there are many reasons a guy sees an escort. Many girls will tell you that very often its not for sex at all. Sometimes a guy just wants a shoulder to cry on, to discuss some private moral dilema, or to get a view from a girl on problems in a relationship. Sometimes a guy just wants to live out a secret innocent fantasy, or because his marriage is on the rocks. In my time I have met many wonderful girls who work as escorts. And I have leant many things I would never have known. I always treated them with the greatest of respect and they me. However having recently recieved an unsolicited text from a girl looking for business it seriously calls into the question the integrity of the entire system. The idea that girls are privately discussing clients and their experiences I find abhorent. For this reason I have decided to opt out of the system. I believe many decent guys who use it also will. Luckily I have struck up a few genuine friendships and I will continue to see these girls, enjoy a glass of wine and discuss life and all things wonderful.