Fear of apartments

[NormalGuy]

I have a real anxiety about going to apartments... call me paranoid but ....
I had a bad experience before and I just will not do it again.

The challenge now is that I cant differentiate the profiles as to who is in an apartment and who is in a hotel.
And I understand from the girls perspective as to why they don't advertise which they are in due to security / discretion etc.

Any suggestions? I've called some numbers asking and i get a hang up or a terse response directing me to an apartment.

I travel a lot from north to south but dont want to do call out..
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Sorry... I'm venting and Im sure this has been discussed before...

[Petros]

I have a real anxiety about going to apartments... call me paranoid but ....
I had a bad experience before and I just will not do it again.

The challenge now is that I cant differentiate the profiles as to who is in an apartment and who is in a hotel.
And I understand from the girls perspective as to why they don't advertise which they are in due to security / discretion etc.

Any suggestions? I've called some numbers asking and i get a hang up or a terse response directing me to an apartment.

I travel a lot from north to south but dont want to do call out..
.
Sorry... I'm venting and Im sure this has been discussed before...

Welcome to the forums NormalGuy

Basically I think you are snookered if you don't like apartments. For a lot of guys it's the opposite - they seen to dislike hotels.

For me I have never had a "bad" experience in an apartment and I am more than happy to visit them.

[Forceuser]

Will go anywhere

[MidlifeCrisis]

Rather than this post why not just make it a straigtforward request - ask for a hotel appointment giving preferred times and locations. You have a better chance of a reply.

[oldfool]

one obvious give away is if the diary. If its 24 hours its unlikely to be an hotel.

[Petros]

one obvious give away is if the diary. If its 24 hours its unlikely to be an hotel.

That's a good point but with the current problems with some of the ladies Diary listings anything could be possible - https://www.escort-ireland.com/board...-not-available

[Sexy Sandy 69]

one obvious give away is if the diary. If its 24 hours its unlikely to be an hotel.

My diary is never 24hrs, hotel or apartment, my availability changes on a regular basis, so it's not always the case that the diary page will give any clues. Also a lot of girls don't even bother updating their profile let alone availability.

Sandy x

[Opium1985]

I have a real anxiety about going to apartments... call me paranoid but ....
I had a bad experience before and I just will not do it again.

The challenge now is that I cant differentiate the profiles as to who is in an apartment and who is in a hotel.
And I understand from the girls perspective as to why they don't advertise which they are in due to security / discretion etc.

Any suggestions? I've called some numbers asking and i get a hang up or a terse response directing me to an apartment.

I travel a lot from north to south but dont want to do call out..
.
Sorry... I'm venting and Im sure this has been discussed before...

Stop punting
Go to drama classes instead

[IrishSarahBarra]

What about trying...

Don't ask them if they are hotel/apartment first. Instead say "I prefer a hotel meet, do you do that."

Different thing stating your intentions first. Might work better, IDK.

[Petros]

Stop punting
Go to drama classes instead

drama classes