To repeat again, according to The American Centre for Disease Control, your chances as a male having unprotected vaginal intercourse with an infected woman, is about half the chances of Leicester having won the Premiership, which was 5000/1, so its about 2500/1. And each encounter is a different event statistically, so the next similar encounter is 2500/1! If as is very very likely your female partner is not infected in the first place, I guarantee you, there is no chance of you getting HIV from her, whatsoever.
https://www.cdc.gov/hiv/risk/estimat...behaviors.html
Risk level per 10.000 exposures, presumably not using a condom and with an infected partner -
Receptive Anal Intercourse 138
Insertive Anal Intercourse 11
Receptive Penile-Vaginal Intercourse 8
Insertive Penile-Vaginal Intercourse 4
Receptive Oral Intercourse Low
Insertive Oral Intercourse Low
Other^
Biting Negligible
Spitting Negligible
Throwing Body Fluids (Including Semen or Saliva) Negligible
Sharing Sex Toys Negligible
It beggars the question, why is it so prevalent in Africa? The answer is probably down to the poor state of health of many people there in the first instance, making them more susceptible to getting any disease.
BTW I state again that Leicester had less a chance of winning the Premiership last year than you have of getting HIV from an infected woman through unprotected vaginal sex! And guess what Leicester did win it! So
Unprotected Vaginal Sex - Nein Danke!