I use the reviews as a guide.I respect the opinion certain like minded reviewers.When I meet a lady who has tried to please and who is happy in her career,I like to recommended her as well as giving something back to other members.If I am messed about (no show)or have a bad experience (wrong pics) I will also pass the word on.I understand that sometimes people do not click,and if that happens,I just don't review the lady.