Do escorts ever get lonely??

[DroppinLoadsOnYourFaceSon]

A long way from home.
Sure they travel with friends but - I speculate that - going on girls attitude from time to time, they'd probably cut each others throats open (figuratively speaking), being stuck around each other out of necessary co-dependence for so long.

In a different culture, a different means of relating to people; that they perhaps struggle with?

They see a lot of men - but the ones they find attractive, typically want sex exclusively, no strings.
The ones that want a relationship with them - they typically don't find attractive.

It's gotta be a little lonely - no?

[Hardun]

All jobs have drawbacks.
Many people work away from home it is what it is.
It seems to me it would be harder for local Escorts so near home they could catch the bus when having a bad day but they need to earn money so stick it out.

[Hardun]

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Best Country in the World now the nuns have gone

[MidlifeCrisis]

People stigmatize this work , and I’m ashamed to tell anyone I
Truely care about what I really do

I'm sad to see you say you are ashamed, but I wonder if you really are? There is a big difference between keeping it secret out of shame, and keeping it secret because people you care about might judge you or see you differently.

As a client, I would not tell friends about my secret life for those reasons, but I feel no shame, and don't think of it as wrong.

I think escorts or clients who feel ashamed should probably quit - a long term feeling of shame can't be good for you.

You are a delightful young lady, and I hope that you are happy in your own skin.

[philipkntz]

Yes of course it gets lonely ,
But I’ve learnt you can’t have your cake & eat it .
I’d rather be lonely right now .

And make money selling my honey so I can have a bigger brighter future .
The end will justify the means (eventually)like anything in life .
You can have sex 4 times a day and still feel so lonely . Guy in , guy out telling you your beautiful,
But you still feel lonely .
People stigmatize this work , and I’m ashamed to tell anyone I
Truely care about what I really do . I’m just another secretary at a legal law firm like many . If you tell yourself a lie often enough, it be comes your truth .
But I know feelings are only temporary but this is a very lonely life .
I’m only lonely sometimes...
But I’m always horny❤️❤️❤️

I've heard how much legal secretaries earn, makes sense that you have to escort to make ends meet.

[AyannaMelek]

Yes, this job gets lonely from time to time. Because some people go out of their way to make it something you have to be ashamed about.

So most of the times escorts have to lie about it to avoid getting the dirty and disapproving looks from people. The same people who think it’s such a easy job to do. That often leads to withdrawal from social life and depression.

I used to feel like that in the beginning and then I realise I do nothing wrong. I have a select group of friends who know what I do for a living and don’t judge me for doing it and that makes me happy. I hate having to lie about something so natural and so normal because since the last time I checked it’s quite normal to have sex.

As Irish Daisy said you can’t have the cake and eat it, but sometimes you can have a taste of the cake too

[sophya]

Escorts are just normal people that happen to have a job that isn't "accepted" by the society.

Loneliness is overrated and sometimes is confused with "being needy"

I am never lonely, as i enjoy to much my own company, I usually say that i am my best friend, i go out to dinner, cinema, travelling all by myself. And my advices from me to me couldn´t be better if only I would follow them

The fact that we can't say to our family and friends what we do, might be sometimes frustrating, because there are days that the only thing that we would love is to pick up the phone and talk about our day to those we love, when this happens to me, i open a bottle of wine and write down all the feelings of that particular day... Then i will set the paper on fire and flush the ashes. I learned this with a NLP practioner and at least for me, works just fine, just the meaning of writing down the bad feelings that you experienced during the day and then flush them away is very powerful.

But as human beings sometimes we are just "needy" and that's it, we might confuse it with loneliness but its not, we try by all means surround ourselves with people we can talk about, have drinks, go out, and who knows sex. And from my experience (been there, done that wear the t'shirt) is when we make the worst decisions.

Touring it can be lonely but is not more lonely then to be travelling all over the world for your company and only talking to the clients of your firm during the day. If you think about is no different we both travel, we both meet clients, we both most of the time only have time to see the hotel where we are staying, and we both can't complain to our families and friends because from their perspectives we have the best work in the world, we travel for a living and we have the opportunity to see all this exciting cities.

[Dub Lad]

A long way from home.
Sure they travel with friends but - I speculate that - going on girls attitude from time to time, they'd probably cut each others throats open (figuratively speaking), being stuck around each other out of necessary co-dependence for so long.

In a different culture, a different means of relating to people; that they perhaps struggle with?

They see a lot of men - but the ones they find attractive, typically want sex exclusively, no strings.
The ones that want a relationship with them - they typically don't find attractive.

It's gotta be a little lonely - no?

Escorts aren't a different species, they are humans, we all get lonely when we move to a different country to work....

[176x]

A long way from home.
Sure they travel with friends but - I speculate that - going on girls attitude from time to time, they'd probably cut each others throats open (figuratively speaking), being stuck around each other out of necessary co-dependence for so long.

In a different culture, a different means of relating to people; that they perhaps struggle with?

They see a lot of men - but the ones they find attractive, typically want sex exclusively, no strings.
The ones that want a relationship with them - they typically don't find attractive.

It's gotta be a little lonely - no?

I have an escort friend who often gets lonely.

I find letting her sit on my face cheers her up nicely.

That's what friends are for

[AyannaMelek]

It is those horrible people who judge you because of what you do that should be ashamed of themselves not you.
Anyhow you seem in a pretty good place thankfully.

I’ve learned to stop judging people and so should they...but you can’t force your mentality on others just because to you it seems normal. I am indeed in a better place now, but if you would’ve talked to me a year ago I wouldn’t have said the same thing