How to know if an escort really enjoyed your company

[Harrybigtoe]

Simple.

It's in her eyes and her smile.

Agreed.... A smile, the eyes.

But the touch says, come back to me.

[DroppinLoadsOnYourFaceSon]

I'm anything but a ladies man, never thought much of that label to be honest.

Bye.......

So you agree that - in actual fact - you don't have a notion what you're talking about?

So when I tell you a sex worker/woman may exhibit disgust at having her infallible people-barrier, attitude, fabricated front - whatever you want to call it - penetrated, touched emotionally and made to feel that dirty pleasure by a dirty man-bastard - you are really in no position to contradict that?

[Mr Sweet Guy]

If she lets you book an overnight


So i'm told anyway

I agree on that..... She must trust and respect the client enough to sit and be lying looking at his face for best part of 12 hours
To which it would have to be a good business connection between them.

All in the eyes and smile I agree I suppose some escorts have got close to one or two of their clients it is a possibility though very much doubt any would start a relationship with them.

Yes it can happen in long term meeting as feeling can grow with a client and Escort.
We all human and feeling can happen with one or both people.
But it up to individuals to deal with it and work out with way best forward.
My opinion if client or Escort get to close to one another.... I guessing one would cut off connection from one another and move on as Escort it probably awkward if client develop feeling for her.
But guessing it must be hard for her to if she develop feeling for a certain client.
Because she feel alive warm and safe in his company and eventually opening up little of her life in time.

You have to remember it lonely life for a Escort away from family and close friends.
And trusting a Gent to be become their boyfriend is alone is hard.
But the sign is if she let you stay on longer then your time is allow and good sex is key to.
Her body language will be noticeable to like way she interact with you when you in company and kissing you all way to the door.
If she fall asleep in your arms then that mean she trust you a lot and feel really comfortable in your company.
Last if she give you her personal number it mean she like and trust you enough.

And keep in contact regularly like saucy messages but that to could mean also she just like your business to.
But like I said it only opinion and could be all wrong with my statement.
Still anything is not impossible. but you should know the sign if client or Escort get to close.

[Forceuser]

I agree on that..... She must trust and respect the client enough to sit and be lying looking at his face for best part of 12 hours
To which it would have to be a good business connection between them.

[DroppinLoadsOnYourFaceSon]

I understood your original point.

That people barrier you mention may not be at the same level for everyone.
I don't see how a girl will question herself for enjoying been with a fella. Maybe she might enjoy living in the moment, without questioning herself or letting her mental assuredness be compromised.

Of course. Some girls will. Non-sex workers.

Sex workers?
Can - but they tend to be in the minority.

Why?
Cause a sex workers very business model depends on being "in control".

How do you know she wants to have an infallible barrier up. Why should she not connect on a level that is not business like. Why not be touched emotionally and feel 'dirty' pleasure on the basis that both parties are very aware and accepting that the interaction is a one time deal.

Cause it's a big nasty world - and if you don't got that barrier or some kind of established validation - prepare to get butt fucked.

Business like?
Numb.
That numb sensation - i.e. no sensation.
That's business like.

I guess you're interpreting things from the traditional Irish/Catholic view point - where pleasurable sex leads to bonding, potential heartbreak etc.

Nuh. It don't work like that.
Heightened emotion - doesn't mean an emotional bond. Often the opposite.

I don't see why disgust would be in her feeling.

To be touched in a very intimate place - it can bring out all kinds of feelings.
Conveying disgust can be like, a defense mechanism.

Do you believe that if a girl is touched emotionally on a sexual level that she can not accept and understand it for what it is.
Do you believe that a girl can not behave 'fella like' and just enjoy what happened and be glad they have experienced it.
Can she not just bring the attitude of 'it is what it is'

Again - your interpretation of "touched emotionally" seems to suggest some kind of lovey-dovey bond.
It's not like that.
They understand perfectly well what's up.
Some dude is about to fuck their brains out.

Can they?
I guess they can; some.

But then - you have the phenomenon of what is known as, "regret sex" - where they feel, having being touched in such a forbidden spot, felt so good - then basically ditched - it's like a slight to their personal sense of validation.
And validation is sacred to people - especially women.

To answer your question - if you think the majority of gals, especially sex workers, can get fucked properly (not the numbed out, "oh baby yeah that's sooooo good" kind) - and take an, "it is what it is" attitude - then I have some land in Alaska to sell you.

Girls are not delicate flowers.
They don't need to question themselves or their life's decisions because they felt a temporary connection to some random fella.
They will not crumble, but simply move on and be happy for the experience.

I can't speak on a Girls behalf of course, but I will afford them a bit more credit than you seem too.

So you can't speak on behalf of girls - but none the less - you've spoken on their behalf, in fairly definitive fashion.

