I'm glad you brought it up. Thanks.
No hand ''fed'' me , your hand only fed your needs. ( your hand=punters)
I will put an advert up tomorrow offering nothing, let's see how many punters will ''feed'' me.
Get it out of your head. You are not doing a favour/charity with anyone. You pay for your need to be intimate with a lady. Period.
Are you feeding car dealers when you buy a car? Or is that feeding your need to have transport??
Off to look up a blog from around 10 years ago about Irish being the dirtiest in Europe.