Female teacher "defiles" male student

[Pblinder]

Yes, she deserves everything she gets......
This has nothing to do with purchasing escorts. You are obsessing with protecting this teacher with ridiculous comparisons.

If I break the speed limit excessively I might do time, if I find a tax loop selling garlic I might do time. I’m not comparing. In this case the adult deserves everything she gets. If I get caught with an escort yes that’s my problem but no child (yes child) is involved or being psychologically damaged.

I really wasn't comparing her having sex with this teenager to sex with an escort.
It was the very hard line condemnation by dublad and pblinder and irishdeltaforce that I was questioning.
Dublad "she raped a child"
pblinder "she deserves everything she gets"
Irishdeltaforce "it's the law of the land, fuck her"
I think all three would feel very hard done by if they were publicly outed, fined, and had to register as sex offenders for having sex with an independent escort. But that's the law of the land too.

I don't think she should ever be allowed to be in a position of authority over minors again, but I don't think she deserves jail time.
I do think any case should be judged on it's own merits, and in this case it should take into account the relatively small age gap, and the relative sexual and emotional maturity of both involved.

I think I'll leave it there. I probably see things through my own prism, my father died when I was a child so I grew up quickly ( working, responsibilities etc.) to be fairly mature at that age.

This post is how I feel about it, before it got a little heated. Nice to see a debate on here again though.
https://www.escort-ireland.com/board...16#post2131116

[Pblinder]

That’s your presumption so, no, we shouldn’t note it.
The adult has FULL responsibility for their actions
.

We should note here too, would it have happened if the teacher was the 'Butch Type' like I mentioned earlier, TBH I don't think so so the lad had a big part to play in what happened

[Pblinder]

Who cares if he was in a nightclub. The adult should know better always and be responsible. She should have steered clear. She foolishly didn’t, so she has to pay the price

[knibbs]

That’s your presumption so, no, we shouldn’t note it.
The adult has FULL responsibility for their actions
.

its true though, if the lad did not find the teacher attractive he would not have pursued it, he would not have acted and he is not a child

[philipkntz]

Do we know his family circumstances? When I was 15 i was in clubs. my mother had no way to stop me, she had no control over me. dad was long gone

And you turned out just fine didn't you?
I've often seen parents checking that their offspring have their fake id when dropping them into town. In such cases it's the parents should be jailed when the kids fuck up.

[willie wacker]

I really wasn't comparing her having sex with this teenager to sex with an escort.
It was the very hard line condemnation by dublad and pblinder and irishdeltaforce that I was questioning.
Dublad "she raped a child"
pblinder "she deserves everything she gets"
Irishdeltaforce "it's the law of the land, fuck her"
I think all three would feel very hard done by if they were publicly outed, fined, and had to register as sex offenders for having sex with an independent escort. But that's the law of the land too.

I don't think she should ever be allowed to be in a position of authority over minors again, but I don't think she deserves jail time.
I do think any case should be judged on it's own merits, and in this case it should take into account the relatively small age gap, and the relative sexual and emotional maturity of both involved.

I think I'll leave it there. I probably see things through my own prism, my father died when I was a child so I grew up quickly ( working, responsibilities etc.) to be fairly mature at that age.

This post is how I feel about it, before it got a little heated. Nice to see a debate on here again though.
https://www.escort-ireland.com/board...16#post2131116

Yep 100% spot on
You just nailed it there

[philipkntz]

Any psychological damage this guy is suffering is likely due to guilt at ruining his favourite teachers life and career, coupled with sending her to prison, compounded with the pressure of dealing with the unwanted publicity imo.

[willie wacker]

Where were his concerned parents when he was clubbing at 15 ? Yes the teacher was foolish to do what she did (& has ruined her own life too) but surely the parents bear part of the responsibility too.

Ya spot on,
Why did the parents let him go clubbing if they were so concerned.
I wonder if he had sex with a 15 old girl even when he was 15 , would the parents have pursued it ?
Nope because it would have been him in court and getting a criminal record.

[JakeGylleenhaal]

And you turned out just fine didn't you?
I've often seen parents checking that their offspring have their fake id when dropping them into town. In such cases it's the parents should be jailed when the kids fuck up.

well i wouldn quiet say i turned out just fine
i just think people are assuming a bit much, we dont know the complete circumstances do we? people are just come to their own conclusion

if we knew the circumstances we might have a different conclusion

[JakeGylleenhaal]

Ya spot on,
Why did the parents let him go clubbing if they were so concerned.
I wonder if he had sex with a 15 old girl even when he was 15 , would the parents have pursued it ?
Nope because it would have been him in court and getting a criminal record.

do we know the circumstances? do we know what was going on in the family? do we know the parents let him go clubbing of their own free will?
do we know the parents were together?