What it like to had date a escort and has any gents date a escort

[The Equalizer]

Escorts date clients, and clients date escorts. Not very often, but it does happen.

Two things to keep in mind, though:

Clients dating escorts don't tell the world about it

Escorts dating clients don't tell the world about it

[Mr Sweet Guy]

Ehh... you have to be ''special' as a man to understand how is with this job... not even as a woman u cant understand when u never done.... all seems to be total different from outside ..only when u actually do and see things from inside then everything is total different... i use to have bad opinion about escorts as well when i had a regular job , but once i started i met many girls regular jobs and with escort jobs and i realized that is not the job who put u above others ( or down) in society or social or whatever u want to call position in people minds ,but YOU as a person. You can be a good person with education and manners and have a 'bad' seen job by others and u can be an asshole, a cheater and a person with no manners n a 'high' position job. You as a person is matter not your job. who judge a person by their job at the moment are wrong. Totally wrong

Yes that a good statement..
But when we first met she was working as Escort for about 2 month as she told me after line of business was..
Yes I like her and had feeling for her..
But we drifted apart as she said her business was important to her and I respected that..

But never once did I pressure her against anything on her life or her business..
As she was happy and that all matter to me..
As when she call or meet in person I knew she was happy to hear or see me..
But sadly when both of us work long hours and hardly get time to see each other one or both drift apart..
We part way on good term and stay in touch as friends for nearly 7 months until she move on to work in another country..

Yes I was 20 years and never knew anything about Escort business or their life..
And when she told me and I commend her for that as it must had been very hard for her to come out and to say them words..
Yes I could handle situation better when she told me..
I was brash and stupid but I never condemn her on her business as I didn't know what to say at time..
I did whole heartily apologies her and we had many happy pleasurable time after..

As no Escort going to tell a guy they just started dating what line of business she work in..
As that up to the Escort if and when she ready to tell the person she dating..
As they have to protect their identity for their own safety..

So that why I always respect the Escorts business and their life..
Because I date a Escort and yes it was 15 years ago and working as a Escort is a very hard business and life..

We clients will never totally understand the life of a Escort..

[TrickyDickie]

cupid can be a cruel bastard, escorts\taxi drivers\cleaning ladies\company directors and many more, you never know when its going to happen, but it happens, people all shapes and sizes, all walks of life can have relationships together, even fall in love, there is no template, look at lovers handing hands in the streets, would you ever put some of them together?

and that is the magic and mystery of that crazy thing called "love"..............and sometimes its even requited

PS I always wanted to be a heart surgeon so I could hold someones heart in my hands everyday

[Mr Sweet Guy]

And you claim to be no.1 English and no.2 Male..........

Zilch mate unless you dated a Escort mate..

Maybe best keep your opinion to yourself mate..

And what wrong been English as I born there and proud to be English..

It doesn't mean I disrespect other nationalities..

As it seem you don't like English Ladi

[Mr Sweet Guy]

Zilch mate unless you dated a Escort mate..

Maybe best keep your opinion to yourself mate..

And what wrong been English as I born there and proud to be English..

It doesn't mean I disrespect other nationalities..

As it seem you don't like English Ladi

I will refrain some of what I said above..
But Zilch before you dish English Gent like me or English Ladies and Gents go to London as it a Beautiful city..
And head to Soho Square as it best to go at night..

Come back and let me know then if you like the English and the city..

But I guess we never have that chat together if you go to London

[Barney Rubble]

Zilch mate unless you dated a Escort mate..

Maybe best keep your opinion to yourself mate..

And what wrong been English as I born there and proud to be English..

It doesn't mean I disrespect other nationalities..

As it seem you don't like English Ladi

I will refrain some of what I said above..
But Zilch before you dish English Gent like me or English Ladies and Gents go to London as it a Beautiful city..
And head to Soho Square as it best to go at night..

Come back and let me know then if you like the English and the city..

But I guess we never have that chat together if you go to London

MSG I don't think that Zilch meant any offence to you .
Maybe I've missed something?

