Pressure of escort life

[Forceuser]

a man the other day would not stop talking about a very very upsetting subject even when I told him so many times to stop.

It is very unfair and sometime I feel I should be less approachable.

After the man the other day I did not answer my phone for hours I could not cope with calls.

You need to start telling some people to fuck off
that kinda shite annoys me!
theres a time and place for some subjects,and it usually isn't when visiting an escort!

[FetishCherry]

That is such a sad story. May she R.I.P.



Part of the job is concealing real emotions and their private lives - this unfortunately gives them the edge to hide depression and any addictions they might have from not only punters but also their close friends. Chances are they are hiding their entire life from their families so even the people who know them the best won’t see what they are going through!

I didnt get addicted of anything but yes i had depression. I went for treatment 6 months and now i,m good. Depresion is terrible u just cant fight with you. ... About hiding i,m lucky from this point of view .. to many people threatened me to tell my parents what i do and happened. Someone have seen my pictures in London and told them i am a ...Mistress because my fetish wear. But my parents didnt know what is that so i told them i,m like an actress playing the role of Mistress give orders to guys who like to play as being my slaves lol. My mom asked me :'' that why u finished a university 4 years ...to do this thing? 'and my father said :'' i dont know what is this and i dont want to know ...you are not a child anymore ,u are older enough at 38 yo(at that time) to take decisions for your life so lets not talk anymore on this subject ever' which suited me very well

[Forceuser]

The first two with the cancer stories I didnt tell to shut up because I felt so sorry fr them.

The guy the other day I was very clear but he just would not stop obviously some trauma in his life but no need to keep on and on after I told him so very clearly to stop.

I will not be letting my self get caught again.

Thats what therapists are for
they are trained and used to handling stuff like that

escorts are for having sexy fun and sharing a few laughs with
you shouldnt have to burden that kinda stuff
i dare say its not what you signed up for

[Forceuser]

That is what I will be reminding myself of in future.
Anyone not stopping I can go to another room
Takes time to learn a few tricks but I am toughing up for my own health.

Good woman!

[FetishCherry]

I found going to gym or just doing exercises home with dumbbells or barbell from youtube helps a lot to reach a good mood and keep u healthy not only body but mind too... and after i finish my exercise and i listen my favorite music and i,m happy and in good mood one guy text me :'' where are u getting pumped today? ,, I read i smile i delete i block the number and put my favorite song louder and dancing ) In this job to keep you strong mental u need just to have a hard skin and just dont bother If u bother u become first pissed off then angry then sad and depression knock on your door soon. Then u start to look for things who help u to not bother ,,and addiction is there

[Forceuser]

I found going to gym or just doing exercises home with dumbbells or barbell from youtube helps a lot to reach a good mood and keep u healthy not only body but mind too... and after i finish my exercise and i listen my favorite music and i,m happy and in good mood one guy text me :'' where are u getting pumped today? ,, I read i smile i delete i block the number and put my favorite song louder and dancing ) In this job to keep you strong mental u need just to have a hard skin and just dont bother If u bother u become first pissed off then angry then sad and depression knock on your door soon. Then u start to look for things who help u to not bother ,,and addiction is there

Good ideas and good for you!
Also keep some funny films,tv series or funny youtube clips to hand or watch some stand up comedy
Laughter is a great medicine

[FetishCherry]

Good ideas and good for you!
Also keep some funny films,tv series or funny youtube clips to hand or watch some stand up comedy
Laughter is a great medicine

Yes and play with your pet. Anything basically who make u to feel good

[Mr Sweet Guy]

I found going to gym or just doing exercises home with dumbbells or barbell from youtube helps a lot to reach a good mood and keep u healthy not only body but mind too... and after i finish my exercise and i listen my favorite music and i,m happy and in good mood one guy text me :'' where are u getting pumped today? ,, I read i smile i delete i block the number and put my favorite song louder and dancing ) In this job to keep you strong mental u need just to have a hard skin and just dont bother If u bother u become first pissed off then angry then sad and depression knock on your door soon. Then u start to look for things who help u to not bother ,,and addiction is there

Good positive attitude to have Cherry and glad you conquer and came through your depression
It must been a dark place where no where to turn or see no light at end of tunnel

But you are strong and positive attitude show you away to fight and get through your terrible ordeal.
And it finally brought you toward the light and freedom of all sadness you kept in your mind.

Well Done Cherry and it show depression can be beaten with help and speak out to someone.

[EIFII]

Now in my time in Dortmund Germany.
I have more downs then ups, But I just found out something today that truly sadden me
A German Lady I known little of and work as Escort here in Germany.
She has pass away from drug overdose

How I know is her friend another Escort told me as she knew I was in contact with her now and again, She knew we struck up a lovely friendship.
Sad thing I was in contact with her 4 days ago and was planning to meet her before I left Germany less then 3 weeks time.
But found out today she pass away 2 days ago.

I have met her few times and spend a lovely overnight with her after she persuade me at dinner to.
But she never gave me hint she was under stress or depress in life or her line of work.

It show the stress of Escort life is as any business is high pressures, But my opinion Escort life and business is one of hardest job to do.
Mentally and psychically can be demanding to.
Just want to say have a thought for Escorts in any country who business is not a easy one to endure.
And beware that depression is silent killer to anyone.

Ok I didn't really know her, But met her few times in my life on my time here in Germany and gutted now
Because I never now have that opportunity to have that drink and meeting with her.

R.I.P. German Beauty and I am really going to miss our little chat and banter on whatapps

You are such a sad and needy man Mr SG. I really do my best to ignore your constant whining drivel on here, but this is just impossible. You hide behind an anonymous username and post about a German girl you barely knew on an Irish website. How debasing and dehumanising do you want to get? That woman was someone’s daughter, sister, friend, colleague, may be mother.

Am I the only one horrified by your crass insensitivity?

[Good4u2]

its sad but they have passed away here too, even clients too.
life is indeed not easy at times