would you date an escort?

[Westsidex]

Too true. There are no Richard Gere's here. And if there were they'd probably need a gerbil in their ass to make them complete.

Ah cheers. Being told in the past I look a bit like him. That said a lot of people said Errol Flynn. Now I've a shaved head I think I look like a testicle.

Westside.

[Forrest]

I dunno. If we're all about "Sex Work is just Work" and all, then it would seem to me that singling out the boyfriends of escorts for stigmatisation is just a step away from stigmatising escorts. As long as he's not leeching from her earnings or being "secretarial" then why not?

I'm sure there are escorts that have boyfriends already, and hopefully they are living there own life, while being supportive of their girlfriend, rather than exploiting her.

The question of dating an escort has done the rounds so many times, but my answer will always be the same.
I would be quite happy to date an escort if we had a relationship of mutual love, trust, and respect.
I'm not saying it would be easy, as life and love rarely is, but knowing and accepting the boundaries is essential for it to have any hope of working.

[Bratsimpson1]

Ah cheers. Being told in the past I look a bit like him. That said a lot of people said Errol Flynn. Now I've a shaved head I think I look like a testicle.

Westside.

This post wants to make me say bollocks for some reason
But the post you quoted makes me want to say - what a load of bollocks!

[Bratsimpson1]

Too true. There are no Richard Gere's here. And if there were they'd probably need a gerbil in their ass to make them complete.

There's probably some guys have worked themselves up to guinea pig size at this stage

[Best Before]

I don't see why not. There nothing sexier than a head strong attractive woman that knows what she wants.

[Petros]

I'm sure there are escorts that have boyfriends already, and hopefully they are living there own life, while being supportive of their girlfriend, rather than exploiting her.

The question of dating an escort has done the rounds so many times, but my answer will always be the same.
I would be quite happy to date an escort if we had a relationship of mutual love, trust, and respect.
I'm not saying it would be easy, as life and love rarely is, but knowing and accepting the boundaries is essential for it to have any hope of working.

Exactly! I'm sure there are many ladies who work as escorts that have boyfriends or may even be married. After all, these ladies are human, just like the rest of us.

I'd kind of feel sorry for the boyfriend though - while he may be in a relationship with a drop dead gorgeous lady he probably isn't getting he leg over as often as either we would think or he would like! Let's face it - if his girlfriend is having sex all day as part of her work she will hardly be too keen on more sex in her off time when she is trying to relax.

[Westsidex]

Exactly! I'm sure there are many ladies who work as escorts that have boyfriends or may even be married. After all, these ladies are human, just like the rest of us.

I'd kind of feel sorry for the boyfriend though - while he may be in a relationship with a drop dead gorgeous lady he probably isn't getting he leg over as often as either we would think or he would like! Let's face it - if his girlfriend is having sex all day as part of her work she will hardly be too keen on more sex in her off time when she is trying to relax.

Making love and having sex are not the same thing especially to a woman because its as much mental as physical. Most guys don't understand this.

Westside.

[Westsidex]

This post wants to make me say bollocks for some reason
But the post you quoted makes me want to say - what a load of bollocks!

That's one thing I'd love to do but can't. Put a pic up. Maybe if I could get the face blurred but then I'd be accused of photo shopping. Looks mean f all though.

Westside.

[Forrest]

Making love and having sex are not the same thing especially to a woman because its as much mental as physical. Most guys don't understand this.

Westside.

It's not often I can actually agree with something you post Westie, but that's spot on.
Sex with a client is just a performance to get through(and enjoy occasionally), but making love with a partner can be so much more.

[Petros]

Sex with a client is just a performance to get through(and enjoy occasionally), but making love with a partner can be so much more.

I agree - but there is only so much a body can take in a day. If the lady had say 4 or 5 clients in the day, a couple of whom were rather rough then her body is understandably going to be somewhat fatigued, perhaps even sore. So while it will be totally different on an emotional level with her boyfriend compared to with a client the actual physical element will be similar. It is the physical element I was referring to.