Threesome with wife

[Niloc]

An escort I know offered to try to seduce my wife on a night out, to set up a threesome. My wife has admitted bi-curious fantasies before, but just fantasies. I declined the offer, but I can't stop thinking about it. It does feel a little ethically dubious though

[willie wacker]

An escort I know offered to try to seduce my wife on a night out, to set up a threesome. My wife has admitted bi-curious fantasies before, but just fantasies. I declined the offer, but I can't stop thinking about it. It does feel a little ethically dubious though

Maybe you should ask your wife first , ask is she up for it.
If not then leave it as a fantasy

[Zacklegend]

Maybe you should ask your wife first , ask is she up for it.
If not then leave it as a fantasy

Agree, the wife should be aware and in agreement. Last thing she would want to know is that the lady who seduced her was being paid by her husband. Does she know you see Escorts or not as that could open a can of worms. Great idea though and less robotic in terms of turn up to room, pay for 30 mins wham bam get out. Never understand why some people call a 30 min appointment GFE or Sensual etc. Not much getting to know each other in that short time.

[CaraClarke]

I would agree with the above. The great thing about fantasies and imagination is that they're harmless. To actualise them is another story, depending on how taboo, risqué, or who is involved.

Threesomes are probably the most vanilla fantasy there is, but it can be hurtful to some parties. You'd want to make sure that she's really sure of it, and completely rule out any possibility of jealous before going forward. I often decline threesome offers if I sense that it's purely serving the man's desires, and the woman is simply agreeing for the sake of not wanting to come off as difficult or unadventurous.

[willie wacker]

Agree, the wife should be aware and in agreement. Last thing she would want to know is that the lady who seduced her was being paid by her husband. Does she know you see Escorts or not as that could open a can of worms. Great idea though and less robotic in terms of turn up to room, pay for 30 mins wham bam get out. Never understand why some people call a 30 min appointment GFE or Sensual etc. Not much getting to know each other in that short time.

Yep 100% Agee

[Zacklegend]

Yep 100% Agee

Tried this a couple of years back with an ex, who had been mentioning she wanted to see me with another women and me to watch her. So I went off to one of my old regulars. Took the GF out to the bar in the hotel, met the escort discretely to hand over the envelope. She starts to flirt, brings her back to my table. Offers to go back to room with us, GF Says no thanks! £400 out of pocket!! Always agree with you partner, wife first. If its there first threesome they may want a say in the selection process just like we would.

[Niloc]

Yeah, there is a reason I posted this here, and not "client requests". I just found the idea intriguing, but I think it would violate consent and trust. In my (limited) experiences 3somes are over rated anyway, unless the dynamic is exactly right.

[Sorewillyafteryou]

An escort I know offered to try to seduce my wife on a night out, to set up a threesome. My wife has admitted bi-curious fantasies before, but just fantasies. I declined the offer, but I can't stop thinking about it. It does feel a little ethically dubious though

I don't usually share my opinions on here, but this is a topic that is often discussed on here, and I felt I should reply to this as I recently had a threesome myself, not with an escort from this site, but from another adult dating site that I joined about two months ago!! We agreed after a while, myself and a female friend of mine from Co. Clare, that we wouldn't go down the route of getting an escort, as it was proving impossible to organise, and we also didn't want an escort who would just put on an act or a show and pretend she was interested and no interaction, so I eventually got a third party, a member of the public like ourselves to agree!! But like someone else has previously said, sometimes threesomes should be just left as that, a fantasy in your head!! To say that we didn't click was an understatement!! Infact it was a total disaster!! I won't go into details, but just make sure that you have all your homework done so to speak, as the fantasy of a threesome can easily become a complete letdown!!

[Sorewillyafteryou]

Keep it a fantasy if you care about your relationship with your wife.

I have to my great regret allowed sexual fantasy and a third party into good relationships.

It never ends well in my experience.

The first time I succumbed to this shit she was my first love.

I regret the threesome and the lost love we could have had to this day.

I agree, if you're in an open relationship with your wife or partner, and are heavily involved in the swingers scene, then you can have some success, but the majority of threesomes are near impossible to organise, and are not always a success, as the click may not be there, and it becomes quite awkward!! One may click with the other but not with the third etc!!

[Sorewillyafteryou]

Good to see you posting my long time friend.

Cheers my man, although I'm not really one for it, and I didn't punt in so long, but I said I would voice my opinion on the subject of threesomes, as there not always cut out to be what there supposed to be!!