friendliest people you might ever meet are very very attractive.

Manners aren't defined by looks.

[Roderik]

Just because she is nice to see you doesn't mean she likes you. :3