Questions You Have For Sex Workers X

[Stephanie]

Discuss x

[Forrest]

I never had any specific questions about sex work when meeting escorts, as I always engaged in conversation as if their occupation was just a job like any other.
I would never ask a solicitor, tax consultant, shop assistant, road sweeper how much they earned so why would I ask an escort.

Any stigmatization that I might have considered about escorting was lost after I got to know the women I was meeting, and some of them have become friends to varying degrees, but I would talk to them about their job, as I would any of my other friends.

[mymann]

Discuss x

Never think of them as anything else other than beautiful girls,

Talk about regular stuff.

But after all that !!!!!!!

I love the way they expect me to remove their clothes and (f---) have sex (make love) with them,

[philipkntz]

First question I usually ask is, "How quick do you want me to leave?"

[JennyT]

I have a question too...

How you getting on girls?

[Petros]

Discuss x

At 3:29 there is a very interesting piece — listen — to end trafficking decriminalise sex work!

If only people would do this and then perhaps the world would be a better place for everyone.

[David Feckem]

At first I had a bad habit of asking escorts at the start of the date “how’s it going, are you busy?” , same as I would most people, mainly as an ice breaker, but I didn’t stop to think they might be uncomfortable answering. I try to engage my brain a little more now.


Some questions here if any would like to answer;

How soon into an appointment do you think, “this is going to be great” or “oh no, this is going to be hard work”? Is it within the first minute?
Have you ever answered the door and thought “No, just no way!”
In your personal lives have you ever been having mediocre sex and thought “this is lame, I should be getting paid for this” ?
Do you convert the price of holidays, new phones, cars etc. into appointments or tours. New iphone= 2.5 appointments etc?

[David Feckem]

Excellent questions

Question I'd like to ask back, cause the busy one always gets me.

I rather anything over that even the "what time is your next appointment at" one, which I don't actually mind at all at all because it means like 4 things and I get to wonder which one ...you want to stay, idle curiosity, you want to imagine what I'm doing when you're in the car or want to know how much time you have to run. No wrong answer really.

The busy thing. "Yes business is great and I'm a slut, someone else is going to be exactly where you are now before lunch is out". Or "no", nobody loves me ...react now it's your turn again

So my question, is it not odd hearing the answer to are you busy no matter what answer it is?

Yes it is, and that's why I stopped asking it after the first couple of times. I may be dim, but I'm not completely socially inadequate To be honest I used to ask in much the same way as I would ask a barber or a taxi driver, as an ice breaker, but I copped on that the circumstances were slightly different with sex workers. Would you like to have a stab at the other questions now?

[Petros]

At first I had a bad habit of asking escorts at the start of the date “how’s it going, are you busy?” , same as I would most people, mainly as an ice breaker, but I didn’t stop to think they might be uncomfortable answering. I try to engage my brain a little more now.

That's a bit like when people get into a taxi — to break the ice they always seem to ask "have you been busy?" LOL

TBH it's not something I could see myself asking an escort — while I know she has probably seen a couple of other guys that day, the last thing I'd want to hear before the fun begins is that she was flat out all day and that I'm the 10th. guy she has seen — talk about serious sloppy seconds It would put a serious dint in the fantacy for me!

[Petros]

Re normal life "This is lame, I should be getting paid for this." Yaaa, of course.

Only had sex with 4 civies since I started. Really only had sex with them because I'm an escort anyway. I'll have you and you and you and you. Shut up and do what you're told.

Each one of them was disappointing. Not for them I think, unexpected, good, easy shag but, for me. Something missing. And Idk what it is. Not the money as such. More an under expression and under appreciation of what we're up to. That probably doen't make sense to anyone who's not an escort. Don't know does it make sense to another escort either tbh? Stephanie? Someone?

Yep, unprepared sex is meh. Unless it's carnivorous. Then it's just short and satisfying.

Did any of the civies know you were an escort?

Were you expecting more on an emotional level from them than clients?

When you say "unprepared sex" was it unprepared or unexpected by you or the civies?