cara clarke

[annabel taylor]

What with the quotes on this thread

[willie wacker]

What with the quotes on this thread

One mistake and you all follow, then it’s fucked up

Now back on topic or it
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[circumcised guy]

What with the quotes on this thread

I was wondering the same thing people seem to be quoting themselves a little confusion I think

[CaraClarke]

Had not noticed this part of it , I dislike this type of attitude with total intensity , zero tolerance , indeed there is a girl I see that is a friend of yours will have to re consider that as she may hold the same view . As to Ciara I wish her well but not for me on this .

I left my house for the first time in 4 days and I come back to this mess. Gas, ye couldn't make it up!

Of course you are entitled to your opinion, and there are different strokes for different folks - excuse the pun. I actually quite enjoy engaging with people who have opposing views to me to avoid living in my own echo chamber, but this is a clear case of someone loving the sound of their own voice and pulling up a whole load of nothing just for the sake of controversy.

Here's my input. I only joined Twitter about 4 months ago and originally intended it to be a client-facing profile, but I accidentally fell into the whole "findom" scene, although I was no stranger to femdom in general. I'm well aware that mixing findom and escorting on the one Twitter profile can alienate some potential clients, but if anyone fails to compartmentalise everything that I cater to, then that's not the kind of client who would be able to keep up a conversation with me anyway. Findom was apparently one of the fastest growing fetishes of 2017, and, although it may not be for you, don't dismiss me for dipping my toes in it. It's a lot of work extracting money from men when they are aware they get nothing in return except a wee kick, it's a total mental game. Most "finsubs", and certainly the ones I've had, have other fetishes too, such as cuckolding, CBT etc. so I've often met them for realtime femdom sessions too. That's my playtime, and it's refreshing that I can book domme sessions whenever I get bored of men like yourself vigorously doing the ABC's on my clit. Variety is the spice of life.

TLDR; I'm exploring every avenue that interests me so I can find my rhythm. I do what I want and those who like me will flock to me regardless. Die mad about it. Kisses!

PS. Sorry to Annabel for getting dragged into this dick measuring contest!

[beautyaddict]

I left my house for the first time in 4 days and I come back to this mess. Gas, ye couldn't make it up!

Of course you are entitled to your opinion, and there are different strokes for different folks - excuse the pun. I actually quite enjoy engaging with people who have opposing views to me to avoid living in my own echo chamber, but this is a clear case someone loving the sound of their own voice and pulling up a whole load of nothing just for the sake of controversy.

Here's my input. I only joined Twitter about 4 months ago and originally intended it to be a client-facing profile, but I accidentally fell into the whole "findom" scene, although I was no stranger to femdom in general. I'm well aware that mixing findom and escorting on the one Twitter profile can alienate some potential clients, but if anyone fails to compartmentalise everything that I cater to, then that's not the kind of client who would be able to keep up a conversation with me anyway. Findom was apparently one of the fastest growing fetishes of 2017, and, although it may not be for you, don't dismiss me for dipping my toes in it. It's a lot of work extracting money from men when they are aware they get nothing in return except a wee kick, it's a total mental game. Most "finsubs", and certainly the ones I've had, have other fetishes too, such as cuckolding, CBT etc. so I've often met them for realtime femdom sessions too. That's my playtime, and it's refreshing that I can book domme sessions whenever I get bored of men like yourself vigorously doing the ABC's on my clit. Variety is the spice of life.

TLDR; I'm exploring every avenue that interests me so I can find my rhythm. I do what I want and those who like me will flock to me regardless. Die mad about it. Kisses!

PS. Sorry to Annabel for getting dragged into this dick measuring contest!

First thanlks for response , actually it is at its center my misunderstanding I just looked up Findom now I get it. I was sent wrong by rinsing phrase , I saw a documentary on it awhile back and was not impressed as it was exploiting vulnerable men in a v cruel way . being done to men who were not booking escorts by women who proceeded to take as much money as possible from them knowing they were hurting that person . Hence my in correct response apologies I am it seems not up to speed on more exotic tastes .

However the subsequent torrent of abuse was a bit OTT , and some of it actually made no sense to me anyway. I actually tried to support you for what that is worth before this misunderstanding and I still like your strength despite the throw away insults considering you know nothing of me .

