The Ethics Of Escorting.

[FredLopez]

Yes, I am Saul, well done.
You should start a welcome back thread for me.

you are not saul but I Know who you really are

[Bratsimpson1]

you are not saul but I Know who you really are

Of course you do.
Good to know.
Fred, I am your no. 1 friend and fan.
I always welcome your advice.

[FredLopez]

Of course you do.
Good to know.
Fred, I am your no. 1 friend and fan.
I always welcome your advice.

it does not matter who you were but who you are now, have a nice day

[Bratsimpson1]

it does not matter who you were but who you are now, have a nice day

Reading your posts has set me up for the day.
Laughing always puts me in good humour.
Thanks Fred, you're a born comedian.

[Stephanie]

It's not a bad thing. Not saying I don't fizzle out every so often, of course I do. But I'm ok with that. Just take a step back, work things out, adjust and move on. Because at the end of the day things are only as hard as you make them.

Even have a hit a wall song



Two types of clients. Bit of sex clients. Relationship clients.

Bit of sex clients. Sex is sex is sex is sex. It's grand. Bit of fun. Not going to feel used and abused about if you like sex, see it as a basic human need and know that clients aren't "out to get me" ...because they are not. They just want a bit of sex, something to do, bit of a rush, bit of wank material, go home happy. I don't see a problem in that. I don't feel like I'm giving away a piece of myself that I can't get back.
Sex is sexy, sex is hilarious and it feeds both of our imaginations. Not a big deal.

Relationship clients. They're the ones that involve feelings, usually longer termed. And, your going to get close and then it ends. Cycle of attach, detach, attach, detach. When they end I have to be able to put them in a box and move on.

I need both types to be happy. And only have two choices. Feel nothing or, feel and then deal with it.

I do the feel and then deal with it. Yes that makes me tough. Tough not hard. And, a big part of it is knowing my place. I am here to make other people happy, not to take bits of them for myself. Make them happy and let them go.

So even when I do hit a wall, I will always come back because I know that I am ok and well able.

Hidies for a few days. Bit of processing.
Then a client/friend person (don't even know what to call them) will text, "hey, are you in hiding again"

Me "Yep"
Them "You ok?"
Me "Yep"
Them "Want to something fun x, y or z?"
Me "Do you know what ...Yes! I really do, that is exactly what I want!" (and need)

Good talk, good talk ...seriously, that's all I need.

Back on the horse. And, I will always bounce back because:

*I love sex *I love cooking up a batch of intimacy *I love characters *I am strong *I love being really good at something that is something worth being good at.

Being a happy escort isn't something every girl is entitled to, it's something to be worked at.

Brilliant post !!

I signed in just to say this !!

+ 1 !! !!

xxx

[Forceuser]

It's not a bad thing. Not saying I don't fizzle out every so often, of course I do. But I'm ok with that. Just take a step back, work things out, adjust and move on. Because at the end of the day things are only as hard as you make them.

Even have a hit a wall song



Two types of clients. Bit of sex clients. Relationship clients.

Bit of sex clients. Sex is sex is sex is sex. It's grand. Bit of fun. Not going to feel used and abused about if you like sex, see it as a basic human need and know that clients aren't "out to get me" ...because they are not. They just want a bit of sex, something to do, bit of a rush, bit of wank material, go home happy. I don't see a problem in that. I don't feel like I'm giving away a piece of myself that I can't get back.
Sex is sexy, sex is hilarious and it feeds both of our imaginations. Not a big deal.

Relationship clients. They're the ones that involve feelings, usually longer termed. And, your going to get close and then it ends. Cycle of attach, detach, attach, detach. When they end I have to be able to put them in a box and move on.

I need both types to be happy. And only have two choices. Feel nothing or, feel and then deal with it.

I do the feel and then deal with it. Yes that makes me tough. Tough not hard. And, a big part of it is knowing my place. I am here to make other people happy, not to take bits of them for myself. Make them happy and let them go.

