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    Help me out with opinions please. I'm seeing a lovely woman a cracker for past 2 weeks I've known her for months as a 'friend', now it is more or less u could say a relationship etc A few nights ago she pressed me on my past sexual experiences 'how many women have u slept with in the past?' I kinda changed the subject but I'm being pressed & know I cant avoid the question any longer, I've slept with many escorts & non escorts over the past few years should I admit that I slept with many escorts I genuinely dont know what her reaction would be shes that kinda girl very open-minded herself, This is causing me sleepless nights Should I tell her?

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    Quote Originally Posted by experienced punter View Post
    Help me out with opinions please. I'm seeing a lovely woman a cracker for past 2 weeks I've known her for months as a 'friend', now it is more or less u could say a relationship etc A few nights ago she pressed me on my past sexual experiences 'how many women have u slept with in the past?' I kinda changed the subject but I'm being pressed & know I cant avoid the question any longer, I've slept with many escorts & non escorts over the past few years should I admit that I slept with many escorts I genuinely dont know what her reaction would be shes that kinda girl very open-minded herself, This is causing me sleepless nights Should I tell her?
    Sorry EP but your taking the piss right?? Tell her, hell no, it doesn't matter how open minded she is you admit to sleeping with an escort and it's bye bye's. Just pick a reasonable number but no more than 5 and make shit up...

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    Quote Originally Posted by experienced punter View Post
    Help me out with opinions please. I'm seeing a lovely woman a cracker for past 2 weeks I've known her for months as a 'friend', now it is more or less u could say a relationship etc A few nights ago she pressed me on my past sexual experiences 'how many women have u slept with in the past?' I kinda changed the subject but I'm being pressed & know I cant avoid the question any longer, I've slept with many escorts & non escorts over the past few years should I admit that I slept with many escorts I genuinely dont know what her reaction would be shes that kinda girl very open-minded herself, This is causing me sleepless nights Should I tell her?

    ok so even though people are open minded unfortunately women when it comes to escorts can be quite close minded so i would think that telling her would not be the best option.however i dont see why you shouldnt be honest with your true number?
    your a man,you like sex,if you have a big number that maybe explained by not settling with the right woman,not fallin in love and if you have a smaller number then that could be explained with the fact that maybe you had long term relationships that didnt work out?
    a large number does not scare us off and to be homest if a guy usually has a big number we think he's just trying to impress us with a vast (imaginary) sex life.
    lies never get you anywhere,so tell your real number,if she completely freaks out then maybe you should start rethinking if shes the one for you???

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    Quote Originally Posted by anon163 View Post
    Sorry EP but your taking the piss right?? Tell her, hell no, it doesn't matter how open minded she is you admit to sleeping with an escort and it's bye bye's. Just pick a reasonable number but no more than 5 and make shit up...

    Agree totally! Tell her about the escorts and its YouTube - Good Byeeeeeeeeeeeeeee

    But then again dont they say all relationships are built on trust and honesty!

    Maybe some of the women can help you out on this one ????

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    Quote Originally Posted by anon163 View Post
    Sorry EP but your taking the piss right?? Tell her, hell no, it doesn't matter how open minded she is you admit to sleeping with an escort and it's bye bye's. Just pick a reasonable number but no more than 5 and make shit up...
    I'm not messing u see I'm fuckin guilt ridden

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    Quote Originally Posted by experienced punter View Post
    Help me out with opinions please. I'm seeing a lovely woman a cracker for past 2 weeks I've known her for months as a 'friend', now it is more or less u could say a relationship etc A few nights ago she pressed me on my past sexual experiences 'how many women have u slept with in the past?' I kinda changed the subject but I'm being pressed & know I cant avoid the question any longer, I've slept with many escorts & non escorts over the past few years should I admit that I slept with many escorts I genuinely dont know what her reaction would be shes that kinda girl very open-minded herself, This is causing me sleepless nights Should I tell her?

    NO with a capital N and O! do you think telling her will score you some points in her good books? more like minus 1000 points!
    How about she tells you she slept with a few hundred men and uses male escorts?, that would put me off quite a good bit.
    You will gain nothing telling her or anyone, nobody will respect that, I wouldnt even tell my best friend, in my life only I know and it has to stay that way.

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    Quote Originally Posted by experienced punter View Post
    I'm not messing u see I'm fuckin guilt ridden
    Ahh see thts where your going wong You need to kill tht mother fuking Conscience right away. "killing it, will set you free"

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    Quote Originally Posted by experienced punter View Post
    I'm not messing u see I'm fuckin guilt ridden
    Guilt is in your conscious mind and infested your subconscious mind, as soon as guilt plays your head you have to distract yourself with other thoughts to break this guilt ridden thinking pattern.

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    Quote Originally Posted by experienced punter View Post
    I'm not messing u see I'm fuckin guilt ridden
    Tell her you are a sex addict in recovery, and too many questions may hamper your recovery!

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    Quote Originally Posted by experienced punter View Post
    I'm not messing u see I'm fuckin guilt ridden
    I sympathies but tell her about the escort side of your sex life and not only guilt ridden you will be but single also, besides why be guilty, you didn't sleep with an escort while you were in a relationship? Sleeping with an escort is nothing to be ashamed off, they are flesh and blood and at least are honest about the cost of sleeping with them, no sex is free....

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