Hello back
and welcome. Apparently, calling is the quickest way through and, you should have a few profiles picked out, don't just concentrate on one.
Don't be shy about calling. They are constantly on the phone and are well used to new people calling, not really knowing what to say.
Look at the reviews. E.I is all about the reviews. It's the best chance you have for spotting a fake.
If she has multiple reviews from people who have written multiple reviews she is more than likely real. That doesn't mean you'll like her. But hopefully you will
Not a clue about the STD's. Shower comes out of your time. That's all I know. Have fun!