"Discrimination" and escorts

[Stephanie]

so can I.

Cashier: So one portion of soup, that's two fifty
MSG : two fifty, and of course consent, can we both agree to consent..




MSG: yes, but consent... wardrobes..prosecco..

LOVE that you can reference Seinfeld Soup Nazi *swoon* lol xx




I am just reading through this thread , and o boy o boy , my typing fingers' itching lol !!

Will i restrain my hand and mind !!? Or express my unbiased Escort Opinion :l m t o: x

[Stephanie]

^^^ : That " M " thingie Freyr has mentioned xx

[Stephanie]

..escorts don't post here, you might have noticed

Don't let that be the Norm !!

It may seem like so at the moment , but soon as this place could be made safe for

Girls to post , they would !!

Many of us registered with board id , many intelligent , experienced and insightful

gals around .. just gotta make this place more welcoming once again : where girls

don't be threatened or verbally abused , ..

NO ! This place is NOT a place where Escorts don't post !

This place is Escorts' home , which temporarily is otherwise engaged xxx

[StevieB1980]

Don't let that be the Norm !!

It may seem like so at the moment , but soon as this place could be made safe for

Girls to post , they would !!

Many of us registered with board id , many intelligent , experienced and insightful

gals around .. just gotta make this place more welcoming once again : where girls

don't be threatened or verbally abused , ..

NO ! This place is NOT a place where Escorts don't post !

This place is Escorts' home , which temporarily is otherwise engaged xxx

It's a shame that escort's don't feel safe here anymore or post comments and their insights here
It would be a far better place if they did but safety is paramount and if that is what the ladies have to do to stay safe then that is the way it has to be sadly.

[ladiesman217]

I dunno. What has consent got to do with it?

This. This is the kinda thing that scares the shit out of me.

[Stephanie]

It is discrimination based on race though.

You're working in what can be a dangerous profession so I think it's your right to discriminate in whatever way makes you feel safe and comfortable though.

No .

It's discrimination based on perceived parameters of SAFETY xx

: just as you wouldn't walk down a dark alley in mid of night ,

I'd tend to shy away from possibly questionable situations / encounters .

: in My case , it is Not based on perceived race or ethnicity .

It's based on behavior and manner of a person .

I'm just as quick to turn away an Irishman , as any other . Including my own Americans xx


: I have some wonderful clients who have been loyal Years' long regulars ;

generous , well mannered and just most joyful visitors .

Some happen to be Non-'White' .

It's not color / race based ; it is Perceived Safety based xxx

[Stephanie]

:... and perceived Cultural Compatibility -- in My case xx

IMPORTANT !!

Make it or break it , deal breaker xxx

[Stephanie]

I've met Escorts that have told me they would not see certain races/ethnicities.
I'm also fairly certain I've seen that stated on ads on this site in the past.

Not condemning or judging because as you say the decision is based on a perception of safety.
It's still racist though.

Please do Not associate me with racism . In any way .

I know you didn't say I was , but also please do not group me with such generalization xx


On the whole , it's personal choice , and I would like to believe in goodness of people .

I aso believe in self preservation !!

>>> if you've met ten foxes (or horses or cats or doves or turtles or whatever )

and 9 out of ten bit you kicked you , shat on you , drooled on you stepped on yr foot

..or whatever , I believe you cannot in any way be faulted if from then on you'd choose to

Not engage with said foxes , horses , cats doves turtles or even tortoises 'cause they Could be Turtles ! ...

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[MrLovelyLad]

This. This is the kinda thing that scares the shit out of me.

Why's that? I mean, if it makes Mr Sweet Guy think he has consent that's ok I guess. It makes him feel better. But no girl wants to have sex with multiple guys per day. She is putting her wants to the side for money. She is being paid to acquisce to acts she would not do otherwise. Calling it consent might make him feel better about it. And constantly asking for consent might give his conscience cover, but is that really consent? Consent is enthusiastically offered without any threat, including the threat of poverty hanging over the transaction, no?

[Mr Sweet Guy]

Why's that? I mean, if it makes Mr Sweet Guy think he has consent that's ok I guess. It makes him feel better. But no girl wants to have sex with multiple guys per day. She is putting her wants to the side for money. She is being paid to acquisce to acts she would not do otherwise. Calling it consent might make him feel better about it. And constantly asking for consent might give his conscience cover, but is that really consent? Consent is enthusiastically offered without any threat, including the threat of poverty hanging over the transaction, no?

I guess you got a point there in a way, it true as I state how do we know if they the professional Ladies (Escorts) or anyone give the true consent. We just don't know that , as I can't or any of us Gents can not speak on professional Ladies (Escorts) behalf..... Like I said it their mind and body to what they decide choose and professional work in....

But like all professional business their is good and bad points.... But you are saying if money is exchange hands , then she not truly consenting her mind and body to that person.....? Because she has to supply for herself and possibly family back home... This is a tricky situation and like i said only the Ladies (Escorts) we meet know that answer... But it true I always look for consent to ease my conscience , but we can only make our own judgement on what is true consent or not...
This thread has taken a strange turn from discrimination to what true consent