Threesome Advice...

[Ted E Bear]

never thought of it that way ...

Can't beat throwing the cat amongst the pigeons

[CuriousWife]

Did you tell him about your ff experience with Yvett? What did he think? I can’t see her profile right now but if she does couples then surely she is one to tempt him into a 3sum with?

No didnt tell him about my ff experience. I was afraid he wouldnt go for it then id miss out. Yes a little present for myself!!!

[CuriousWife]

Is it possible that he is already visiting escorts and was worried it was an escort that he met that was on your shortlist?

Good twist Ted E Bear haha. Unfortunately for him i control all the finances and he'd never get it past me muahaha 😄

[bulmers19]

No didnt tell him about my ff experience. I was afraid he wouldnt go for it then id miss out. Yes a little present for myself!!!

Well if you cant spoil yourself wats the point

[CuriousWife]

Well if you cant spoil yourself wats the point

Exactly!!!! Women have needs too 😂

[MidlifeCrisis]

Just to be clear...im not looking for any offers here...just advice!!! 😁
So a good while back i asked the hubby if he'd be interested in having a threesome with another lady. He seemed very excited and totally up for it. So as soon as an oppertunity presented itself i booked us into a hotel and had a few ladies here on my shortlist. I told him i had it all set up and he backed up making different excuses. So i cancelled everything and left it be. He hasnt brought it up since and i dont want to seem like im pushing him into it. Any ideas how to approach this again or not at all?

I think many people new to this world can get confused emotionally. Some have no trouble thinking of it as "just a bit of fun", but others find it messes with their head, especially nowadays when many escorts offer "girlfriend experience", which often includes a pretence of affection or attraction. If there is another person in the room with whom you have real affection then I imagine that could get very confusing, especially for a rookie. I think what you are planning only works if you are both very clear that you are acting out a fantasy for fun, and nothing more. Maybe he is not ready for that.

As you have said yourself, you should probably talk to him much more before doing anything.

[DeusEX]

Good twist Ted E Bear haha. Unfortunately for him i control all the finances and he'd never get it past me muahaha ��

That sounds like an endurance test rather than a marriage

[RayDonovan]

Just to be clear...im not looking for any offers here...just advice!!! 😁
So a good while back i asked the hubby if he'd be interested in having a threesome with another lady. He seemed very excited and totally up for it. So as soon as an oppertunity presented itself i booked us into a hotel and had a few ladies here on my shortlist. I told him i had it all set up and he backed up making different excuses. So i cancelled everything and left it be. He hasnt brought it up since and i dont want to seem like im pushing him into it. Any ideas how to approach this again or not at all?

Maybe build up to it slowly again. If you're out together or watching a film mention ladies you think are hot, ask his opinion on them. If he engages bring it round to what you'd like to do with them, ask him what he'd like to do. Should be easy enough to persuade him to be fair. Maybe include him in the plans and selection process too next time and don't just present it to him as a done deal. Choosing together could be fun and could build some anticipation. Otherwise it's like. "I've chosen a woman for us, be at this hotel at 8, Bring your dick!"
Bit intimidating

[Ted E Bear]

Good twist Ted E Bear haha. Unfortunately for him i control all the finances and he'd never get it past me muahaha ��

Proper order too, he'd be only wasting it on shoes and hair do's anyway book him a TS and get him a proper C N 2

[RayDonovan]

And tell him up front it's not some kind of fidelity test.

and don't puss out halfway through, or get jealous when he seems more fascinated with the other woman