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Liberty Love (21-02-17)
I never understood how this actually happens
I can't blame them for thinking like that. It has to make meaningful sex in a relationship very difficult. I mean, if you have just had sex with say 5 or 6 guys that day you will hardly be in the mood to have sex again with your boyfriend it could seem too much like work. Yes, there will be a different level of intimacy with a boyfriend but it can't be easy.
Davina (20-02-17), joggon (19-02-17), Mr Sweet Guy (19-02-17)
You 100% right mate as then ladies it got to be difficult to smile and kiss and touch you if no attraction....
As put yourself or myself in their shoes and imagine a ladies come to meet you as you work as male Escort and she say in her 60s and no attraction to her as how would you feel as myself would feel awkward and uncomfortable....And you right after so much sex it would be hard to get intimacy with your boyfriend later that night as some of them ladies work from 11am to 4am and that is hard sex....
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Davina (20-02-17)
For what its worth , about being forced to work in a brothel in lieu of benefits on the social welfare - Complete hoax : https://feministire.com/2015/01/30/h...thel-job-hoax/
Surprised that anyone actually believed that - if it were true , then a sizeable number of recent migrants could be legitimately funnelled into working in brothels etc which clearly isnt the case.
Re the programme - i'm always suspicious about documentaries with a sensationalist angle on any topic and from any side. Its easy ,particularly on this subject matter , to push the victims / happy hooker scenario depending on the agenda.
Mind you ,in this case , there appears a farcical lack of worker rights which breeds exploitation when women are pretty much expected to work long hours for pittance financial reward and little /no unionised power. There seems a shameless lack of recognition for the sex sellers general workers rights which certainly is to be condemned.
Davina (20-02-17)
Firstly this is not set in Ireland, I don't know any girls here in this situation
The girls who believe a guy loves them and does it for them (usually because they are worried that the guy will have to go to prison as they are thugs), this is all very real and happens frequently I have seen this in person. I found it unbelievable i really couldn't get my head round the guys coming on a Saturday night to collect the weeks money and take the girl to a hotel for a night off where he fucks her stupid. They stay away from their families and children doing this, one girl I knew had 3 properties and a business premises none of which were in her name. I said to her so he's your pimp why is it all in his name she said because he says it's better, she was short of money to give him one week and wanted to borrow money from me. I spoke to a client of the place where we were working about it and asked if there was anything i could do to help her, he said it's the same with a lot of these girls and they don't realise until they can work no longer and they are dumped with nothing. Very sad but they don't see themselves as pimped or as victims.
This sort of club/sauna are just one step up from street girls they are grim to work in (I've never worked in one but I know girls who have) It might be annoying for guys to be chased for sex but with so many girls and such a low rate means they need to see as many guys as possible. Why even bother to pretend you like what you're doing for 60e. If they see 10 clients a day make 600 give 140 to the house that's a quarter of their earnings. So 480e and they've had to have sex with 10 men no wonder they hate it. I don't understand guys who think that's ok, any pussy will do as long as it's the cheapest. No respect for women at all. The girls there are certainly not gagging for it or enjoying it even if they've bothered to pretend for 60e. The only thing that is good about it is at least they are safe as there are panic buttons in the rooms.
Saying that thanks for the link it was interesting viewing although misleading in ways.
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milkman (21-02-17), Mr Sweet Guy (20-02-17)
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Shalom/salaam.
10,000 years of Middle Eastern civilisation and the place is not at peace but rather in pieces.
Liberty Love (21-02-17), Mr Sweet Guy (20-02-17)