Female orgasm?

[Dieve]

It's been on my mind lately due to a few occasions when the clients were focusing on my orgasm instead of theirs.

I was also inspired by a recent thread where clients were sharing their issues when it's hard for them to culminate.

I wanted to know your opinion on female orgasm within the context of escorts.

The first guy specifically asked me not to fake it, and wanted to watch me wank. It took me a while to get there, and I assumed we would cum together, but he asked me to do it again. The pressure made it even harder of course, so at one point I told him I don't think I can do it. He really wanted it, and I eventually got over the line, which got him there too. I wasn't happy about it though obviously, I felt drained.

The second guy only told me he wished I could cum after a long licking session, so I tried to finish myself fast, but I couldn't, and the time was up. I felt like I did a bad job for not fulfilling his request, but he assured me that I didn't.

The third guy also did a long licking before telling me that he was hoping for results from that, but instead of guilty wanking, this time I tried to be cool and made a joke which didn't land well.

The fourth guy downright cumshamed me when he thought his licking was a waste of time.
- I'm not doing it right, am I?
- What do you mean? 😊
- Well, you haven't cum.
- Oh, I can't 😊😊
- There's no such thing, every woman can cum.

So my question is, what is the right move?

■ Just fake it, babe. It's part of the job. This whole world is an escape from reality. Don't overthink it. Don't feel guilty about it.
■ Put it in your advertisement that you are cumdisabled to prevent misleading these fine purebred gentlemen who put their heart in pleasuring you!!!
■ Ask during booking if they want female orgasm, like a bookable favourite.
■ Ask in bed after some licking if they want to see you cum if you're in the mood.
■ Ask in bed after some licking if they want to see you cum regardless of whether you're in the mood.
■ Compulsively cum with every client. Take your job seriously, girl. All these awards, and no cum? Ridiculous. Make mama proud. Cum!
■ Nothing, they gotta be mature enough to understand that your inability to cum has nothing to do with their technique.

P.s.: The guy who booked me for 3 hours and ate pussy for 2.5 hours didn't care whether I came or not.
This is why whenever guys eat my pussy, I assume they like the sensation of doing it, my orgasm is just cherry on top.
I like the sensation too, and I always make sure I show it. I just think that machines are better for my clit than people. That's all.

[DamoEI]

I just think that machines are better for my clit than people.

I don't think it's the machine that's better for your clit than people, it's just that your own touch is more effective.
A guy can finish himself with his hand in about a minute if he wants to, cos he knows exactly how, where and when to stroke and apply pressure. I imagine it's the same for you ladies.

[IAmLIAm]

It's been on my mind lately due to a few occasions when the clients were focusing on my orgasm instead of theirs.

I was also inspired by a recent thread where clients were sharing their issues when it's hard for them to culminate.

I wanted to know your opinion on female orgasm within the context of escorts.

The first guy specifically asked me not to fake it, and wanted to watch me wank. It took me a while to get there, and I assumed we would cum together, but he asked me to do it again. The pressure made it even harder of course, so at one point I told him I don't think I can do it. He really wanted it, and I eventually got over the line, which got him there too. I wasn't happy about it though obviously, I felt drained.

The second guy only told me he wished I could cum after a long licking session, so I tried to finish myself fast, but I couldn't, and the time was up. I felt like I did a bad job for not fulfilling his request, but he assured me that I didn't.

The third guy also did a long licking before telling me that he was hoping for results from that, but instead of guilty wanking, this time I tried to be cool and made a joke which didn't land well.

The fourth guy downright cumshamed me when he thought his licking was a waste of time.
- I'm not doing it right, am I?
- What do you mean? 😊
- Well, you haven't cum.
- Oh, I can't 😊😊
- There's no such thing, every woman can cum.

So my question is, what is the right move?

■ Just fake it, babe. It's part of the job. This whole world is an escape from reality. Don't overthink it. Don't feel guilty about it.
■ Put it in your advertisement that you are cumdisabled to prevent misleading these fine purebred gentlemen who put their heart in pleasuring you!!!
■ Ask during booking if they want female orgasm, like a bookable favourite.
■ Ask in bed after some licking if they want to see you cum if you're in the mood.
■ Ask in bed after some licking if they want to see you cum regardless of whether you're in the mood.
■ Compulsively cum with every client. Take your job seriously, girl. All these awards, and no cum? Ridiculous. Make mama proud. Cum!
■ Nothing, they gotta be mature enough to understand that your inability to cum has nothing to do with their technique.