Someones sense of validation - when it's called into question - that is EXACTLY what it does.
They begin to question themselves, their life decisions, everything.
It is intrinsic to our thought process, our emotional regulation, our energy, productivity, mood - everything.

Listen - if a good time was had be all, and they part on good company - then it's all good.

But say - say I fucked a gal and rocked her world - then kicked her ass to the pavement with a taxi fair taped to her forehead the next morning - best believe there's gonna be some spurious charges filed against me shortly thereafter.
For a dude - it don't work like that.

[Mr Sweet Guy]

Of course. Some girls will. Non-sex workers.

Sex workers?
Can - but they tend to be in the minority.

Why?
Cause a sex workers very business model depends on being "in control".



Cause it's a big nasty world - and if you don't got that barrier or some kind of established validation - prepare to get butt fucked.

Business like?
Numb.
That numb sensation - i.e. no sensation.
That's business like.

I guess you're interpreting things from the traditional Irish/Catholic view point - where pleasurable sex leads to bonding, potential heartbreak etc.

Nuh. It don't work like that.
Heightened emotion - doesn't mean an emotional bond. Often the opposite.



To be touched in a very intimate place - it can bring out all kinds of feelings.
Conveying disgust can be like, a defense mechanism.



Again - your interpretation of "touched emotionally" seems to suggest some kind of lovey-dovey bond.
It's not like that.
They understand perfectly well what's up.
Some dude is about to fuck their brains out.

Can they?
I guess they can; some.

But then - you have the phenomenon of what is known as, "regret sex" - where they feel, having being touched in such a forbidden spot, felt so good - then basically ditched - it's like a slight to their personal sense of validation.
And validation is sacred to people - especially women.

To answer your question - if you think the majority of gals, especially sex workers, can get fucked properly (not the numbed out, "oh baby yeah that's sooooo good" kind) - and take an, "it is what it is" attitude - then I have some land in Alaska to sell you.



So you can't speak on behalf of girls - but none the less - you've spoken on their behalf, in fairly definitive fashion.

Someones sense of validation - when it's called into question - that is EXACTLY what it does.
They begin to question themselves, their life decisions, everything.
It is intrinsic to our thought process, our emotional regulation, our energy, productivity, mood - everything.

Listen - if a good time was had be all, and they part on good company - then it's all good.

But say - say I fucked a gal and rocked her world - then kicked her ass to the pavement with a taxi fair taped to her forehead the next morning - best believe there's gonna be some spurious charges filed against me shortly thereafter.
For a dude - it don't work like that.

Very intelligent post and lot of validated point put across there.
It certainly does question me on what does goes through the mind of the Lady that I am in company of.

How do I or we really know what they think of me and other clients who come into the company. And that alone question my self doubt to on what they really think and feel of me in their company.
Do they like my company or disgust and say to them self. Wish this client leave his fee and walk out

To which it hard to know. But her body language and way they interact can help. But it not a sure certain.
Also if Lady ask you back can influence she enjoy your company. But again that alone is not a sure certain.
So it a question that probably can only be answered by the Lady you are in company of. To know if she really comfortable in my company.
To which she either going to be honest or lie to me.

That alone make me question my self doubt as I never walk into a meeting expecting a 5 star experience in first or repeat meeting. Because that where the fall is longer if you expect 5 star meeting.
Each client will experience a different outcome to the next Gent and that alone is base on good connection with the Lady.

Well done and intelligent thought out post to mate.

[F-Dub]

when she keeps bitching for more special technique lip massage

And cash is the best lubricant

[DroppinLoadsOnYourFaceSon]

Touched emotionally, I don't think it infers a bond. But a moment shared by two people 'living in the moment' as such.

This is really the crux of the matter - if you correctly understand this - the rest will make sense.

Most guys - can't touch a woman emotionally.

That's the source of the gender imbalance.

I guess that's why there's no male sex workers.

They can be intimate - sure. They be close and kiss and hug and fall asleep in each others arms and spend hours looking into each others eyes - etc etc.
None of that - not one thing - necessarily lends itself to good sex.

Can it lend itself to "close" sex?
Sure.

Some of the best sex workers I've been with - they do all that shit - easy.
And I gotta admire it.
Cause - for so many - it ain't easy.

And closeness can be lovely.

But in and of itself - it doesn't make the eyes roll back and the top of the head blow off; that - is good sex.

And that's what I'm saying with the reference, "touched emotionally".

I suppose it would be more correct to say - "experience emotional heightening" - but it doesn't roll off the tongue quite as well.

[DroppinLoadsOnYourFaceSon]

let me know when this happens GOAT. would love to be there

[FetishCherry]

Give her a big tip and be sure she will never forget you and LOVED your company and will look forward for more

Now leaving the joke in a side .. if u are a nice guy , clean, respectful and not try to stay over time or push her boundaries more then sure she will enjoy having you as a guest