What it like to had date a escort and has any gents date a escort

[Mr Sweet Guy]

Now this question might be cover before.....

But I just want to see if any clients here has date a Escort in their life time...?

Here my story of Escort I date for about 9 months before I fell for my Lady of 9 years..

When I was only 20 years old 15 years back and working in London..
I met this Beautiful Hungarian Lady in a bar and we chat and exchange numbers..
As she was with her friends who where European also..

Now I never call her as I lost her number..
I was young and foolish and thought nothing of it..
So 1 weeks later got a call from a Lady who I did not remember and she told me who she and where we met...

So we met up next weekend and had a enjoyable date as I refuse to come in for coffee on first date..
We went on date at night at weekend as I this went on for just over 3 months..
But never allow to come near her place during that time as she said she work late...
But i thought nothing of it...

Then one night after 3months she rang and ask me come to her place and told me she was Escorting as that time I never even consider or look them up...

It hit me like a Bombshell as I was lost for words and at time betrayal that she kept this from me..
She was afraid in case one of my mate met her or I found out from someone..

Sadly and cowardly I walk out and left her in tears..I KNOW I WAS ASSHOLE FOR DURING THAT..
But hurt and betrayal was hard at time..
So she call and told her I needed space as find out your girlfriend was a Escort was shock..

What went through my mind was anger... jealousy ...hurt and betrayal...
So for 5 days I weight it up and said I been dating her well over 3 months and had many great pleasure time and moment with her..

And Gents believe me a Escort is just a normal Lady and person who has good and bad day as I found out..
I apologize to her for walking out on that night when she needed me most..
And we only met at weekend and her day off and she never talk of her clients as i didn't want to know..
But would tell me if she had a bad day as hear the blunt of that alright..

But sadly we drifted apart as she made very good money in her business..
And I to use to hang out with my mate more and more..
And eventually at a rave party I fell for friend of my mate girlfriend as it was instant attraction from both of us..

So I broke off with her Hungarian Escort as we hardly met as she spend more time in her work..
And had to wait 3 longest month to finally announced we where dating as she broke up with her boyfriend week after we first met at rave party..

So dating a Escort is hard one but not impossible..
But be prepare for lot of inner jealousy on your side as it not easy..
And only answer I can give is never ask her about her clients or you as it drive you insane..

Just remember she a Escort is normal person and it you who she be bed at night with..
Life of Escort is very hard as I had date one in London and know isolation from family and friends and just trying to be discreet is 24 hour job..

[PlankMan]

Thanks for your story. I can only imagine how isolating the escorting life can be.

I wonder is there less jealousy if you know she is escorting before you start to date?

[Mr Sweet Guy]

Thanks for your story. I can only imagine how isolating the escorting life can be.

I wonder is there less jealousy if you know she is escorting before you start to date?

That a very good question as she did ask me and I honest think it wouldn't work for me..
As I would had no trust and jealously would been worse I think..
If she told me from the start..
Selfish from me I know..

But we where dating just over 3 months and I did really like her and had trust in her..
But it must been hard to come out and tell me as of course she was scare she lose me..

And I look at 3 months and said don't throw 3 months away easy..
Yes the jealousy never leave you but you learn to control it as remember it just a job and Escorts can develop feeling for clients..

As it natural to happen but she just ring me and sex is totally different in away as you know their real passion like your girlfriend or wife..

As yes she enjoy sex with clients she was with I guess as I never ask her but you has to be mentally strong in Escort business as it is mentally hardest job..
Because Escort can't let her feeling get involved with her work..
But it can happen Escort fall for a client or vice versa and it rare at same time..

[WatWatWat]

Mean while back at the ranch!!!!!!

[FetishCherry]

Hahahah...men First:I would say on Tagged are more ladies married who will go to a night stand with a stranger then escorts... and i know what i say ... When a friend of mine put there i,m looking for relationship, not any lady contacted him but when he put looking for fuck lots of MARRIED lady contacted him... right...
Second: When u jealous then u dont really understand that is just a job so u have nothing to do in an escort private life. Keep your position as a client as is obviously u dont understand at all how is with this escorting

Escorts are regulars lady but they are not.... They are more open minded then regular ladies know to make the difference between money and pleasure, love and sex , etc. Guys who are in our private lives or want to come in our private lives have to be same: open minded and knows the difference between being an escort and being a whore. If they dont know...well.. their place is near a regular job lady, not with an escort lady...

[FetishCherry]

That a very good question as she did ask me and I honest think it wouldn't work for me..
As I would had no trust and jealously would been worse I think..
If she told me from the start..
Selfish from me I know..

But we where dating just over 3 months and I did really like her and had trust in her..
But it must been hard to come out and tell me as of course she was scare she lose me..

And I look at 3 months and said don't throw 3 months away easy..
Yes the jealousy never leave you but you learn to control it as remember it just a job and Escorts can develop feeling for clients..

As it natural to happen but she just ring me and sex is totally different in away as you know their real passion like your girlfriend or wife..

As yes she enjoy sex with clients she was with I guess as I never ask her but you has to be mentally strong in Escort business as it is mentally hardest job..
Because Escort can't let her feeling get involved with her work..
But it can happen Escort fall for a client or vice versa and it rare at same time..

Ehh... you have to be ''special' as a man to understand how is with this job... not even as a woman u cant understand when u never done.... all seems to be total different from outside ..only when u actually do and see things from inside then everything is total different... i use to have bad opinion about escorts as well when i had a regular job , but once i started i met many girls regular jobs and with escort jobs and i realized that is not the job who put u above others ( or down) in society or social or whatever u want to call position in people minds ,but YOU as a person. You can be a good person with education and manners and have a 'bad' seen job by others and u can be an asshole, a cheater and a person with no manners n a 'high' position job. You as a person is matter not your job. who judge a person by their job at the moment are wrong. Totally wrong

[TrickyDickie]

if it helps, i felt the same way about your Nan

[Forceuser]

If i had a euro for the amount of times an escort has tried to tie me down in a relationship
but i be like,nah girl,this stallion shouldnt be tamed.
just because im the best you ever had and you cant live without me,
i should be allowed to roam wild and free as nature intended
it would be like putting a beautiful,majestic bird in a cage

[ts-oriental-aries]

What is all this clicking carry on when meeting someone ._..If someone starts clicking at me i do feel instant dislike

You are cold & bitter
Lol

[TryHardNobody]

I've never dated an escort, but there's some sex workers I could have fallen for.
I have in the past, avoided liaising with them, as at that time, I don't think I could have handled the jealousy of them getting railed by other guys.

Now however - I'm fairly confident I could deal with that.
Not to say that I'd go out of my way to date a sex worker just - I have a better idea how to play that particular game now.