P.s.: The guy who booked me for 3 hours and ate pussy for 2.5 hours didn't care whether I came or not.
This is why whenever guys eat my pussy, I assume they like the sensation of doing it, my orgasm is just cherry on top.
I like the sensation too, and I always make sure I show it. I just think that machines are better for my clit than people. That's all.

Oh, I bet your in box is flooded....

It's an insecurity issue or ignorance thing mainly with guys. A way to earn validation or prove self worth. There are very few instances where enjoyable sex doesn't end with an orgasm for men and therefore we have a hard time coming to grips with the idea that a woman can find sex enjoyable even without an orgasm. The only way you really come to understand that is by being in a relationship (romantic or FWB or professional) wherein the other person can express that sex without orgasm isn't a total let down (sure, it is still preferable) and even without cumming they still want to have sex with you.

It is a conversation you could have in the middle of a booking but I think most would find it uncomfortable. Thus, the first or last option seems the most reasonable to me (the force yourself to cum option seems like it would possibly be counter productive {as you kind of alluded to}). Over to tip performative "orgasms" are a real turn off for me, so be careful on that front (though maybe some guys like it...).

I do tend to like more organic/natural flow to a meeting. I don't even mind a bit of awkwardness (actually seems a bit more genuine that way). I also find women to be better able to cum as they become more comfortable with me and I with them (in and out of this hobby).

[koopa98]

Skynet is taking over but not how we thought it would....

Jokes aside take it case by case and not worry too much over it!

Trying to Cum every appointment will just murder your kitty and we don't want you retiring so soon.

[MrTony]

This topic is hard to put the finger on (unintentional pun).I can only go on my experience and thoughts .

Firstly , if it is a first time I hardly ever ask about pleasuring . If it happens it happens and never look towards the Big O in the escort.

If we meet a second time or few times I will ask do you like to be pleasured ? Some say its nice but I cant or won't cum ,others say yes please . If I sense that foreplay is ok but not taking to the dizzy heights (as I call it )after about 10 minutes we will just get on with the fun and no questions asked .

Mostly , I've seen fakes ,but good fakes I must say ,that's OK it's all in the fantasy. Others , truly do enjoy an orgasm..its all about timing..Exactly like a man , a woman isnt horny all the time . If I met four or five ladies in a day I definitely wouldn't be on the best performance list in some cases.

I would never demand any lady to orgasm . I never even thought it was on the list.. its impossible to cum when you feel forced or pressured . Even on my side, sometimes I don't feel the need these days ,it's just getting out of reality and into a fantasy world for a while .

To be perfectly honest , I think you shouldn't even beat yourself up over this . Enjoy your service, the moments with whoever it is , go with the flow . It should never be an issue to say things that are not going to happen for you like orgasm ...

We adult men and woman really should know what the escort service is all about and cumming should be just an added bonus for the escort ( and client I might add ) if it happens .

These are just my thoughts and opinions so please, if I offended anyone in any way , I do apologise.

Everyone have a Sweet Day
T

[PhilPhilPhil]

I would say the last option - do nothing, they should be mature and understand.

Fake orgasms are quite embarrassing to witness, especially the ott ones.

Also 'cumdisabled' had me laughing.

Finally, another reason to do nothing is your reviews and EOTMs would suggest what you're currently doing is knocking people's socks off!

[JennyIrish]

It's been on my mind lately due to a few occasions when the clients were focusing on my orgasm instead of theirs.

I was also inspired by a recent thread where clients were sharing their issues when it's hard for them to culminate.

I wanted to know your opinion on female orgasm within the context of escorts.

The first guy specifically asked me not to fake it, and wanted to watch me wank. It took me a while to get there, and I assumed we would cum together, but he asked me to do it again. The pressure made it even harder of course, so at one point I told him I don't think I can do it. He really wanted it, and I eventually got over the line, which got him there too. I wasn't happy about it though obviously, I felt drained.

The second guy only told me he wished I could cum after a long licking session, so I tried to finish myself fast, but I couldn't, and the time was up. I felt like I did a bad job for not fulfilling his request, but he assured me that I didn't.

The third guy also did a long licking before telling me that he was hoping for results from that, but instead of guilty wanking, this time I tried to be cool and made a joke which didn't land well.

The fourth guy downright cumshamed me when he thought his licking was a waste of time.
- I'm not doing it right, am I?
- What do you mean? ��
- Well, you haven't cum.
- Oh, I can't ����
- There's no such thing, every woman can cum.

So my question is, what is the right move?

