First timer here

[Petros]

So I just booked my first meeting today. I'm really nervous as others have told me I'd be. The girl was very polite on the phone and this afternoon is when I'll be seeing her. She wants me to dial 30 mins before I arrive and gave me a number and St for the address. I hope I don't have trouble finding the place. I can't decide if 30 mins is enough or if 45 would be better. What if I finish too soon? As long as the timer is still going, I can keep going too?

Just relax and let the lady look after you. Be on time — make sure you confirm the appointment 30 minutes beforehand. be polite and respectful and make sure your hygiene is to the highest standards — with all that in place you will have a great time.

Then, once you come back down to earth after the appointment don't forget to submit your review

[Derrick1989]

Well I did it, the deed is finished. I ended up going for the 45 min session and that was all the time I needed as nervous as I was. I called her 30 mins before and arrived right on time. She greeted me at the door and led me inside. The lights were off so it was really dark. Since this was my first time and I didn't know what to expect exactly, I thought well crap someone else is here and I'm probably in danger lol. She put on some dimmed lights and led me into her room.

It was a shared apartment with 2 other girls who work as escorts too. I didn't know that until after the session was finished and she told me. My paranoia never completely went away since I didn't know before. I asked if I could take a quick shower before we began and she led me to the bathroom with a towel. When I was finished she laughed at me cause my clothes were still on when I went back to the bedroom haha. Well she took off her gown and I took off my clothes and she told me only a select number of favorites were allowed with the money I paid and we began.

She did all of the work and it was weird for me not being in control. A bit uncomfortable cause she wanted it to be as gentle as possible. I'm used to soft biting on the lips, squeezing breasts, harder thrusting, etc. When we were kissing she reminded me twice to be gentle. The first time was because of the soft bite and the second was cause I guess when we were kissing I pressed my lips too hard onto hers and squeezed her breasts too firmly. I was looking for something passionate and sexy, but instead I got what I described. I'm not faulting her for that though since it was all at her discretion and she was in control. It's just something I'm not comfortable with. She was aware it was my first time, but things seemed to be conducted routinely. I actually felt like a virgin again and was lost since I didn't know what she was ok with and how she liked things done. I did however last until she told me we had 10 mins left upon which I was able to finish.

My nerves were going the entire time on top of everything else so lasting wasn't a problem. She also did not look entirely like she did in her photos. I can see why some people here talk about photoshop taking place for some profiles. Her breasts and ass were larger in the photos and her face shined much more. It was the same girl I could tell that much, just a much more plain looking side of her in person. It was worth it since the sex is not really expensive and I'm glad I at least experienced it once. At the end she kissed me good bye and led me out.

My only complaints were feeling like there were other people there then finding out there were other escorts, not getting the favorites, not being in control, and the girl didn't look the same as in the profile photos.

It was like having sex with any other person except gentle and I couldn't do anything. I don't know if I'll do this again though. The experience wasn't bad, but it was a little bit of a let down.

[gonzo76]

Well I did it, the deed is finished. I ended up going for the 45 min session and that was all the time I needed as nervous as I was. I called her 30 mins before and arrived right on time. She greeted me at the door and led me inside. The lights were off so it was really dark. Since this was my first time and I didn't know what to expect exactly, I thought well crap someone else is here and I'm probably in danger lol. She put on some dimmed lights and led me into her room.

It was a shared apartment with 2 other girls who work as escorts too. I didn't know that until after the session was finished and she told me. My paranoia never completely went away since I didn't know before. I asked if I could take a quick shower before we began and she led me to the bathroom with a towel. When I was finished she laughed at me cause my clothes were still on when I went back to the bedroom haha. Well she took off her gown and I took off my clothes and she told me only a select number of favorites were allowed with the money I paid and we began.

She did all of the work and it was weird for me not being in control. A bit uncomfortable cause she wanted it to be as gentle as possible. I'm used to soft biting on the lips, squeezing breasts, harder thrusting, etc. When we were kissing she reminded me twice to be gentle. The first time was because of the soft bite and the second was cause I guess when we were kissing I pressed my lips too hard onto hers and squeezed her breasts too firmly. I was looking for something passionate and sexy, but instead I got what I described. I'm not faulting her for that though since it was all at her discretion and she was in control. It's just something I'm not comfortable with. She was aware it was my first time, but things seemed to be conducted routinely. I actually felt like a virgin again and was lost since I didn't know what she was ok with and how she liked things done. I did however last until she told me we had 10 mins left upon which I was able to finish.

My nerves were going the entire time on top of everything else so lasting wasn't a problem. She also did not look entirely like she did in her photos. I can see why some people here talk about photoshop taking place for some profiles. Her breasts and ass were larger in the photos and her face shined much more. It was the same girl I could tell that much, just a much more plain looking side of her in person. It was worth it since the sex is not really expensive and I'm glad I at least experienced it once. At the end she kissed me good bye and led me out.

My only complaints were feeling like there were other people there then finding out there were other escorts, not getting the favorites, not being in control, and the girl didn't look the same as in the profile photos.

It was like having sex with any other person except gentle and I couldn't do anything. I don't know if I'll do this again though. The experience wasn't bad, but it was a little bit of a let down.

I think you should take it as a learning experience. Photos are not the be all and end all. It is impossible to know for sure if the two of you will click, and the combination of nerves and uncertainty can mess with your head.

It sounds like you had some expectations for how you wanted it to go. She is not a mind reader, and I'm sure that like in any other job, unless you have specific instructions, you will usually do it to your own routine.

My advice, for what it's worth, select the next lady based on her experience and reviews, and leave price out of it. Book an hour, so you can both relax.

If you can, PM her to see if your desired situation can be accommodated. Words like biting and squeezing may be off putting. These ladies bodies are their livelihood and they are not machines.

[Bubba07]

ìm the very same my man, ive my favourites picked out and say to myself every week, this is it, this week now im going for it, but never do, im ashamed of myself

[Derrick1989]

Yeah I had some expectations and my experience with past girls I've dated were all into the same stuff so I didn't know any better. I can't fault her for how she conducts herself when she didn't know or was the type. The biting was really not actual biting down. It was more so gentle pressing teeth on lips testing if she's like the other girls I've been with. A hour seems more reasonable to talk and calm the nerves. I probably could have researched the reviews better too.

[Petros]

Yeah I had some expectations and my experience with past girls I've dated were all into the same stuff so I didn't know any better. I can't fault her for how she conducts herself when she didn't know or was the type. The biting was really not actual biting down. It was more so gentle pressing teeth on lips testing if she's like the other girls I've been with. A hour seems more reasonable to talk and calm the nerves. I probably could have researched the reviews better too.

You must remember that on the "biting" bit - the last thing the lady wants is to be marked in any way as that will harm her ability to work. I am not saying you would have left a mark but how was she to know that? she does not know you so she has to be cautious. From her point of view it's best to stop you before an accident happens.

It's all a learning curve - and at least now you have an idea how it all works. So time to get researching for your next lucky lady

[IrishSarahBarra]

A poor show IMHO especially if you thorough & quick.

Ah now, I don't set the standards

I wouldn't worry too much about it if I were you IDF