Tie and Tease

[robdav]

Well guys? Just wondering if you have any recommendations for excellent tie and tease? I've met cherry for this purpose on more than one occasion and really enjoyed it, so I am aware I may be answering my own query here but does anyone have any other recommendations?

[Ralehard]

I haven't had much luck outside Cherry for this either. Pity

[Mistressscarlett]

Well guys? Just wondering if you have any recommendations for excellent tie and tease? I've met cherry for this purpose on more than one occasion and really enjoyed it, so I am aware I may be answering my own query here but does anyone have any other recommendations?

From what I hear she is the best woman for the job

[robdav]

What about your good self Mistress Scarlett? Is this something you like to dabble in or is it a little too vanilla for your tastes?

[Mistressscarlett]

What about your good self Mistress Scarlett? Is this something you like to dabble in or is it a little too vanilla for your tastes?

Being honest it's not my fav kind of session I prefer being a little more sadistic my finer qualities and what I enjoy doing best is humiliating/torturing and tormenting men and inflicting pain in the most imaginative ways possible lol (I do have a nice side too) my idea of the and tease is tying you up and teasing that I'll stop hurting you lol

Altho in saying that everyone seems to have a different perception on what exactly they consider the and tease I'd be quite interested to hear what ppl actually class as a tie&tease session

[Anitafan]

Being honest it's not my fav kind of session I prefer being a little more sadistic my finer qualities and what I enjoy doing best is humiliating/torturing and tormenting men and inflicting pain in the most imaginative ways possible lol (I do have a nice side too) my idea of the and tease is tying you up and teasing that I'll stop hurting you lol

Altho in saying that everyone seems to have a different perception on what exactly they consider the and tease I'd be quite interested to hear what ppl actually class as a tie&tease session

I would agree that tie and tease is usually more of a sensual experience than a BDSM one. But a bit of both is great. The "tie" bit means a loss of control, and puts the service provider in charge. For me, having the service provider in charge is the most exciting and important part. A bit of pain should be used, if only to point out that the service provider IS in charge. But not to the point of inflicting massive pain and torture. There are a couple of things that I love as part of this kind of session, and usually these are more associated with domination than with regular escorting. So for me, a dominatrix who offers her kind of "tie and tease" is attractive - whatever that may be.

[robdav]

I appreciate that, I do like all elements of the tease though and that definitely includes elements of pain. For me tie and tease is about surrendering control and the anticipation about what the Dom does with that control. Your idea of torment and humiliation definitely appeals to me. I'd agree with Anita that the aspects of tie and tease that most appeal to me are ones that would generally be associated with a bdsm experience rather than a traditional escort. For me the perfect tie and tease would involve a good verbal humilation, some whipping/caning and possibly a strap on session. All while I am tied up and have no control.

[Mistressscarlett]

I would agree that tie and tease is usually more of a sensual experience than a BDSM one. But a bit of both is great. The "tie" bit means a loss of control, and puts the service provider in charge. For me, having the service provider in charge is the most exciting and important part. A bit of pain should be used, if only to point out that the service provider IS in charge. But not to the point of inflicting massive pain and torture. There are a couple of things that I love as part of this kind of session, and usually these are more associated with domination than with regular escorting. So for me, a dominatrix who offers her kind of "tie and tease" is attractive - whatever that may be.

I completely understand what you mean about the restriction giving you no control and up to the Mistress to decide what comes next..i don't mean I just want to the men up and terrorise them (if only) I work within limits but from my experience when many (not all) ask for the tie &tease they expect me to and seduce them in some way but for me this is quite awkward as I don't feel like this is domination it's me being a fetish escort no offence to any who are more power to you woman but it's not my style and for me it feels like the sub is in control of the session as it's then my job to fulfil his needs as I do in a session but in my own way but with being in control it's a confusing subject to me as so many have diff opinions as to wat tie and tease is

Many moons ago when I done classes (yes there are classes for dominatrices) the and tease was brought to me in a diff way as I experienced in many fetish clubs to me many men who don't have a clue about not all bit most ask for the and tease as an induction to BDSM I'm sorry but if u don't know 2 some extent wat your after your I'd consider that looking for a kinky experience rather than a BDSM session if your submissive it's in you, you might not have have evolved yet and understand yet as do us all starting kut but u at least have an idea of wat gets u going most Mistresses are not mind readers we need some feedback some at least outlines to make a most pleasurable experience for all most of all Mistress

[Mistressscarlett]

I appreciate that, I do like all elements of the tease though and that definitely includes elements of pain. For me tie and tease is about surrendering control and the anticipation about what the Dom does with that control. Your idea of torment and humiliation definitely appeals to me. I'd agree with Anita that the aspects of tie and tease that most appeal to me are ones that would generally be associated with a bdsm experience rather than a traditional escort. For me the perfect tie and tease would involve a good verbal humilation, some whipping/caning and possibly a strap on session. All while I am tied up and have no control.

Soinds like an avarge day to me and that's out if the office

[coby]

I completely understand what you mean about the restriction giving you no control and up to the Mistress to decide what comes next..i don't mean I just want to the men up and terrorise them (if only) I work within limits but from my experience when many (not all) ask for the tie &tease they expect me to and seduce them in some way but for me this is quite awkward as I don't feel like this is domination it's me being a fetish escort no offence to any who are more power to you woman but it's not my style and for me it feels like the sub is in control of the session as it's then my job to fulfil his needs as I do in a session but in my own way but with being in control it's a confusing subject to me as so many have diff opinions as to wat tie and tease is

Many moons ago when I done classes (yes there are classes for dominatrices) the and tease was brought to me in a diff way as I experienced in many fetish clubs to me many men who don't have a clue about not all bit most ask for the and tease as an induction to BDSM I'm sorry but if u don't know 2 some extent wat your after your I'd consider that looking for a kinky experience rather than a BDSM session if your submissive it's in you, you might not have have evolved yet and understand yet as do us all starting kut but u at least have an idea of wat gets u going most Mistresses are not mind readers we need some feedback some at least outlines to make a most pleasurable experience for all most of all Mistress

I understand what you mean but I also could imagine an escenario with orgasm control that can be kinda torturous. I can imagine being tied and the mistress starts playing with me, she build me up even using a Hitachi or the milking machine but every time I'm about to cum she stops and she keeps doing time and time again until I'm begging her to allow me. Then she ask me to beg her to suck her strapon and to get fuck by her if I ever want to cum. Once she is satisfied, if she is, she would make me cum perhaps with the milking machine or just releasing one of my hands to do it while she fucks me. She can even tell what a slut I am that I sucked and took her strapon just to cum.
In addition to that she may keep going afterwards with post orgasm torture to that paradoxic point where I'm begging her to please stop while before I was begging her to continue.

It doesn't involve much pain but I think it would really state who is in command and could be a tie and tease session more focused on the domination world. 🙂