■ Just fake it, babe. It's part of the job. This whole world is an escape from reality. Don't overthink it. Don't feel guilty about it.
■ Put it in your advertisement that you are cumdisabled to prevent misleading these fine purebred gentlemen who put their heart in pleasuring you!!!
■ Ask during booking if they want female orgasm, like a bookable favourite.
■ Ask in bed after some licking if they want to see you cum if you're in the mood.
■ Ask in bed after some licking if they want to see you cum regardless of whether you're in the mood.
■ Compulsively cum with every client. Take your job seriously, girl. All these awards, and no cum? Ridiculous. Make mama proud. Cum!
■ Nothing, they gotta be mature enough to understand that your inability to cum has nothing to do with their technique.

P.s.: The guy who booked me for 3 hours and ate pussy for 2.5 hours didn't care whether I came or not.
This is why whenever guys eat my pussy, I assume they like the sensation of doing it, my orgasm is just cherry on top.
I like the sensation too, and I always make sure I show it. I just think that machines are better for my clit than people. That's all.

Tell him to fcuk off if he’s pressuring you?

Bless you Dieve you have a lot more patience than I!!!

[Irelandbeautyyy]

It’s a good topic as i have also some feeling guys have really not realistic thoughts about our orgarms. Most of guys get all inspiration from watching porn… The porn is absolutely fake. People are called actors there for a reason.

I said so many times in bed something like ladies are so much different than guys. We can’t get an orgasm so easy like man. There is not important only you but it’s also about some relaxation or working with our head and muscles.

Context of escorts is quite important. My body can’t have orgasm five times most of the days. Its something what i have not interest to play and mainly I don’t see any reason to play. Many times i just take guys up back if i know there is no sense to continue. I know it can be difficult to understand but girls are also cyclical, we are not consistent all the time, iťs why guys are better for demanding job etc but it’s other topic. But there is some connection. We are not interested to have orgarsm all the time. Our bodies really react differently all the month lol.

Do you also know we have two orgasms? Do you think all girls can squirt?

[Moocher]

It's been on my mind lately due to a few occasions when the clients were focusing on my orgasm instead of theirs.

I was also inspired by a recent thread where clients were sharing their issues when it's hard for them to culminate.

I wanted to know your opinion on female orgasm within the context of escorts.

The first guy specifically asked me not to fake it, and wanted to watch me wank. It took me a while to get there, and I assumed we would cum together, but he asked me to do it again. The pressure made it even harder of course, so at one point I told him I don't think I can do it. He really wanted it, and I eventually got over the line, which got him there too. I wasn't happy about it though obviously, I felt drained.

The second guy only told me he wished I could cum after a long licking session, so I tried to finish myself fast, but I couldn't, and the time was up. I felt like I did a bad job for not fulfilling his request, but he assured me that I didn't.

The third guy also did a long licking before telling me that he was hoping for results from that, but instead of guilty wanking, this time I tried to be cool and made a joke which didn't land well.

The fourth guy downright cumshamed me when he thought his licking was a waste of time.
- I'm not doing it right, am I?
- What do you mean? 😊
- Well, you haven't cum.
- Oh, I can't 😊😊
- There's no such thing, every woman can cum.

So my question is, what is the right move?

■ Just fake it, babe. It's part of the job. This whole world is an escape from reality. Don't overthink it. Don't feel guilty about it.
■ Put it in your advertisement that you are cumdisabled to prevent misleading these fine purebred gentlemen who put their heart in pleasuring you!!!
■ Ask during booking if they want female orgasm, like a bookable favourite.
■ Ask in bed after some licking if they want to see you cum if you're in the mood.
■ Ask in bed after some licking if they want to see you cum regardless of whether you're in the mood.
■ Compulsively cum with every client. Take your job seriously, girl. All these awards, and no cum? Ridiculous. Make mama proud. Cum!
■ Nothing, they gotta be mature enough to understand that your inability to cum has nothing to do with their technique.

P.s.: The guy who booked me for 3 hours and ate pussy for 2.5 hours didn't care whether I came or not.
This is why whenever guys eat my pussy, I assume they like the sensation of doing it, my orgasm is just cherry on top.
I like the sensation too, and I always make sure I show it. I just think that machines are better for my clit than people. That's all.

Escort orgasm is not an issue for me. I wouldn't recognise it anyway as I have never seen one !

[bananabox999]

A mythical thing most guys dont understand

Saying that it sounds like your being put under pressure to preform, if its not happening its just not happening.

Pressure is for tyres