Threesome Advice...

[CuriousWife]

Maybe build up to it slowly again. If you're out together or watching a film mention ladies you think are hot, ask his opinion on them. If he engages bring it round to what you'd like to do with them, ask him what he'd like to do. Should be easy enough to persuade him to be fair. Maybe include him in the plans and selection process too next time and don't just present it to him as a done deal. Choosing together could be fun and could build some anticipation. Otherwise it's like. "I've chosen a woman for us, be at this hotel at 8, Bring your dick!"
Bit intimidating

Good advice RayD thank you. Ya i think i went the wrong way about it 1st time to be fair just expecting him to turn up and do as told haha. Will def take your approach to it.

[CuriousWife]

Proper order too, he'd be only wasting it on shoes and hair do's anyway book him a TS and get him a proper C N 2

Looking good for my man is all included in the budget lol

[odea61]

Yes that its true

[CuriousWife]

and don't puss out halfway through, or get jealous when he seems more fascinated with the other woman

I think him seeing me more fascinated with the other woman could be the problem!!!
But ya i suppose i wont know how ill feel about that till it happens!

[bmw528]

I think him seeing me more fascinated with the other woman could be the problem!!!
But ya i suppose i wont know how ill feel about that till it happens!

Maybe a few of us could tag along aswell..Just for some moral support and all of that.. MS Guy could bring his Special Technique Massage stuff with him.

[EIFII]

Well if you cant spoil yourself wats the point

Very important to look after yourself. Having had one ff experience you will only become hungry for more and more, and you will find it harder and harder to hide this from your husband despite your control of your finances.

The only solution I see is for you to become and escort and use tour earnings to fund your new hobby. You will gain a unique insight into the sex industry, as both client and escort.

[EIFII]

There isnt much of a market for female escort to female client which is the case here she likes being with women she didnt ask her husband for threesome with another man but another woman after her woman to woman experience ....
I think she should sort out her marriage not encourage her to become an escort in a market for women ..

I never said she should be an escort for women. She should escort for men - she has said nothing about disliking her husband or men in general, just her interest in exploring sexuality with other women.

[Rachel Divine]

Just to be clear...im not looking for any offers here...just advice!!! 
So a good while back i asked the hubby if he'd be interested in having a threesome with another lady. He seemed very excited and totally up for it. So as soon as an oppertunity presented itself i booked us into a hotel and had a few ladies here on my shortlist. I told him i had it all set up and he backed up making different excuses. So i cancelled everything and left it be. He hasnt brought it up since and i dont want to seem like im pushing him into it. Any ideas how to approach this again or not at all?

I'm curious. Is your husband any good at oral sex or does he not perform it at all? You on him? x

[Rachel Divine]

I never said she should be an escort for women. She should escort for men - she has said nothing about disliking her husband or men in general, just her interest in exploring sexuality with other women.

She wants to be with women not men. What you on about?

[CuriousWife]

At first when u posted saying u r a married woman looking for a female escort i thought fair play to u for wanting to fulfil one fantasy ur husband isnt able to fulfil for u , but with all the highlighted things u said above u are a selfish controlling inconsiderate wife towards ur husband and i pitty him...
Not only that u decided to decieve him by hiding about ur previous encounter (clearly have no quilt feelings) you now try to push him in something with another woman cause u liked being with one ,you behave selfish more and more , i suggest u have a deep look at urself and sort ur marriage outside this forum , bragging about being married and all the rest on a escort forum its disrespectful towards ur husband ... ya never know u control finances now plenty lovely looking ladies on this site which ur husband will have no problem paying to be with once he gets a taste himself ...

Wow...wasnt expecting that!!! Just to be clear we have a great marriage just wanted to explore sexual fantasies ive had for a long time. Ive spent long enough looking after my family and putting everyone before me so shoot me for putting myself 1st for once. The whole scenario of me asking him for a threesome and him backing out happened before my own encounter. I was asking here for advice on how to approach the subject again. To which i got great advice and i did reply to one of your comments that i needed to remember that its my fantasy and possibly not his. About me deceiving him by not telling him about my encounter, what about all the married men here??? My comment about controlling the finances was banter, i thought that was obvious. Im sorry my comments upset you, i actually really appreciated your comments here and thought you understood from a womans point of view. Obviously came across all wrong!