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Sailor
I had been keeping my eye on a 'Dominatrix' on this site for a while and I had an acquaintance recommend her to me as the best around at the moment. I booked an appointment with her and went for an initial 'interview' in her room (actually a suite) in a hotel in the west of Ireland a few nights ago. We discussed what I was looking for, my experience to date, dislikes, limits etc. She seemed like an nice person, cute, shorter and younger looking than I had expected. Having met her, I was happy to go ahead with the appointment, as was she and she then told me that she wanted me to drive her somewhere first so she could take care of something she had to do (now I'm thinking maybe she wanted me to taxi her to and from another client). I had left the car at home as I wanted to have a drink afterwards. I was then directed to wait in the bar downstairs for an hour and she would return and we could get to it. One hour turned into two and a half and I was on the verge of leaving and starting to get a bit impatient and nervy as the bar was closed and I wasn't a resident and I had no valid reason to be there if the staff started to ask questions. But I thought to myself this is probably her style, keep a guy hanging on, tease/denial, show me who is in control etc. So against my better judgement I stayed. She finally showed up and we went up to her room, I paid her the 220E she requested, we had a brief chat and she then tells me to have a shower. She brings me into the bathroom and turns the shower on. I'm just about to get into the shower when I realise I had left all my clothes with my wallet in the room we had just been in. I learned a long time ago if you have a shower when you're with an escort undress in the bathroom and keep your wallet in plain sight. I drank about three pints whilst waiting for her so I put this error on my part down to being slightly tipsy and full of expectation for what was about to commence. I'm not sure why I did what I did next, maybe it was me remembering 'my keep your wallet in your sight at all times rule' or maybe it was a gut feeling that pretty looking and nice person as she seemed to be, that she was untrustworthy. I didn't get into the shower and returned (naked) back to the room we had just been in. Upon entering the room my trousers were on the floor at her feet and she had my wallet in her hands and she was rifling through it's contents. Another thing I learned years ago is only to bring the price of the session booked with you to any appointment. I brought a little extra with me but it was almost gone buying the three pints and coffee for her. There was only 5E in my wallet but a credit and debit card and a driver's licence (none of which were taken, probably because she didn't get the chance). As soon as she noticed I was in the room watching her she dropped the wallet on the floor and then spent about 15 minutes trying to convince me I hadn't seen what I had just observed with my own eyes. I blew a fuse (verbally) and spent about 15 minutes asking her (mostly shouting, in fairness) if she thought I was blind (imagine if I was!). She kept asking me to continue with the session and redirected every request I made to give me back the 220E to another request for me to continue with the session. For anyone reading this who may not be familiar with the whole Domme/Sub interaction, trust is paramount. The sub voluntarily hands over almost complete control of pretty much everything to the Domme for that limited time period and that's the kink, surrendering to a dominant female that you trust who will take you to the edge of what you can handle. Without trust there's no kink as you have to be able to give yourself permission to surrender. Given the recommendation of my acquaintance and the 'interview' I thought I was in good hands. Unfortunately, this was not the case. Each time I asked for the money back she kept asking me to continue with the session and blatantly denied that she had ever even taken my wallet from my trousers. I hadn't noticed where she put the money so I started to open all the drawers in the desk in her room. At this point she went to her handbag and returned the money. I was leaving anyway but left mostly because I was afraid of what I would do to her. I was mightily pissed off but had the presence of mind to realise that if I put a hand on her that her junky streetwalker behaviour would be vindicated and I would most likely, as the aggrieved party, wind up in a police cell. After leaving she sent me a bunch of texts telling me to come back and then a few more calling me a pathetic slave and that I had drank too much and what I had missed out on by leaving. This 'lady' has since opted out of reviews on EI and has no facility to leave reviews on her own website. I texted her two days later when I had calmed down a bit and asked her what the hell was she playing at and told her that she was lucky I was a gentleman about the whole thing and that she would have fared a lot worse with someone who didn't mind spending a night or two in a police cell. No reply of course. This 'lady' is a well known Dominatrix on this site and has advertised on here for quite a while and is still advertising. Her profile went down for one day after this incident but I see she's alive and well and back at it in the south of the country at the moment. She didn't steal anything from me for two reasons. One, I brought only enough to cover the cost of the session and two, I caught her redhanded. I would gladly name her on this site but have been advised by a moderator that I can't do that. I reported the incident and the moderator told me the only recourse I have is to post this warning without naming her. PM me if you want to know who she is.
as well i was robbed by 200 euro by a escort which i shared when i arrived in Ireland. Can happen. But...
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