[dannylad]

Now this question might be cover before.....

But I just want to see if any clients here has date a Escort in their life time...?

Here my story of Escort I date for about 9 months before I fell for my Lady of 9 years..

When I was only 20 years old 15 years back and working in London..
I met this Beautiful Hungarian Lady in a bar and we chat and exchange numbers..
As she was with her friends who where European also..

Now I never call her as I lost her number..
I was young and foolish and thought nothing of it..
So 1 weeks later got a call from a Lady who I did not remember and she told me who she and where we met...

So we met up next weekend and had a enjoyable date as I refuse to come in for coffee on first date..
We went on date at night at weekend as I this went on for just over 3 months..
But never allow to come near her place during that time as she said she work late...
But i thought nothing of it...

Then one night after 3months she rang and ask me come to her place and told me she was Escorting as that time I never even consider or look them up...

It hit me like a Bombshell as I was lost for words and at time betrayal that she kept this from me..
She was afraid in case one of my mate met her or I found out from someone..

Sadly and cowardly I walk out and left her in tears..I KNOW I WAS ASSHOLE FOR DURING THAT..
But hurt and betrayal was hard at time..
So she call and told her I needed space as find out your girlfriend was a Escort was shock..

What went through my mind was anger... jealousy ...hurt and betrayal...
So for 5 days I weight it up and said I been dating her well over 3 months and had many great pleasure time and moment with her..

And Gents believe me a Escort is just a normal Lady and person who has good and bad day as I found out..
I apologize to her for walking out on that night when she needed me most..
And we only met at weekend and her day off and she never talk of her clients as i didn't want to know..
But would tell me if she had a bad day as hear the blunt of that alright..

But sadly we drifted apart as she made very good money in her business..
And I to use to hang out with my mate more and more..
And eventually at a rave party I fell for friend of my mate girlfriend as it was instant attraction from both of us..

So I broke off with her Hungarian Escort as we hardly met as she spend more time in her work..
And had to wait 3 longest month to finally announced we where dating as she broke up with her boyfriend week after we first met at rave party..

So dating a Escort is hard one but not impossible..
But be prepare for lot of inner jealousy on your side as it not easy..
And only answer I can give is never ask her about her clients or you as it drive you insane..

Just remember she a Escort is normal person and it you who she be bed at night with..
Life of Escort is very hard as I had date one in London and know isolation from family and friends and just trying to be discreet is 24 hour job..

I have been asked back for freebies and a few still contact me and may want to take things further but if so I would not go there so Why would you want to date am escort for, that is crazy, its business for her, there are a lot of desperate guys on here made to think by the escort that something good may come of it but as soon as the money runs out, she does as well but it a lovely story this though

[Mr Sweet Guy]

MSG I don't think that Zilch meant any offence to you .
Maybe I've missed something?

Thanks Barney as that why I refrain my post about Zilch..
And you are a good Gent Barney Mate..
If I went on a pub crawl you be one of the lads that would make night a great piss up..
Because the Ladies know you well in Dundalk

If you drinking you got to have the Lady Gent with us..
As he draw the Ladies and give rest of us a chance to pull a Beauty for the night..

[dannylad]

Thanks Barney as that why I refrain my post about Zilch..
And you are a good Gent Barney Mate..
If I went on a pub crawl you be one of the lads that would make night a great piss up..
Because the Ladies know you well in Dundalk

If you drinking you got to have the Lady Gent with us..
As he draw the Ladies and give rest of us a chance to pull a Beauty for the night..

I wouldn't drink with Barney on a night out in Dundalk, he'd scare all the ladies away

[TrickyDickie]

Never change your life for anyone else. If someone wants to change, they should do it because THEY want it. If that doesn't line up with what someone else wants then feck them. Nobody owes anyoneone anything in return for love.

I once put some money in a change machine.........nothing happened though....I'm still a Dick, good looking, fantastic lover, terrible cook!