Quote Originally Posted by experienced punter View Post
Help me out with opinions please. I'm seeing a lovely woman a cracker for past 2 weeks I've known her for months as a 'friend', now it is more or less u could say a relationship etc A few nights ago she pressed me on my past sexual experiences 'how many women have u slept with in the past?' I kinda changed the subject but I'm being pressed & know I cant avoid the question any longer, I've slept with many escorts & non escorts over the past few years should I admit that I slept with many escorts I genuinely dont know what her reaction would be shes that kinda girl very open-minded herself, This is causing me sleepless nights Should I tell her?

ok so even though people are open minded unfortunately women when it comes to escorts can be quite close minded so i would think that telling her would not be the best option.however i dont see why you shouldnt be honest with your true number?
your a man,you like sex,if you have a big number that maybe explained by not settling with the right woman,not fallin in love and if you have a smaller number then that could be explained with the fact that maybe you had long term relationships that didnt work out?
a large number does not scare us off and to be homest if a guy usually has a big number we think he's just trying to impress us with a vast (imaginary) sex life.
lies never get you anywhere,so tell your real number,if she completely freaks out then maybe you should start rethinking if shes the one for you???

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So x