Anyone worried

[lorcan]

Any client who keeps in touch after they leave will always be a reminder of their past and possibly a past they would choose to forget (just surmising) so totally understandable why they would cut off contact with the guys who were clients when they worked as an escort.

bad idea sending Christmas cards i know that now as if every guy done it what would her family think.
one day we may meet ago most likely when i'm out of action.
the years pass quickly and hard to believe they have been gone for so long

[StevieB1980]

bad idea sending Christmas cards i know that now as if every guy done it what would her family think.
one day we may meet ago most likely when i'm out of action.
the years pass quickly and hard to believe they have been gone for so long

Well hopefully you do get to meet again as friends sometime in the future but you have to respect her wishes if she doesn't want to.

[Dom Dunn]

bad idea sending Christmas cards i know that now as if every guy done it what would her family think.
one day we may meet ago most likely when i'm out of action.
the years pass quickly and hard to believe they have been gone for so long

Why would you give somebody your address/ personal email or non work phone number unless you wanted them to contact you in the future. That said as time passes and people move on friendships no matter how close tend to wither.
I am fairly certain there are some ex escorts who have new lives and have buried there past in a big hole.

[StevieB1980]

Not exactly right! but I do know clients can have personal phone number of Lady (Escorts) and be in contact when they back at home. Trust me I know and can be in contact in different way also.
And yes Escorts can have some clients they like in their company, to which they hope to keep as regulars! But rest is all true on what you say SWB.

Lucky guys if they have an escort lady's personal number that's for sure.

[StevieB1980]

Why for sure

What's running through your mind?

Nothing in particular just that it would be nice if a client guy was given an escort's personal number if he liked her alot (and vice versa).

[Mucker]

Totally agree with you ,, this us business not anything else but all I'm saying is check the coincidence of established girls dropping off after last week,,, and I'm not a mad conspiracy theorist,,, just wondering that's all

To be fair you'd need a phenomenal knowledge of comings and goings to be able to comment with confidence on a significant drop-off rate. I've noticed girls disappearing off the radar - sometimes for good - over the years but never had enough information to say if there was a surge in this activity in a particular place.

From another angle...…………..it is August and people tend to go away during that month.

[StevieB1980]

I dunno. I'm not one of the girls so I could be wrong. That's a couple of times fellas said a girl would be glad to 'put her past behind her'. But why, she has just moved on to something else, her past experiences are what makes her the person she is now.

To say what you say, infers that they are doing something they shouldn't be proud of, or doing something that is beneath what a girl should do. I don't see it like that. It's a great money making opportunity. Is it frowned upon, yeah, but very little is not frowned upon in this new pc world of ours.

But I'm one of the fellas that could see/date/have a relationship with an escort and never let it influence my thinking of her. An ex escort, cos I couldn't share a girl I loved with another fella.

For sure there are those in society who frown upon what escorts do through ignorance mainly.
No of us are judged by our profession or if we are then we shouldn't be.

[StevieB1980]

Frown upon it.

I've been fascinated by this world from I was a boy. I love this world. You get to meet many types of personalities, meet some beautiful girls, have a laugh along the way. What's not to love.

That is world we live in sadly but I am with you 100% in what you just said.

[StevieB1980]

We all have opinions and we tend to voice opinions, on things we have no experience off, but we still believe what we have to say is valid and sensible.

Truth is, unless you walked in someones shoes, as is said, you shouldn't judge or assume. But we do though.

I prefer to stay silent on topics I know nothing of tbh yet will always have a zest to gain an understanding of things I have no knowledge of yet there are things one can never fully understand like the life of an escort as we cannot walk in their shoes which is why I stay pretty quiet on saying anything when it comes to their world.

[StevieB1980]

OK. I know you were not thinking about sex.

Share a packet a biscuits and a game of gin rummy.

Thinking about sex....never.