Words matter . The exchange between Annabel and I has set off its own echo chamber such comments , I think they qualify as that must for me and decisions have been made and communicated .

But it was my mistake my misunderstanding my bad , sorry and I really do wish you well

[CaraClarke]

First thanlks for response , actually it is at its center my misunderstanding I just looked up Findom now I get it. I was sent wrong by rinsing phrase , I saw a documentary on it awhile back and was not impressed as it was exploiting vulnerable men in a v cruel way . being done to men who were not booking escorts by women who proceeded to take as much money as possible from them knowing they were hurting that person . Hence my in correct response apologies I am it seems not up to speed on more exotic tastes .

However the subsequent torrent of abuse was a bit OTT , and some of it actually made no sense to me anyway. I actually tried to support you for what that is worth before this misunderstanding and I still like your strength despite the throw away insults considering you know nothing of me .

That's ridiculous and implying that all financial dominatrixes are abusers, and it's ridiculous that you come to a conclusion of a particular fetish after only seeing *one* perspective. You then took that singular source and applied it to me and my approach to findom, and presumed that's how I am with my finsubs. Yes I know nothing of you, and you know nothing of me, but what I've gathered from your words gives me enough to think that you lack insight.

You commented on what Annabel said ("rinsing piggies") even though it wasn't even being directed at you. I never had any intention to pull you into my spiderweb of findom either, so in my eyes you really caused a whole load of nothing.

All good anyway, and we'll leave it at that.

[beautyaddict]

That's ridiculous and implying that all financial dominatrixes are abusers, and it's ridiculous that you come to a conclusion of a particular fetish after only seeing *one* perspective. You then took that singular source and applied it to me and my approach to findom, and presumed that's how I am with my finsubs. Yes I know nothing of you, and you know nothing of me, but what I've gathered from your words gives me enough to think that you lack insight and critical thinking.

You commented on what Annabel said ("rinsing piggies") even though it wasn't even being directed at you. I never had any intention to pull you into my spiderweb of findom either, so in my eyes you really caused a whole load of nothing.

All good anyway, and we'll leave it at that.

Lets be clear you were never getting me into your web Domination is not for me so you wont need to be concerned that I will bore you
. Rinsing is for me associated with a disgraceful activity . If I interpreted it that way tough luck or are you now telling me how to think !! , at least when I mess up i will say so .

What you do is for you are those who enjoy it . i read the post wrong , well yes and no because rinsing exists and is well know so I read the post wrong in context . And I am not implying all Findoms are abusers you need to read my post better . The guys in that documentary had no idea they were being rinsed . You do not it seems know the doc I am referring to or so it seems .

[DeusEX]

I suggest beautyaddict that you stop digging a hole for yourself,each to their own and all that and stop saying things like "I really admire this lady etc etc.."multiple times because you sound like a douche

[beautyaddict]

I suggest beautyaddict that you stop digging a hole for yourself,each to their own and all that and stop saying things like "I really admire this lady etc etc.."multiple times because you sound like a douche

BA can handle himself been around the block now dont you worry

[CaraClarke]

Lets be clear you were never getting me into your web Domination is not for me so you wont need to be concerned that I will bore you
. Rinsing is for me associated with a disgraceful activity . If I interpreted it that way tough luck or are you now telling me how to think !! , at least when I mess up i will say so .

What you do is for you are those who enjoy it . i read the post wrong , well yes and no because rinsing exists and is well know so I read the post wrong in context . And I am not implying all Findoms are abusers you need to read my post better . The guys in that documentary had no idea they were being rinsed . You do not it seems know the doc I am referring to or so it seems .

You think that because your view is skewed from one bloody documentary. I'm guessing it was VICE or something ridiculously bias and one-sided.

"Rinsing" is just terminology for the play between a findomme and a finsub during a session. The session being the findomme convincing the finsub to pay her, therefore "rinsing" his wallet. It sounds harsh, and it's clear it upsets you, but it's the financial domination equivalent of leaving the envelope on the dresser.

Now, in relation to the men who "don't know" they're being rinsed. It hardly happens, as findoms rarely approach the men first, and what you'd be referring to sounds like traditional scamming. Yes, it happens that findommes receive payment and don't interact with men after that, they often get caught out and exposed. On the other hand, there are men who pay women and then have the payment revoked by Paypal, or else don't get paid at all.