I'd say many many people (men+women) are ... hence
We can ease the burden , lighten the load , put a smile on the face and a spring in their step ...
: then these lovelies get to go home to a perfectly wonderful home with a loving family and a long future lovingly bonded to their wives ,
but not have to bear the weight of unrequited need for intimacy , not have to bear the weight of sexual frustration and unfulfillment ..
Not needing to pressure their partners for 'things' not forthcoming .
No longer needing to bear the feelings of rejection and building resentment towards their partners ,
whose needs (sexual / intimacy) are diff to their own .
Takes the pressure off , tension gone , Love for the Other can triumph over carnal
necessity and need xx
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