So even when I do hit a wall, I will always come back because I know that I am ok and well able.

Hidies for a few days. Bit of processing.
Then a client/friend person (don't even know what to call them) will text, "hey, are you in hiding again"

Me "Yep"
Them "You ok?"
Me "Yep"
Them "Want to something fun x, y or z?"
Me "Do you know what ...Yes! I really do, that is exactly what I want!" (and need)

Good talk, good talk ...seriously, that's all I need.

Back on the horse. And, I will always bounce back because:

*I love sex *I love cooking up a batch of intimacy *I love characters *I am strong *I love being really good at something that is something worth being good at.

Being a happy escort isn't something every girl is entitled to, it's something to be worked at.

Very eloquent and touching
Thanks for a little insight into your life as an escort
hope you find complete fulfillment one day

[EIFII]

It's not a bad thing. Not saying I don't fizzle out every so often, of course I do. But I'm ok with that. Just take a step back, work things out, adjust and move on. Because at the end of the day things are only as hard as you make them.

Even have a hit a wall song



Two types of clients. Bit of sex clients. Relationship clients.

Bit of sex clients. Sex is sex is sex is sex. It's grand. Bit of fun. Not going to feel used and abused about if you like sex, see it as a basic human need and know that clients aren't "out to get me" ...because they are not. They just want a bit of sex, something to do, bit of a rush, bit of wank material, go home happy. I don't see a problem in that. I don't feel like I'm giving away a piece of myself that I can't get back.
Sex is sexy, sex is hilarious and it feeds both of our imaginations. Not a big deal.

Relationship clients. They're the ones that involve feelings, usually longer termed. And, your going to get close and then it ends. Cycle of attach, detach, attach, detach. When they end I have to be able to put them in a box and move on.

I need both types to be happy. And only have two choices. Feel nothing or, feel and then deal with it.

I do the feel and then deal with it. Yes that makes me tough. Tough not hard. And, a big part of it is knowing my place. I am here to make other people happy, not to take bits of them for myself. Make them happy and let them go.

So even when I do hit a wall, I will always come back because I know that I am ok and well able.

Hidies for a few days. Bit of processing.
Then a client/friend person (don't even know what to call them) will text, "hey, are you in hiding again"

Me "Yep"
Them "You ok?"
Me "Yep"
Them "Want to something fun x, y or z?"
Me "Do you know what ...Yes! I really do, that is exactly what I want!" (and need)

Good talk, good talk ...seriously, that's all I need.

Back on the horse. And, I will always bounce back because:

*I love sex *I love cooking up a batch of intimacy *I love characters *I am strong *I love being really good at something that is something worth being good at.

Being a happy escort isn't something every girl is entitled to, it's something to be worked at.

Great, great post Sarah. That one is gonna be cooking in my brain for a few days.

+1. Couldn't put it better myself Dr B...

Beautifully written, ISB.

[EIFII]

Phew I was afraid to look x

Are you crazy? Actually no need to answer, I know the answer to that...

That is a very well thought out piece of writing, written by someone who clearly knows herself well, and enjoys a bit of variety

[fluffy69]

Great post sarah deep concise great description of escort client relationships. You are a feel and deal with it girl, with the advantage for us clients who know you of being quiet a beautiful girl [body and mind] plus a bit of a ride So when client /friend person texts or pms u wondering if u about its usual to wait for response, ME hi sarah SARAH hidies no answer ME everything ok? SARAH hi lets meet up for whatever ME pulse heart rate up,head in spin the rest is a blurr let the fun begin::

[Johnchef42]

Wow ISB. I've known you about 7 months now and this is the deepest I've ever known you to speak. I know i havebt seen that much in recent times but I must say , you are such a jolly, funny, light hearted, caring, thoughtful and loving lady. Both beautiful on the inside and outside. Your posts here are the stuff of legends and always carry deep thought. I hope we can meet again sometime soon and I along with many others look forward to reading and sharing your thoughful posts in the coming days, weeks and months. You're favourite chef