If u consider yourself sad and desperate is your problem but dont say all punters are like this because they are NOT! Is not that simple as ''pay for sex'' , many guys pay for company of a beautiful lady, for fulfill their fantasies which cant be fulfill home (role play , strap on etc) for the curiosity to discover new things (Tie and Tease, Nuru massage etc)so visiting a escort is not only ''paying for sex'' . People have different reasons to visit escorts being desperate or sad not being between them