should I tell her?

[experienced punter]

Sorry EP but your taking the piss right?? Tell her, hell no, it doesn't matter how open minded she is you admit to sleeping with an escort and it's bye bye's. Just pick a reasonable number but no more than 5 and make shit up...

I'm not messing u see I'm fuckin guilt ridden

[Wildthang]

I'm not messing u see I'm fuckin guilt ridden

Ahh see thts where your going wong You need to kill tht mother fuking Conscience right away. "killing it, will set you free"

[silo]

I'm not messing u see I'm fuckin guilt ridden

Guilt is in your conscious mind and infested your subconscious mind, as soon as guilt plays your head you have to distract yourself with other thoughts to break this guilt ridden thinking pattern.

[Last time]

Guilt is in your conscious mind and infested your subconscious mind, as soon as guilt plays your head you have to distract yourself with other thoughts to break this guilt ridden thinking pattern.

Using the above mind set...if you tell her, all she will remember from now on when you are having sex...or an argument....or anytime good or bad, is that you slept with escorts. She will think...you pay girls for sex! She will not see that these girls are lovely, good looking and sweet. She will see them as abused, manipulated poor little girls that you have exploited.
As Silo said...guilt is in your consious mind....tell her and it will be in her subconcious mind. Meaning that you can get rid of you guilt by not letting the thought go any further and dismiss it but it will go into her memory bank for ever and even if you do not last she will have to tell someone of your secert who will tell someone else and so it will continue....

[silo]

Do Not Tell Anyone! they can use it against you if you fall out, even your best friend can backstab you with this type of information if he fancied your wife in the future, trust no one!

[experienced punter]

Using the above mind set...if you tell her, all she will remember from now on when you are having sex...or an argument....or anytime good or bad, is that you slept with escorts. She will think...you pay girls for sex! She will not see that these girls are lovely, good looking and sweet. She will see them as abused, manipulated poor little girls that you have exploited.
As Silo said...guilt is in your consious mind....tell her and it will be in her subconcious mind. Meaning that you can get rid of you guilt by not letting the thought go any further and dismiss it but it will go into her memory bank for ever and even if you do not last she will have to tell someone of your secert who will tell someone else and so it will continue....

great answer

I've taken a day off work due to the stress of this situation

[Patricia]

great answer

I've taken a day off work due to the stress of this situation

Don't stress so much honey. Obviously you like this lady a lot, but it is still quite early days for you. I say if she can't accept you the way you are, she is not the lady for you, BUT I don't think you need to make a FULL CONFESSION today. Take it easy, get to know her better first!

[Tommy Singh]

great answer

I've taken a day off work due to the stress of this situation

Jesus man your stress tolerance to fuckin low.Very low.Its a meditation course you should be asking us about.

She isnt in your life as a partner long enough to let it destroy your mind like this.Your getting too serious too soon and trust me when i say that can have a very bad affect on a relationship.

Its not like she called you a prick.Its only a question and give any old answer at all but the truth.

You know why?Because if you tell her the truth and she accepts it,it wont matter because youll be off work the following day then ,worrying about whether she will stay with you or not or what is on her mind.

Enjoy the realtionship in its infancy.Use a chill mond and relax and have fun and enjoy each others company.No need for to be getting so serious so soon.

enjoy the journey and youll arrive at the destination,
Westside.

PS if i was your employer id fire your arse out the door.What did you tell him?Flu?Menigitis?Anal Fisure?

[dom]

wake up man , get a grip on your self. are you seriously mad or just on the speedy way there. i am glad you are in a happy place at the moment with your lady friend. stay happy....
keep your mouth SHUT. A CLOSED MOUTH CATCHES NO FLIES...she is fishing to see what kind of real man you are before she goes to the next stage of the relationship...tell her what she needs to hear (or wants to hear) she wants to know that she is with a man, but she dosent really want to know to much. tell her you enjoyed life and led a healthy sex life, some serious ,some not so serious. give her a number if she pressed.not to high (or else you have no respect) not to low (or else you are a pussy, as to being a lover of pussy)
what you have done in the past i take as a hobby has led only to enjoyment for you ,with no body being hurt , so why let it hurt you now.
ENJOY IT AND RIDE LIKE THE WIND.....
plus with this so called recession all your sex will be FREE (but man always pays someway)

hope this goes some way to help your little problem.
my next advice , i must charge a small fee. but i know you are good for it....
regards
I GIVE GOOD ADVICE ON ALL PROBLEMS , ITS WHAT I GET PAID TO DO...ha ha
regards

All I can say to you Mr. Britvic is "Og itch ee plov, tee ra nee sy" !!

dom

[Patricia]

I'm not messing u see I'm fuckin guilt ridden

Tell her you are a sex addict in recovery, and too many questions may hamper your recovery!