100% agree. And Im a big softie who has been suckered by an escort or two over the years. Im intelligent too and yet I let her charm and womenly ways seduce me in ways I didnt anticipate. Before I knew it I was falling in love. Im very cautious now to maintain distance so that I dont let myself get swept along in the moment again. This isnt a dating site. There are more adept and traditional ways to meet women than here. Better to focus on fun and boning. :-)